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writes:Im 13 right now and im so scared about if im pregnate...i know i shoudnt of had sex and i know i should have used a condom, but i didnt think of it....it has been almost 12 weeks and i dont physicaly feel different but i cant get this out of my head. i had only done it with one person and i kno who he is he is 14 right now....im so scared to tell my mom and my dad is not the person who would let me live if i told him....when we did it his thing didnt go in me all the way. could i still get pregnate like that? im confused about this. no one knows and i need to know if i should tell people... what do i do? also we did it in august and i missed my sep. period but my periods have always been irregular....i need helpPlease help!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 November 2009):
 It's possible, maybe not very likely, but possible. I think you need to tell your mother so you can have her help you now. You're going to need to get a pregnancy test (from a drugstore) and see the doctor so you can be checked over and make sure everything is okay with you.
I know she'll be upset and maybe angry but she's your mother and loves you and will want what is best for you.
I have a video for you to watch: http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
I really wish you would tell your mother, part of your panic is that you feel like you're all by yourself in this. You need help, sweetie, and you might as well be brave and ask for it.
Good luck, I hope everything turns out for the best.
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reader, coco201 +, writes (5 November 2009):
you could be pregnant and maybe not. i suggest you tell you parents especailly your mom it things get worse. and do not have sex, you a little too young. but right the most important thing is for you tell you mom.
Good luck.
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reader, tux +, writes (5 November 2009):
 short answer is yes. long answer is that you could be, but odds are fairly low unless he did ejaculate with what he did have in you. if you dont want a child yet, dont have sex and more importantly, dont have unprotected sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): You should talk to your mom or an adult that you trust (an aunt, a teacher, a school nurse) as soon as possible. In the future, don't have sex until your completely ready to handle the consequences. Teenage life can be very difficult as is... why make things more complicated with the adult responsibilities that go along with sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): You shouldn't be having sex if you are so young that you dont understand how it works.
Yes you can get pregnant. Speak to your Mother, explain the situation to her and go to the doctors together for a medical check and contraception.
You will find this hard to believe but saving yourself for your husband is the most special gift you could give. It also gives you a sense of pride and respect for yourself knowing that you "gave yourself" to the man you will be with for the rest of your life.
Good luck and I hope you are not pregnant
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