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What are the "three bases" people refer to with making out or sex?

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Question - (5 November 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2009)
A female age 26-29, *ocker_grl_96 writes:

ok so i feel really dumb for not already knowing this but what are the 3 bases? i mean i feel that i rally should know but for some reason i dont and i think its just cause when i was younger i just kept telling myself i will know later and now i thought about it and really dont know.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009):

I dunno if it's changed, but my take is the same as Tisha's. Someone here a few months ago put it more succinctly but infinitely less delicately:

French

Feel

Finger

Fuck

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (5 November 2009):

Tisha-1 agony auntWhen I was a teenager, first base was kissing, second base was anything above the waist, third base was anything except intercourse below the waist and home was intercourse. I believe that's all changed now.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (5 November 2009):

DoubleM agony auntIn my opinion, first base is kissing and petting (which may include some breast massage). And may include the female rubbing a guy's genital area without direct exposure.

Second base may be the male massaging or feeling the girl's exposed genital area, which may include fingering her vagina. The activity can also include direct massage of the guy's exposed genitals. These activities may or may not result in a sexual orgasm by either participant.

Third base, in my opinion, might be considered oral sex, such as a blow job or cunnilingus, which probably results in a sexual orgasm for one or both.

The home run, of course, is perhaps all the above followed by full penile/vaginal intercourse, which hopefully results in sexual orgasm for both partners. The progression and successful results of these activities may be accomplished in a variety of order.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009):

wikipedia has an entry on this:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baseball_metaphors_for_sex

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (5 November 2009):

Illithid agony auntThese days, the three bases are usually refered to as:

1st: Kissing

2nd: Fondling (touching breasts, butt, etc)

3rd: Oral sex

Home: Full sex (vaginal or anal)

But more traditionally, oral sex was still considered Home, so there's some flexibility as to exactly where your morals put each step.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009):

first : anything above the breasts : probably kissing , smooching, giving love bites, hugging etc

second: anything to do with breasts

third: anything to do with the parts under breasts

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