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Archived questions from: 22 November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I smell bad and I don't want sex because of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and have currently been in a 1 year relationship with my boyfriend. Only recently i have noticed and increase in the amount of discharge i am producing, its a white colour and is very think with an off putting smell which puts me off having ...

How do you know when your hymen is no longer there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Okay so my question is pretty simple, how do you know when your hymen is no longer there? I mean I've been fingered before and I've managed to get like a 5 inch dildo up there so that mean it's gone right? I know it's an odd question but I was just ...

I can't keep it hard during sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I've got a problem but I don't have a clue what causes it: Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend; whom i care deeply for; I sort of gradually lose my erection- like really slowly over 20 minutes or so- and no matter what (if she's performing ...

I am a freshman and he is a senior. and I think I'm falling for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - okay, so i am a freshman and he is a senior. and i think im falling for him... he is great and is always by me; hugging me, touching me. but he has a gf... what shuld i do?? i think im falling hard...

Is there a chance that good friends can become more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5490 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - I've been really good friends with a girl for about 6 months now but i've always had a little more for her that she doesn't know about, she's just broken up from a long term relationship and i've seen her alot more but i'm afraid we're too good ...

Trouble with the contraceptive implant! help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - i have the contraceptive implant. i must of had it in for atleast 2 1/2 months now and ive been bleeding constantly, however its not normal menstrual blood its different. me and my boyfriend do not use condoms btw. i dont know whether im pregnant. i ...

I'm very worried that I can't tell if I like girls or guys, or both

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - [Moderator note: You are not bothering us with 'stupid teen' questions. We're here to help as much as we can.] hi i have a big problem and i need help figuring this out in my life. im only 17 but i am having trubble telling if i like girls or guys ...

How can I be more interesting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 1 year now and I love him to bits. But today, he hit me with a bombshell: "Youre so f***ing boring." I understand where hes coming from: I dont know what to talk about and basically, I crumble in social ...

Where can I get a sex toy without my parents' knowledge?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Hey, I am 15, male, and i am straight, but i recently have been using my moms vibrator for anal pleasure. i like girls, but i also enjoy anal pleasure. is there any way i can get a butt plug, anal beads, or vibrator without telling my parents?...

I don't like or respect my mother. What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - OK I'll get straight to the point. For some reason i don't like or respect my mother. She never seems to stick up for herself and i hate the way she does things. Our home is full of junk that has come from her sister (my auntie) and she just doe...

Is this my period or implantation bleeding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hello I had sex with his guy I know ..I made him use a condom ... He continued to keep it on even tho he had came in it??? But, after a whle I made him put on a new one. Also, when he was puttin it on, he put it on he wrong way so he then would...

How can I have better luck with girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Something which has been troubling me lately: I've been going to a few parties, raves, social gatherings, etc recently, and usually i'll get a bit wasted and just have a good time, chill with friends, rave a bit, etc. The thing is, in the last...

I told him I liked him and he's still acting "normall" towards me. What next???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I told him that I like him and he has been acting normally, is that a good thing? How would I tell if he feels the same or if I should move on?...

I'm falling for a senior... but he has a girlfriend albeit they're going through a rough patch...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5490 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - hello everyone. I am a freshman in high school and there is this senior that i'm falling for. we are both involved in theatre, and whenever im around him, he will hug me and touch me and just be around me. He is such a sweetheart, and i love being ...

Why is my ex boyfriend's mate being wierd?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - A few months ago I went for a night out with my mate liam. When we were standing outside of the nightclub one of liams matescalled mark who I never met before came over and started to talk to liam.When we walked in to the nightclub I went to sit d...

I had a one night stand with my cousin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - hello, there is no one else i can talk to about what im going to tell. what ive done is illegal and could get me into alot of trouble, here is my story. okay so my cousin moved in with me my brother and my mom at the be...

What to do now he knows?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - The other day I texted my crush/ friend that I had a little crush on him. After that he wasn’t much different acting that I noticed and there was one point last week that I thought he told people but he didn’t tell anyone. I don’t know why he would ...

Happend so quick, it's hard to comprehend! . . . Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5490 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - hello. Ok so i need some guy advice people!! I started being friends with a guy a year ago... We tried going on dated for a few months and flirted... And you know those looong profound conversations on the phone. Yep, We had those. And we always...

Did I put my foot in by telling him I liked him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - The other day I text my crush/friend that I had a little crush on him. When I text him he actually answered one of my questions for once but after that he didn’t text back. I went to the movies with my friends and his brother and all throughout that ...

I think she's losing interest and just used me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I think my girlfriend is losing interest in me. We've been together for 7 months, at first we were really close. She knows everything about me, she used to send me sweet texts before I went to sleep every night. She's amazing, I love her more than ...

Am I trying for something that is unachievable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - There is this girl that I like. We have hung out a few times and it has been pretty great. The only thing is that we are pretty different. We are both in college and it just occurred to me that we are rather different. She takes liberal arts cla...

I kissed two guys in one night. Does that ruin my chances with one of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy who's a few years older than me, and we hung out once and he seems pretty cool. we both went to the club with different people but we ended up talking that night and when we were dancing he kissed me. i kissed him back to a bit i ...

Should I tell her again that I'm crazy about her? She just wants to be friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - I'm a sophomore in college, and I find myself in a bit of a bind. I have not been in a relationship in over three years now. While I normally would not complain about this, I have my eyes on a girl who graduated the same year as me from the same...

I fancy him and keep bumping into him. I don't want him to think I'm a stalker!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Well, I like this guy, and I see him everywhere (and I mean EVERYWHERE). He works at a resturaunt that I frequent (not for him, but the food). The good thing is that he always smiles, waves and makes sure to have a conversation with me, but I'm ...

Will he 'fit' when we have sex tomorrow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I really need help . I am 18 and i going to have sex with my boyfriend of 4 years tomorrow and i am worried that my vagina is to small for his penis.like stretching wise and i was wondering how can i make it fit if it doesnt? and some advice f...

How do I gain more confidence with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 3 months and i have not got any confidence around him what so ever, I really want 2 make the effort. How could i turn him on so he want to come onto me? Also have you any ideas that will help gain my confidence? Please...

How long can sperm be active outside of body? Can I get pregnant if he doesn't cum inside me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - okay so me and my boyfriend have sex, and i was just wondering is it possible to get pregnant even if he doesnt cum directly inside of me? how long can sperm be active outside the body???? ...

I want sex from him all the time now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and i have sex a lot. Is this a bad thing? I really like it but sometimes i wish i wouldve lost my virginity when i was older. Now i just want to do it, now that im not scared and i know how good it is. I have an amazing boyfriend that i...

I loved him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I still cant believe it. I lost my virginity when i was in 8th grade and only 14 years old. Now its changed my life forever. I dont feel like its a bad thing but when i think about it hard, it kinda disappoints me. Ive had sex with two guys now and ...