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writes:Ok this may take a while but please read all of it. I really need some advice on this. I'll start this story in with my 7th when I was 14 grade year. I met this girl named Laurinda and I'm not gonna lie at first I thought she was just some annoying little girl, then I met her sister and it didn't take long until I found out that her sister had feelings for me so I asked her out she and she said yes. We went to the movies and I went over her house a time or 2 and we had a some fun but it was never really a relationship, I never told her I loved her and never called her or anything, but I bought her stuff all the time but I know that's still not a relationship so after school let out we lost contact and just didn't see each other anymore, of course she was a grade higher than me so the next school year she was in high school and I was in 8th. Her sister and I became friends after that and most of the year we sat with each other at lunch and seen each other as often as possible. Eventually she started dropping hints that she liked me and so I asked her out, she said yes and a couple weeks later we went to the movies, a week or so after that, I went to her house and I continued to go to her house every Saturday after that. I took my time in this relationship. I waited almost a month before I told her I loved her. Things were good for about 4 to 5 months until she stopped telling me she loved me. I got a little more worried each day and I would be depressed a lot and sometimes I would cry and pray and beg god that she doesn't leave me. Then after a while I wrote her a note and gave it to her in school, we were both now in the 9th grade. In the note I tried to cover everything. I told her that I wanted to be with her forever, I told her about my money situation and how I didn't have a lot of but I would work my ass off to make her haooy and to make sure she had what in life. She really gave me no reation at all. About a week later she broke up with me to date another guy. She told me that I was kinda annoying when we were together and I understand that I know I can be annoying, I like to have fun and joke around a lot and sometimes it makes people mad But the funny thing is that anybody who knows Laurinda knows how annying she is. She has ADHD and has to be doing something at all times. During our relationship I never cursed in front of her, I always told her she was beautiful, I tried to do what she wanted when I could. It's just I don't have much at all in my life. I have no money, I live in a crappy 3 room (not 3 bedroom, 3 room)apartment with my family. half of our utilites are shut off most of the time, but when I was with her I considered myself the luckiest guy in the world. Now things aren't so bad, It's been 2 months as of Nov. 5, I've got a date this weekend with a nice girl but I still don't feel right. Laurinda was my first serious relationship and I'm just not sure if I should try to get her back. I've made some stupid mistakes since the break up, I kinda asked her sister out like 2 weeks after we broke up, I don't know what I was thinking, I just thought I was over her then and I wasn't. Laurinda now has another boyfriend and he's a nice guy, he seems like the type that would treat her right and all that. I'm just not sure if I should leave things alone or try to get her back. Thanks for reading and thanks for any advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want to apologize to everyone who reads this. I was tired when I wrote this. In the beggining it says "I'll start this story in with my 7th when I was 14 grade year" It should say "I'll start this story with my 7th grade year when i was 14" sorry for any confusion
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