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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Help! How do I let him go...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend, "Chris", broke up with me. I honest to God, truly loved Chris. I wanted to be with him forever, but he didn't see it the way I did. I'm heartbroken now, and I don't know what to do. I've told him before how much I liked him, but he ...

What can he do to make me climax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend can't make me cum! We're not having intercourse, but we do have oral and he fingers me. I've made him cum dozens of times! It's not hard at all! What he does to me feels amazing and I really like it, but he says that he feels bad for ...

He wanted to date me, I said no, now I want to say yes he is saying no

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - im starting to feel quite depressed the boy i like told me he likes me too but it 'isnt the right time for a relationship' he used to try to go ou with me all the time but i didnt want to then and now ive realised i do like him after all. its ...

Should I tell my mum and dad I'm gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5455 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I'm gay what's the problem with it? I want to tell my mum and dad but I know they will freak out, my parents are really homophobic, that's why the only people I let know I'm gay are the guys I date, none of my friends know because I know it will ...

How do I ask her if she's bi or straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hey. I'm bi, and I'm in year 12 at school. At school, there is this girl i fancy in year 13. I'm really attracted to her, and I can't stop thinking about her. I want to be with her. I don't know about her sexuality, I just know that she's quite ...

Why??? What have I done wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Hey, I met this girl on a school trip to china. we spent a week there and everyone got really close. When we got back she text me a lot, i invited her out to the cinema with some friends and we both had a really good time. I'm pretty sure she likes ...

Will he ask me out or not...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - few months ago i met this guy, well I have to admit that I liked him since the first moment I saw him but i really didn't think that anything could happen between us since he's sooooo shy and serious. with time he started paying more attention to me ...

I need your help! How can I get my boyfriend to stop having sex with me until we are married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and almost 2 months. In the beginning we completely fell in love with each other and had so much fun together. We first had sex together about 2 and a half weeks after we had started dating. We ...

Our long distance relationship just isn't working...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boo are in a LDR. I was prepared to split up as the distance is so big, he was really keen about keeping it going. My compromise was to talk every day, be it phone, skype, msn, letter you name it. This didn't happen. He started making e...

Am I too well endowed at 14?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I'm 14 and my penis is 10 inches long and about 6.5 inches around when hard. Is this too big for sex? One of my friends saw it and said it was too big to have sex. Will it get any bigger?...

How can I get noticed more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - ok here goes im 14 now and so far my best friend has gotten soooo much attention off the boys in our year its unbeleivable but some times i feel left out because none of them even notice me, its not like i dont get attention at because on my way ...

Why do boys always mess me around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - The other night one of my friends said something that really made me think. He said; 'Oh Jess, why do guys always mess you about? :(' Which made me think, why do they?! All my last relationships have ended badly. And I dont know what im doing ...

HELP!! I'm headed for a breakdown!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - right, here goes... i don't know what to do with myself. in theory my life is good, i'm at college, got a decent relationship with my mum, got an absolutely amazing guy who would do anything for me and has asked me to marry him. but undernea...

I need my mind to be put at rest as I'm really worried...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi. im a bit confused... i started bleeding really lightly it started off brown and ended a pink colour, the bleeding only lasted for 2-3 days on/off...im confused because it was ten days early as well, i usually bleed heavily and it lasts for 5-6 ...

How do I get "free" again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hello, I have a problem, I used to be an exellent student I didn't repeat any class and everybody was respecting me and I was always the hard working girl, but in the beginning of my adolescence something changed inside of me, my parents and my ...

How do I tell my boyfriend my friend is coming to see me (us) in a few weeks time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 November 2009 (?) - Hi, I moved to London with my boyfriend earlier this year, everything is great, i just miss my friends! my best friend in the whole world is coming to london in December to visit her family and me too and she has assumed we will do something tog...

Super cautious NOT to get pregnant...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My bf and I just had sex for the second time and he made sure the condom was on, every 5 minutes, and when he was about to ejaculate we took it off then i did oral sex on him, when we were done i checked if the condomwas leaking or anything and ...

14 and want a baby...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Im 14 and i really want a baby. i know this sounds stupid at my age but its all i think about. i havent had a good education at school so far but i think if i have a baby it will be great. just somebody to love to be there for to give it a cuddle ...

I love him so much but I want to hate him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I love him so much but I want to hate him. What shall i do to oppose my emotions towards him?! please help!...

His size is affecting our relationship. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - This may not sound as important but it is to me. I dated my former boyfriend for almost 7 months. All was well, especially the sex because he was well endowed. We broke up recently then i met someone else who is incredibly small. He's a great guy ...

Does she really like me? Is it worth waiting for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - a few weeks ago, a girl came up to me who i didn't know and just started to talk to me. we got on really well swapped numbers and everything and we went out a few times. she kept telling me how much she liked me and how she really wanted to be with ...

Unprotected sex with an ex, could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and i just had unprotected sex 3 days ago which was November 28, 2009 the day rite after my period or 2 days after one of the two, im scared because he nutted in me and i know there is a hiqh chance of qetting pregnant ... he ...

I can't just be his friend... it hurts too much...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I am 15 years old and me and my boyfriend split up about a month ago and i thought things were going to be fine. I started seeing this other lad and things seem good to start with. Then all my feelings for my ex came back and i split up with my ...

How can I sort this whole phone mess out with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi guys, sorry this is drawn out but I don't think it will make any sence otherwise A while ago (febuary) me and my closest friends had a massive falling out(i'd rather not go into that though) none of them would talk to me unless it was to threat...

I want to kiss my girl, but my Mom might be watching

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I have a date saturday night with my girlfreind. I have dated her before and we broke up. We got back together about 2 months ago via email and have been talking on the phone. We are going to the movies and my mother is chaproning us. I want to let ...

I would love to hear your love stories and if it worked out...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. I feel I'm in love, but I am just curious about your love story? Did it work out in the end? Still together? Can't dream of anything better? Please share your story, with me, I've known him since I was in 1st grade and he was in 3rd, I ...

Best positions for full penetration??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfrnd for 5 months. Yesterday we had intercourse but only half of his penis penetrated me even although I was lubricated enough. I want to know the reason behind this and why he couldn't penetrate ...

What can I do to keep my relationship alive?

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30 November 2009 (M) - Wow I don't know, me and my girlfriend we been together for two years and we were happy, by july 19 everything has changed, she acts like she don't know me no more every time I'm talking to her she doesn't listen to me. I love her, we have one son ...

Could someone help me on a couple sex questions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - i would like to know the chances of getting pregnant if the male has had a std for more then 2 months. i dont know all the details because i am doing this for my friend. but i would also like to know how do you know if you are allergic to a condom?...

What to do about his bad boy behaviour...im having his baby...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend/father of my unborn baby is a big pothead. I get so mad because he constantly smokes around me. He stays drunk Thursday - Monday. He has no job but is in college 2 days a week. When he is by himself he doesn't smoke weed as much as when ...

How can this be rape when I'm of legal age? His grandmother says she's going to call the cops!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17. I keep getting caught having sex with my boyfriend by his grandparents. He's 19. Yes he lives with his gparents they need help around the house. His grandmother said tht if we have sex then thts rape. How can this be rape when I'm at a legal ...

I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Im 13 and i like this guy but he dosnt know i like him how do i text him and like tell him that i really like him without him freaking out.. ...

Do I tell her how I how I feel, and how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for 2 and a bit months, and already I see it taking a nose dive towards another failed relationship. Well, she wanted me to go to hers last night because she had the house to herself, as much as I wanted to see her pret...

Does he want me as much as I wdnt him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - i think this boy likes me but im not sure whether hes prettending to the problem is i like him were best mates in p.e. he will feel my bum and penis wat sal ido because im to emberrased to ask him out because he might not be gay...

How do suggest to my girlfriend that I'd prefer it if she shaved down there...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I was intimate with my girlfriend the other night, it was great. But her it was really hairy down there and i thought it as a turn off. I'd prefer it shaved like, it would feel 'nicer'. But i dont know how to go about asking her. It's no big deal, I ...

Should I get the morning after pill just to be on the safe side?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Last night I got extremely drunk at a party and ended up having sex with one of my guy friends. We used protection, because I remember that I insisted on it, and even when he pulled out we kept the condom on until he came, but i'm worried about what ...

More than friends: Tells me he loves me, now we don't even talk any more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have been close friends with this guy for about 3/4 years now, and twice in the years i've known him hes came out and said that he likes me more than a friend; both times it went nowhere and we continued as friends, then recently about 2 weeks ago ...

The thought of her in his bed makes me feel sick!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's been really close to another girl and i dont know what to do. We were out yesterday and i was playing with his phone when i stumbled across some texts between him and this girl at his uni. I've met her and she seemed nice enough b...

I want a sex toy and I'm only 16..how do I go about that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

29 November 2009 (?) - Why is clitorial stimulation not enough? I want to stay a virgin but when I masterbate I dont just want clitorial stimulation. I am not old enough to get a 'toy' for not just my clitoris but others(vaginal) So my question is what do I do...

Why do guys always only want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - This might take a while but I really need help, please answer if you can. I'm in my final year at school and I have always thought this guy in my year is really nice, gorgeous and a nice personality. I never even thought about me and him being ...

Am I gradually turning gay? Or it is because my dad isn't here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - So, theres this teacher(guy) at my school who is very nice, tall and fairly ripped and good looking, alwase goes easy when a student misbehaves and so on. My dad was a sperm donor, so i never met him. I am 13, i dont know how old he is but looks mid ...

How I found my love...

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29 November 2009 (M) - Hello friends how are you? I hope you will like my story! I am a Pakistani and I am Apathan. When I was a boy of about 8 or 9 I liked a girlfor a number of years. Her name was Sumaira and she was a pretty girl. I played with her when I was ...

I am a girl crushing on my Lady teacher

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - i think im in love with my teacher but i dont now the only problem is shes a girls and older than me im confussed and need help ...

I'm always the friend and never the girlfriend. How can I change this around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I dont get it, I'm always the friend to a boy, never the girlfriend and I hate it, its always "you're a great friend" or "I love you as a friend" never "I just love you" any tips on getting them to change their minds x thanks for the time ...

He stole my girl but says he will find me a new one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - hey my story began 1 year ago i used to had 2 best friendz and we used to share everything even our emails so the contacts are the same. one day one of them gave me a girl email because he said he had fighted with her and he dont wanna to talk with ...

I told her I wasnt ready, and that she felt lust not love, will she talk to me again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Welcome, This is my life, Im Dave 16 and 6 months old, Tash is 16 and 11 months old Im gonna write the situation, and Id be very thankful if you could give me the next steps I could follow. There is this girl called Tash, her and I are ...

I say Hi but he acts shy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - can someone help i like this boy but hes kepts ignoring me for no reason iv asked him if iv done anything wrong and he says i havent at first if he saw me he would have waved or smiled or said hi but now he says nothing and if i see him he looks ...

My boyfriend is losing interest, what can I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and we are both 17 and we love each other very very much, the only problem is im the loving and caring type and always want affection, when he shows it when he wants to, i mean he is a great ...

How sensitive IS a woman's vagina?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Lately my girlfriend and I have been really going at it when we make out. Lately we have been doing this thing where we will position ourselves in a way where I put my leg between hers and she locks it there and we kinda "grind" together. She really ...

I am pregnant and underweight, and need some dietary help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hi, and thanks for anyone that replies back to me :) I just had two quick questions. Well three months ago I found out I was pregnant so I started going to the Health Department here where I live for one of there programs. The last I went there was ...