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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have a problem!I'm 14 and have only had one real boyfriend, sure ive had ones for like 1 day but only 1 real one. Since i turned 11 i havent liked one single person!! Is this weird? Ive been trying to think why, and iv'e realised that i only seem to like older men! Why is this? I just love the way older boys look. And i dont mean old old. I mean men at like 20-30. I like alot of celeb older men, like John Barrowman, Eric Mabius, Zac Efron, Josh Holloway. And then i also like Older boys that iv'e seen around school. I even like one of my teachers ( but thats another story ) Iv'e talked to my friend about this and she is the same age, and she has the same problem too. Why is it that i only like older men? What about if all my life i only like people who are older than me?Please somebody reply!xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 January 2009):
Look at the boys your age... to be honest it's not surprising you don't like them. They are little boys, and men are far better.
HOWEVER!
This does not mean you should talk to any older guys or consider an actual relationship with them.
Ask most women and they will look back and cringe at the ugly spotty boys they kissed when they were your age. Just save yourself for when they grown up a bit and you can find a guy who is into better things than lego.
In the mean time enjoy having crushes on lots of cute guys on tv and have great friendships instead.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): No it's not weird at all, it seems to me that you like guys with maturity, something which is rarely found in guys your age.It is well known that girls mature both mentally and emotionally sooner than boys, so it is quite normal to like older guys.Older guys tend to have a different way of carrying themselves too, they seem to be more at ease with themselves. While guys your age are still trying to discover who they are.
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