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Archived questions from: 21 November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Love triangle, my boyfriend, me and his sister?!?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I've been there for him through a lot of family problems. He lives at home with just his sister (with no parents) and he's 19 years old. I just feel like his sister takes full advantage of him...

I'm 14 and just into boys... how do I flirt???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Guys, I've never really had a boyfriend before but I really like this guy and everyone is telling me to just flirt with him but how do you flirt? Could you give me tips on stuff I could use because honestly I haven't got anything....

Do other christian girls masturbate?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Do other christian girls masturbate? i feel like im doing something horrible. I dont have a boyfriend and never even had one. Lately ive been so horny so i wanted to hear more stories about girls my age who do and are strong believers too. I know ...

Should I reconsider my outfit???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) - I'm going to a concert tonight with my cousin (26), her boyfriend (26), and his brother (18). I'm 16. I know this is silly, but I've seen pics of this guy (cousins bf's little brother) and I think hes really cute :) i was planning on wearing ripped ...

Turning 16 soon and need ideas on hosting a birthday party on a reasonable budget?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Here's the deal, I am turning 16 in February and my budget is kinda cheap-as my parents aren't rich! I need ideas. I'm thinking of doing an 80's rock and roll themed party-or just a rock and roll theme. Not sure. Any ideas? Also I need ideas on the ...

In love with two different guys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I'm 14 now and in year 9, ive never had a boy friend before and im in love with two different guys, the first guy is someone who i have liked since we went on a trip to france last year an the other guy is my quite a good friend of mine, ive only ...

Help me! I need to get over him...........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I don't know whats wrong with me but I really have come to realize I am obsessed with my former teacher. I thought it was normal to fall in love with your teacher but its already been 4 years passed and i still can't get over this crush. Everytime i ...

Why do guys turn against girls when they really like them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Quick question... basically why do some guys, even the good guys... why do they turn against a girl if they like them a lot? Like why are they horrible to them or change the way they are with them depending on who they're with and where they are! ...

Why is she freaking out about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - There's this guy that I've been best friends with since like 3rd grade. We are so close cuz my brother and him are best friends and me and his sister are best friends. Anyways recently he's been really like touchy and he's one of the hottest most ...

How do you tell the one you love you love someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - How do you tell the one you love you love someone else? I have been with my boyfriend a year now and I'm very happy. I started talkling with his best friend and I'm starting to have really deep feelings for him and I don't know what to do... I'...

How do I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Me and my bf been together for four months now. And he has a baby boy at the age of 15. And he sees his son when he wants to or when his baby mama wants him over there. He tells me hes not with her and she already told me i could have him. But ...

What am I supposed to do next with this girl I know...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - Hi all, I've met this girl recently who goes to my university. She has a boyfriend too (who lives half country away), but this one night she said she was bored. So we spoke for hours then she wanted to meet me. We ended up getting a bottle and going ...

What do I do... pressure... or give her space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - hey all, ok i know a girl in my class since 3 months ago and its really going well, she is so nice and funny likes me and she knows that Ii do like her but I havn't said it at all, and I'm 70% sure she likes me back (why there isnt any 100% fo...

My ex boyfriend and my sister.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Two years ago I dated this guy. I really liked him but we got into a stupid fight and broke up. No one knew about us except for my best friend and his younger brother. Anyway, I recently found that he is very close to my older sister. She doesn't ...

Why does my boyfriend still want to talk with my ex knowing it bothers me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) - My bf talks to my ex knowing it bothers me. I don't know why he's keeping in touch with him after trying to steal me away from him. My main problem is that I feel like garbage. Because my bf basically tries to give me away. Like if I was an object ...

I am so emotional and upset with every click of the mouse when he looks at other girls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) - My bf looks at other girls in front of me and that makes me very sad and uncomfortable. He also browses for naked girls on the net... and constantly buys porn magazines and videos. It really bothers me! I have told him about it but it just seems ...

I saw her breastfeeding and it soooo turned me on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - We have a maid servant living in our house along with her husband, who is our driver. she gave birth to a baby girl about a month ago. About two days ago, I accidently, I repeat ACCIDENTLY saw her breastfeeding her child in her room when I had gone...

When my boyfriend is away I get used to feeling 'single'. Does this mean I don't love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Alright so my boyfriend and I have been together 11 months and 2 weeks. We have a sort of long distance relationship, but when he comes home he lives next door to me. But, ever since our relationship started after awhile i get over him being aw...

How can I convince her I'm not the same as her boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - OK I am feeling really sad lately. I am seriously in love with this girl. She says, she don't trust me because we haven't talked in person yet but we had known each other for almost 2 years. She has a possessive bf of about 3 year plus. She said...

We're very close but he ignores me in public

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Ok, im just so confused. So i like a guy, and he happens to be a good friend of mine...but he acts so weird. im really shy, so i cant initiate conversation. He used to have...sorta an unspoken rule about only talking to me once a day in a designat...

He's odd and I think he fancies me. I fancy him too so how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - there's this guy. he's really awkward, he does and says strange things. i just find it incredably alluring.. i have the biggest crush on him. he sits with me in class. i think maybe he's interested.. he pokes my hand with pencils, teases me, gets...

He's 22. I'm 13. How do I tell him I love him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - why did i ever have to fall in love with him? hes 22 and im just 13 its cuz his so cute so nice and is always there when i need help, so nice and polite. i dont know how 2 tell him i need him to know but im afraid he will hate me. what c...

Can I ever learn to trust my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - hey there i have a problem i would really like advice on. i love my bf, but i dont have trust, i really want to trust him but i keep thinking he is going to hurt me, by cheating on me or keeping secrets from me, i always have this thought in my he...

I want a baby and I don't care what my bf thinks! Is this bad to think this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - is this a bad way of thinking? if i want a baby i dont care what he [my boyfriend of six months] thinks if he wants to be around then he can if not then oh well? i can financially support a child on my own as well.. cuz the more i think about it...

Help me decide... what should I get my boyfriend for Christmas???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for three years, but we've been completely together since March 21st. We always talk about how we're going to have a kid, and a house, and everything. We're both 14, and we do no what true ...

If I ever have a baby, I really don't care if the father hangs around! Is this bad way to think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Is this a bad way of thinking? If i want a baby I dont care what the baby's father thinks. If he wants to be around then he can, if not, then oh well? i can financially support a child on my own as well.. cuz the more i think about it alot ...

I can't stop thinking about having a baby, but I know I'm not ready.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I'm always thinking, "What if I get pregnant?" and my answer in my head is, no matter what i'd keep the baby since me and my boyfriend both talk about it all the time, we cant wait until we're older to have kids. i never had a good mother, she was ...

Lately I've been paranoid about my long distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Lately, I've been really worried about my boyfriend. I feel like I have an unfounded fear... a couple of weeks ago I tried to break up with him and after I started talking to him I realized that he really does love me when previously I had been ...

A girl with a boyfriend likes me a lot... what should I do?

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21 November 2009 (M) - Hi guys, One of my friends (who has a bf, but doesn't see him much any more) has started hanging out with me a lot, she invites me out to town around once or twice a week, and sometimes sleeps round my house. I like her a lot myself. I can...

I would love to have a real relationship with a girl. (I'm also female).

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I really want to have a real relationship with a girl, but i'm really bad at starting up that kind of thing. i tried to find some groups and sites and such to help me meet new girls and get to know them, but everyone just seems to be there for the ...

I told him a very personal thing about me and now all his friends are calling me names. I don't know how to handle it any more. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) - Last night i told my boyfriend of 10 months that i had been raped before we got together and that is why i do not wish to have sex before we are married as i am scared and any time i think about sex i see His face. its horrible. Even for my ...