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writes:i'm only 13 years old and my girlfriend want us to have sex and i said i wont do it until we have a condom. she said she cant get one. i want to know a way to get a condom with out my parents finding out and not having to be imbaressed at the store
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): family planning clinics or GUM clinics provide condoms free of charge.
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reader, shnookims  +, writes (5 November 2009):
 I agree with Lola and Satindesire... If you're embarrased to have people know your buying condoms then you're not ready for sex.
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reader, tux +, writes (5 November 2009):
 Personally, condoms or no condoms I do not think you should be having sex... Only have sex when you are ready to face the consequences having having sex, mainly being a baby. Condoms are great at preventing pregnancies, but they do not always work due to failure.. misuse or someone sticking a needle in it because they really want to secretly get pregnant.
Personally, i would find it questionable if a girl said lets have sex together and tried to get out of using condoms.. but well.. if you really must have sex, definitely obtain some condoms... planned parenthood or just goto a store a buy some and who cares what the clerk thinks... most likely they wouldnt even care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): I think Lola is right on. However, if it might come down to a situation where you're going to do it regardless, check your Yellow Pages for Planned Parenthood. They'll give you a condom without asking questions if you can get yourself through the door. And their clinics are usually on bus routes, to make it easier to get there.
But for goodness sake, please think about it. Ya, it's very cool that she's willing to do it. But that doesn't mean it's right that you should.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (5 November 2009):
 Well, you won't like this advice, but if you're "man enough" to have sex, you are "man enough" to buy condoms.
While I am glad you have refused to have sex without protection, I hope you change your mind and choose to abstain for now.
If you think buying condoms is uncomfortable, imagine how embarrassing it would be to have to see a doctor about an STD or having to deal with the consequences of a broken condom!
Good luck.
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reader, SugarBear +, writes (5 November 2009):
 See if you can find some free condoms when you look up online free samples of condoms.
They got sent to us one time.
Also you are way to young to have sex, or pay for a baby so try to wait for a long time... Your body is not even fully developed yet. Wait till your a strong man..and in Love...
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