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writes:ok the guy i have liked forr aggess has asked me out and he is my first boyfriend....well this is kindof embaressing but i have never kissed anyone before and i dont want him to think i am a rubbish kisser...so how do you kiss?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys :) that's made me feel a little bit better and to Anonyy he is really experienced and has kissed quite a few girls which is why i am really worried about kissing him because he may be comparing me to the other girls he has kissed before.
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reader, the bear +, writes (5 November 2009):
ok sweetie, the other answer had a bit of useful info, but lets flesh it out a bit. The actual kiss itself involves a lot of stuff you'll enjoy. You know how you hold your lips/mouth when sucking a straw? That's the exact same way to kiss! Just apply a teensy tiny suck as you guys part from the kiss. If you're standing, you, girl, can help him along by moving right into him as the kiss starts. Snuggle up there, Babe! Make sure he can feel your body against his - but gently, almost tentatively. Betcha he pulls you into a tighter hug! Then the break will come - that's the time to look into each others' eyes wonderingly, sometimes nervously checking the other person out - is/was it ok to do that? No talking, now, as another kiss almost always follows, same thing as above - the straw pucker - and again move right into him - gently, eagerly, tentatively. Betcha again you get another hug - those are fun too! After a few more kisses, or the next time you are kissing again, unless he's already opened your mouth with his ( we guys LOVE intruding into you girls, physically )then open your own mouth a tiny bit and touch the tip of your tongue to his mouth. By then, you should be off and running, so to speak!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (5 November 2009):
Nobody can explain how you kiss, you just do it. Nobody had an instruction manual the first time they kissed someone so don't feel embarrassed. It's usually a fairly natural thing, it's not a hard thing to do. Besides that, kissing someone new is always technically a "first kiss," everyone kisses differently and some kiss better than others. I would just suggest...don't slobber and not too much tongue, but that's just my preference.
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reader, FireAndIce  +, writes (5 November 2009):
Hahaha, so cute! There's no right way to kiss, everyone has a specific technique that they enjoy.
Truth be told, in most cases (mine included) first kisses can be rubbish. It's a matter of practice makes perfect ;)
But my best advice would be, start off gently, let him guide you and don't use too much tongue.
It's just one of those things that comes to you naturally.
Enjoy it, there's nothing quite like a first kiss ;)
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reader, _Anonyy_ +, writes (5 November 2009):
Hunny, there's no proper way to kiss someone, just do what feels right to you and your lips will do the rest!!! You should never plan how your first kiss is gonna be!! Thats what makes it special. So you can laugh about it when youre my age :D :D Practice makes perfect!!
P.s. Don't use too much tongue if at all!!!
P.p.s if you feel like this is not a good plan I would just ask him if hes kissed a girl or hes a virgin, weird stuff like that to get a feel for how experienced he is. Don't be embarrassed girlie!!
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