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writes: can anyone help me interpret these dreams? im so confused.lately me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot. we broke up on monday night (its thursday morning now). on monday night, i had a dream that i went out and kept drinking and drinking, trying to get rly drunk but i jus couldnt. as much as i drank i couldnt get myself to feel any different and i got so frustrated that i started screaming and yelling and jus going crazy. then i woke up and was thinking about it alll day. it jus rly hit me hard and i feel as tho it may have something to do with out break up. ideas?on tuesday night, i dreamt that i was in the back seat of my car.. like it was dribing on its own and i was freaking out trying to get into the front seat and control it but it jus stopped on the side of the road. the location i remember was just a very short time down the road. right before the curve in the road to lead to my house. so i could almost see my house but not quite. then someone driving a truck that looked exactly like my boyfriends pulled up beside me and drug me out of the car. it was a man that i dnt know, a woman that i dnt know, and my little 10 year old sister (i didnt take it to be my sister in the dream tho, just some little girl) the man attacked me and put me on the ground and told me to stay there. i reached for my cell phone and kept trying to dial 911 while they were all distracted but everytime i tried, i would hit the wrong numbers (like 919 or 611) and i couldnt control myself enough to gain composure. then the man came up to me and took my jeans off and started having sex with me. i only saw his face once and then it was like me, in my dream, blacked out. right before this man took my jeans off, my boyfriend drove by in his truck, i was screaming for him and trying to get him to help me but he jus looked over at me and kept driving. he around the curve in the road to my house, then turned right around and came back. i was screaming for him again but he jus looked over and kept driving. these people then took me somewhere that i dnt know, where there were lots of other kidnapped people strung together by ropes i asked "wheres my mom? if u hurt her i will kill you if u dnt kill me first" and i laughed.. then i woke up.i woke up feeling so helpless, breathing heavy, wondering so much about this dream, and it hit me so hard for some reason i was about to cry. i jus kept thinking why didnt he help me??i knowwwww it was jus a dream and it doesnt rlly matter cuz it didntt really happen and it very well could have meant nothing at all but it was left me very curious to both of these dreams. do u think it was anything to do with me and my boyfriend? please let me know. thanks!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 November 2009):
This is all because of your break up, and won't happen.
Your first dream symbolizes that you need to escape from what has happened, but you can't (you keep drinking, but nothing goes away)
The second dream symobolizes that you are feeling lost and that you don't have control of your life at the moment, also that you feel almost feel betrayed and deserted by your boyfriend who you now think was hiding something (the truck that drives past that is the same as his, but has different people in it).
None of it will happen, but you need to try and manage your worries, because it will make you unhappy if you don't. Give yourself plenty of time to heal. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): Your dreams seem to be anxiety dreams, which are a natural reaction to a break up. Excessive drinking and even driving in dreams usually symbolizes a need to escape. The feeling of losing control in a dream usually mirrors what you're feeling in real life - maybe you've been feeling out of control with all the changes that have been going on lately. Dreams like this are pretty common and can show you the things to work on in your life. After a break up it's important to manage your stress and anxiety - get plenty of exercise, spend time with friends, cry when you need to - you'll be feeling more like yourself in no time. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): Im in australia so its friday morning here.
These are just your imagination running wild. It will take some time to get over it.
I interpreted the first dream as you wanting a change in life.
The second one is the common break up one of feeling helpless and old bf not helping.
Since you are single now it is the best time to try something new. Is there anything you have thought about. Go on an adventure or just get away for awhile.
all the best and tonight try to dream of pizza. that works for me....now im hungry
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reader, gemgem1088809 +, writes (5 November 2009):
 These dreams tend to be suppresed emotion from splitting with your boyfriend. They don't mean the dream is actually going to happen to you. I would pinpoint certain aspects of these dreams, such as being attacked or seeing your ex and search google to interpret more in depth meanings. If you need anymore help please don't hesitate to contact me!
Good luck sweetie!
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