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writes:hey. Well straight to the point. I've been talkin dirty over the net to this guy i've known for quite a long time. We've been good mates for a couple of years now.So, We're planning to get down and dirty, sometime soon in the future.But i actually think i could eventually like him more than just a friend, and i'd like to see if we're compatible. He's the first guy i actually want to have as a sex buddy, but I also think we could be more than just friends/sex buddies maybe in the future. We haven't done anything yet obviously. But when we do, is there anything I can do to attract him to me for more than just a sex buddy?He says he's been attracted to me since we first met. It's the same for me. So i guess it's first off a physical attracton. There's also been no talk of feelings or anything. He's a really nice guy and he has treated me with total respect the whole time i've known him. So any idea's on how to attract him to seeing me more regularly? and not just for sex, when we eventually do go there.Thanks Cupid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI was meant to name it I MIGHT WANT MORE EVENALLY.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (5 November 2009):
 I think the way you find out is that you withdraw from the situation. You need to tell him what you're going to do and why and that will pretty much plunk the ball into his court. Then you'll see where you really stand with him. I don't think you're going to be happy but you might as well find out know before you get in deeper and have your heart broken.
He thinks this is just a bit of fun, he doesn't know that it means more to you and that you want more of him than sex. So it's time to tell him.
-Hey, this has been fun and all but my heart's starting to get into it and I don't want to be hurt if you don't feel that there's more than just sex here. So if you want to be more than just FWB, great, I'd love it. But for now, I need to back off before I get hurt.
He'll have a chance to show you what he thinks then. He's probably in it for fun. A guy that wanted to have you as a girlfriend would be taking you out, showing you off to his friends, getting to know you better beyond the sex talk.
Good luck, I hope things turn out for you.
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