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He doesn't get it in before I push him away because of the pain!

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Question - (5 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ngeleyes1993 writes:

i just truned 16 and me and my boyfriend who is 23 have been going out for a year in half and he said he will wait till i am ready to have sex as it will be my first time and now that i am 16 i feel that i am ready to have sex .. i have been reading up on sex since i was 14 and i understand it all.

me and my bofriend have tryed to do it 6 times now but i can never go though with it. he doesnt get his penis in before i end up pushing him away because its hurting me

that not nomal is it? .. i think there something wrong with me?

please help me

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A female reader, _Anonyy_ United States +, writes (5 November 2009):

Yes what your feeling is completely normal. A friend of mine, before she had lost her virginity could only stick the tip of her pinky in her and then it would start to hurt her. Sometimes you just have to deal with it, I mean if you want to have sex I suppose. Some girls feel no pain at all, I didn't.

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A female reader, Brunette9010 United States +, writes (5 November 2009):

You need an hour of foreplay and he should know better!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009):

Relax and lubricate

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