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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I really like this guy who is two years older than me. I told his cousin, who is my friend, and she told him. He doesnt want a relationship because he doesn't want to get hurt. I've been cheated on four times and well here I am trying again. He's only had one girlfriend and that was ages ago but he's liked girls who don't like him back and he's been left heartbroken.I don't know if he likes me. I'm such a coward so I haven't told him I like him. Ever since his cousin told him, he's been teasing me. Not in words but when we talk he gets really close and I get very nervous. I get nervous just by being in the same room with him, so whenever he get close I just lose it. I don't even look at him in the eyes. I think he enjoys making me nervous. It's happened for a while now and I've caught him throwing glances at him and vice versa. He keeps on teasing me whenever we are surrounded by telling me mean things. We don't usually talk because i don't have him for any class.Today in the morning, I went with my friend to the library because she's in the book club and I was gonna go in but he was there so I didn't and stayed outside with my guy friend. When the library opened and we went in, I was cracking up because my guy friend had just told me something really stupid and well we were really close. I saw him see this and I just ignored him. We got on the computers and he got one away from ours. I was talking to my friend and he kept teasing me by making rude comments. Then he just asked me for a paper and said that he was too lazy to get his backpack despite the fact that it was like a table away. Afterwards I continued ignoring him and everytime I would steal a quick glance at him he would do the same.I really don't know what to think because well I don't want to get my hopes up by thinking he likes me.
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reader, SugarBear +, writes (5 November 2009):
Always just keep your cool, be easy breezy and smile say hi and flip your hair alittle when you see him oh always smell good too be very girly. If he likes you he will come up and talk to you. You can always give him a wink to let him know its ok if he comes up and talks to you.... Only marry a guy that gives you butterflies in your tummy all the time when he smiles at you.... I am sure he likes you.
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