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writes: Ima try to make the story short.. Ok so I met this guy last year(he is now 22 and I am 18) and he asked for my number and he would call me almost everyday, but since he's older than me I didn't take him seriously. So we eventually lost touch and a year past. I started attending the college he was going to and I ran into him, we didn't speak. But he had mentioned me to him cousin which later contacted my friend and they somehow fixed me and this guy up. We have now been talking for about 2 months. Things were great, he always wanted to see me, we would text and talk on the phone. I think its safe to say we like each other, but lately we haven't been talking all that much and its been two weeks that we've seen each other. I understand he might be busy since we works, goes to the gym and occasionally goes out with his buddies (He is not attending college this semester). I myself have a job ,attend the college and volunteer and a near by school. (Yes, I know we are very busy people.) But lately I've felt him distant, like if he's TOO busy to at least give me a 5 minute call or text me just to see how I'm doing. My questions are if should I tell him how I feel? Does he still want to get to know me? Or is this a sign I should let things go?
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reader, django +, writes (25 January 2009):
Call, text, ask him. Don't act based on signs - maybe he really is busy, maybe he found somebody else and doesn't want to tell you, maybe ... you don't know. Find out.
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