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writes:My boyfriend is losing intrest me in slowly and I think it's because even though I'm 'mature' for being 15, I'm not perfect and him being 18, almost 19 makes him super mature, and sometimes I can't always keep up.Any advice about what I can do so he keeps on liking me?!? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): well, when you're 18…and you look back on your life, you will know that no 18 year old guy could be considered mature if he's dating a 15 year old girl…to tell you the truth…the idea of putting the word mature with ANY 18yo guy is next to impossible…not to mention that any physical relations would be illegal…what i would wonder most is—why can't this guy get a girl his own age, and is he using you?
beware of guys! many are just horny and out looking for an easy target…you've got plenty of years of love ahead of you…don't waste your time on this loser
when i was 15 (22 now), the oldest guy i ever dated was 17 and i knew that he was out just looking for sex kind of stuff…us girls have got to watch our backs…i remember my freshman year, a senior asked me out…he was cute and i felt flattered, but looking back on it now, all i can think is—"EW what a creeper!"
find a boy your own age…then, you can have the upper hand in the relationship…and he'll be the one worrying about how to keep your interest instead of the other way around
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (25 January 2009):
 Sweetie I know it hurts, but something else to consider is that you're 15 and he's 18 going on 19. I understand that you are a mature 15, but you're still 15 nonetheless.
He could also be looking at things from a legal stand point too. When we turn that age, we have alot more responsibilities, and repercussions for our actions. Statutory rape is probably not something he wants to get himself in to.
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reader, Cupcakes  +, writes (25 January 2009):
Oh hunny! You cant make someone love you. Been here done that and had the broken heart to prove it. Its hard to let some you love go. But if he loves you then you dont need to try. Just be your self and he will love you for who you are. If you try to make him love then you will just drive him away. There a saying 'if you love someone let them go' im not saying to end it but just be careful. Boys loose intreste quick. With all girls just dont take it to heart. Hope this helps. Let me know how it works out!!!! X
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