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*atielee12345
writes:My best friends boy-friend kissed another girl and guess who it was! ME!! But i dont like him .... I think he's a jerk. So should i tell her or walk away ?? Cause i dont want to tell her and ruin our friendship...PLEASE I NEED HELP!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): Yes, you must tell her and the key is before he or someone else does. Something similar happened to me years ago. My friend was so hurt and angry for awhile but we were able to stay friends.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (5 November 2009):
 You might loose your friend anyways, after all her BF kissed YOU and you "let" him.
I still suggest that you are honest and tell her.
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reader, FireAndIce  +, writes (5 November 2009):
You have to tell her. But the thing is,did you kiss him back? And how did you get into a situation where it led to him kissing you?
She'll be angry and upset,that's for sure, but if you don't tell her and she finds out from someone else,she'll feel betrayed.
The longer you wait, the more difficult it's going to become to say anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): did you kiss him back or slap him?
definately tell her, she will find out and will hate you if you dont
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reader, Sammycake  +, writes (5 November 2009):
 I'm confused, if you don't like him, then why did you kiss him?
I think you should tell her because this guy does sound a bit dodgy - if she has any sense, she'll realise that you're more important than he is and won't have a big fall out with you. If she does, don't panic, she'll come to her senses.
Good luck.
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