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30-35,
*itty_3
writes:In school, I'm focused, so i feel like guys always see me as a stickler and turn off because i'm really not showing any personality. i just don't know how to balance the two, and i'm not one of those giggley-giggley girls. i don't really flirt; i don't know how and i don't wanna act stupid. how can i be more fun in school? even when i'm in a class without friends?
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (26 January 2009):
kitty_3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question but i'd like to have a bit more fun in school... i just don't wanna get in trouble. i just wanna lighten up, you know?
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reader, Velma +, writes (25 January 2009):
I think you have plenty of time to meet guys. If your focus is on studying and learning, making good grades, it sounds like it is in the right place. In order to make friends of either sex, you need to be yourself. You will find guys who are focused on studies also, like yourself. These will be the ones whom you have something in common with. Maybe you can strike up a conversation with them about a test or a certain subject that you both find intriguing. I would not worry about not having a serious boyfriend. I would study hard so you can get scholarships to a good college. If you do find a boyfriend, I would keep it light and casual. Finish college first, work for a few years and then think seriously about settling down if you want to. It is very hard to start out young --raise a family, build a house, etc. It is really nice if you can stay home with your kids when they are little, and if you start out young and don't have a chance to save any money, it is almost impossible to do.Also, I would concentrate more on making some girlfriends. Then you have people to go out and have a good time with. The boyfriends will always come.
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