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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

What vibrator should I get?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone this is a question for the women lol I was thinking of buying a rabbit vibrator as I can't have a orgasm on my own which rampant rabbit vibrator is best do you think I was thinking of getting the thrusting one is this any good thank you ...

My girlfriend sexually fantasizes about one of her ex partners.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Hello, I'm a 25 year old male. I've been dating this girl for the past 3 months and things have been going great. Our sex life is absolutely fantastic as well. Yesterday, I was on her computer looking something up and I ended up looking at her h...

Having sex again after 12 days really hurt! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend hadn't had sex for 12 days- couldn't get a house to ourselves. We finally managed today, and it hurt like a *****. It was the same sort of pain I felt when I lost my virginity. It felt like I was being torn down there and brough...

No more erections!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - For emotional reasons, I believe it's best that I stop having sex. I'm wondering if there are any techniques that can train you to never have an erection again, like pinching your skin very hard each time you get an erection. Would there be an...

Is my boyfriend bored, or stressed, or not interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I understand the concept of the honeymoon period. During the first six months or so that we were together, my boyfriend would text me things that still make me blush when I read them. (we've been together just over a year now) We were also like ...

My fiancee doesn't want sex with me any more and says I'm lose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I have been with my fiancée' for 2 years now and we have been having sex maybe around 3 times a week. But now he is saying he's bored of sex and he doesn't like it. he just wants me to give him Blowjobs. I don't know how he can be bored of sex as i ...

Anyone have experience with erections barely sufficient to achieve vaginal penetration?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Has anyone been with a guy aged about 36 who at best could achieve only a "fat soft" barely sufficient to manage vaginal penetration on a regular basis?...

My B/f is always telling me how hot he thinks I am, but he never seems to be in the mood for sex any more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I'm 18 and have been with my boyfriend for 18 months now, we love eachother very much, and also find eachother very attractive. We used to have sex practically everyday, I'd dress up for him and everything, then we went to having sex 3-4 times a ...

I am interested in a 17 year old girl and her mother is encouraging us to have sex! Why??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - I am interested in a 17 year old girl who seems to like me but is a little reserved.She is an only child. Her mother is encouraging the relationship actively. She even told me that sex was okay if I loved her. What is mother up to? I find it a ...

Her sister saw us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - We were and having sex in her bedroom when her older sister walked in on us. She stood there a while. When I got off she must have seen everyting. She then walked out. My gf was a little shy but I got a kick out. What do we say to her now?...

She just isn't tight anymore. Should I say anything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - My wife of a decade years used to be extremely tight. I could barely push in to her. We have not had any kids and yet now when we have sex she feels very loose. There is almost no friction. It's hard to even get off sometimes because (pardon ...

Do I confront, support him, or walk away? My married lover confided he has started meeting men for sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I need some support! I have had a relationship with a married man for many many years we are very very good friends and occasionally we have sex too which is like the icing on the cake. His wife is sick with MS so please dont criticise me for see...

I find the thought of my girlfriend with another guy arousing, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Is something wrong with me? I don't know why but I find the thought of my girlfriend with other guys very arousing. I don't know why but I do. When she was going out with other guys it hurt like crazy, like I was having an emotional heart attack b...

Numerous problems with girlfriend and I just don't feel loved anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Hi all, my first post here, and I need some advise. I've been dating this girl for some number of years now. We've had our good times and our bad times like any couple, but now I don't really feel like she is the one. We've had proplems before,...

Is it possible to have a satisfying sexual life if your boyfriend has never made you have an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - Is it possible to have a satisfying sexual life if your boyfriend (of 2 years) doesn't know how to and has never made you orgasm? At first it didn't bother me...but now I'm beginning to feel like he has given up on trying to please me and only wan...

My lover prefers oral all the time. How can I get him to be less fixated on oral and more on intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - How do I get my man to engage in intercourse at times; instead of oral sex all the time? Am I not doing something I should be doing?...

He's cheated on me over 12 times and gave me a STD. How do I cope with my hurt and the feeling he's going to do it again and soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've been with the same guy for 4 years we have a baby together but in the past 2 years he cheated on me over 12 times. One of the times he gave me an std I found out from his sisters friend because he gave it to her as well. Another time a girl ...

I don't feel anything during oral sex or sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - How come when I get a blow job i dont "cum" or feel anything. Its that way during sex too. What can I do to change that so i can feel good...

I get so close but never actually have an orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Slightly embarrassing but I can't seem to orgasm. My bf and I have been together about 6 months and he has made me orgasm once but it took forever. He does all the right things and I always get so so close but never actually there. Any advice? Is it ...

It used to be sooo amazing until we moved in together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I have been dating my fiance for 4 1/2 years. We were that disgusting couple that every one who walked past us probably thought we should get a room. Ever since we moved in with eachother, our love life and sex life went down the drain complete...

Sex tips, anyone???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm gonna make this short and sweet. I'm really looking for male opinions, but females are welcome to respond, too. Basically, I need the best, sexiest, most awesome, most successful tips that anybody can think of for turning on a guy...

I haven't had children and yet I seem to be more loose

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - hello. l am 24yrs and dont have a child yet. my problem is l seem to have gotten loose, my vagina is just something else. is this normal? my bf of 4yrs says its ok but honestly when we have sex the friction is just not there anymore, this is making ...

She doesn't want to be fingered, how can I change her mind?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Hi, I was wondering if anyone could help me here. So me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost a year and a half and naturally we are progressing sexually. The problem is, she gives me hand but I want to give her as well. She hates the id...

How effective is a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Hey everyone just want to know how effective Condoms are? I have recently had the implant in my upper arm removed after 3 years im getting it back in soon, But just for the time being is it ok to use condoms ? Any advice is very grateful thank ...

17 year old and 14 year old

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Hey I'm a 17 yr old guy, my girlfriend is 14, yes I know that a big age differance this young. We are very much in love, strong word but true. I have asked her about sex and she said she doesnt want to go that far, but she keeps throwing me mixed ...

Pierced tongue and oral sex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I got my tongue pierced about 2 and a half weeks ago. I didn't get it for the reason that most people assume (oral sex) but rather because I've wanted it forever and love the way it looks (I've already gotten it pierced and I'm not really interested ...

Husband gets upset if I don't get off during sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I just got married in Oct and I love my husband a lot... I think our relationship is great but I'm having a little bit of a problem. I'm 4 years older then he is... I love making love to him and I like to make love around three times a day.... ...

It is possible for a man to be impotent with one woman but not with another?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Is it possible, that a guy can't erection with his wife for years, but can get one with an other woman later on? My husband told me for several years, that he is impotent, but it has nothing to do with me. So , I just accepted to live in a sexless ...

I'm scared because I'm starting to really like him and I think I should hold off on the sex, but our sexual chemistry is through the roof.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I met this guy on an Internet dating site, we spoke on the phone for 3.5 hours before meeting up and numerous texts. We went out for a very nice dinner and made plans to see each other a couple days later. We ended up sleeping together and he ...

Sleeping with an EX who is with someone else... Do I go for it or no

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Okay so here is my problem. Ive been sleeping with my ex boyfriend (we will call him Chad) but chad is kind of still with his Baby mama. I am 19 years old and we havnt dated since I was around 15. When we was in jail we wrote n we decided we would ...

I am totally messed up when it comes to relationships/sex/dating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi! I really need some advice and input from all of you wise people out there! :) I am 19. I've been in two relationships. The first one was at 15 and lasted for 2 months. The second one was at 17 and lasted a month. I dumped both of them. I ...

Spotting before my period is due and definitely not pregnant....is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I have been on the pill for 10 months, never missed a pill, take it at the same time to the minute, but every month before my period is due, i have brown spotting and then my period follows as normal. i have been to the doctors and they advised to ...

Is ejaculating in a woman's mouth more degrading than on her face?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years now, and really want to ejaculate in her mouth, she can't stand the taste. She wants me to ejaculate on her face, but I feel that's degrading....what do you guys suggest....?...

Feeling used, yet culpable in becoming intimate with a 'taken' man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do, I did something very stupid with this guy a week ago. I am so disappointed in myself, that I don't know what to do in this type of situation?! Basically, this guy I really liked him and I wasn't sure whether he did to, but ...

My wife called me weird for shaving my pubes. I would like to try some new things. I am incompatible with my wife.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - Hi, I am a male, 51, married with 2 children (early teens). I am a late developer sexually (I have a tumor of the pituitary gland which slowed me down for years - it was not discovered until I was early 30's although it had been there for many y...

Should I tell my boyfriend about the obscene comments I've been getting online?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - There are guys, mostly online, that have been making perverted comments towards me, and it's kinda hurting my pride, because it makes me think "Do I look like a slut?", and it's just bothering me, because I find it disgusting when some random guy ...

Is he telling me the truth about working in Porn films? Or just saying it to shock me? How should I react?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - well at this moment in time im very confused! I've been seeing this guy for a while now and i knew he had a bit of a strange past since the beginning! but he has told told me he used to film porn movies and has also had sex with porn stars......

I feel he did not respect my 'No" when he requested anal sex and I have refused that and his other request. I don't know enough about it, like does it hurt?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has recently requested anal sex, and he has also said he would like to ejaculate on my face. When he first asked if we could have anal sex I said no. I have tried it before (not actual sex, but similar) and didn't really enjoy it....

I'm in a panic over his impotence. What would the average person do? Stay or go if their man is impotent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Would you stay with your husband, if he can't get an erection when you try to have sex, and he has no idea why? It started suddenly after a a huge argument, when he said, "I never loved you, I just stayed with you". Then 2 weeks after this, hi...

I prefer masturbation to girls!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - Is that normal? I've been on SSRIs for about a year and stopped a few weeks ago as i'd had enougn of feeling like a zombie and not being able to sleep at night and just being tired all the time and understanding nothing in my lectures. I'm 20 and i...

Boyfriend wants to have sex but I know he'll tell everyone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - So I was faced with 2 problems this past weekend..first..my boyfriend told me that his mom doesn't like me...she use to but I don't talk to her in public..so she thinks I'm being like a snob or something which is absolutely not the case...I have ...

My boyfriend has trouble staying hard, how do I help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - My bf, which I have been with 4 months now, has trouble staying hard when we have sex. Most times he will get hard for a few seconds but at that point I am not wet yet so I have to get lube and by the time I lubed him up it just goes away. We tried ...

Why do I become nauseous after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I need some ideas as to what might be going on. Lately, it seems anytime I have sex with my husband or even masturbate I get very nauseous right after. I never used to feel like that before and I don't really understand why it's happening now. I ...

Should I be worried that she might be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - I am 18, in first year university. My girlfriend is almost 17, in her last year of highschool. We've been dating since August and had sex twice. The first time, which was the FIRST time for both of us, we used a condom, and it seemed like it was ...

My former friend with benefits is knocking at my door!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Hi everybody my fwb and I have just recently broke it off we agreed not to see anyone alse I was fine with that as I never wanted anyoone else and so was he. now all of a sudden he has broke it off with me and accused me of seeing someone else whe...

We had sex for the first time without a condom. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and me had sex (first time for both) without using a condom. She takes pregnancy pills, and she said it was ok, but i am still worried. Should I be worried? Shes also been complaining of feeling dizzy. but that could be anythin...

Worried about my underage son's out-of-control behavior and overly active sexual activities

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - im very worried about my son mason hes 15, i had him when i was about 16 and i dont want him to have a baby so young i want him to live his life first!!! he brings his girlfriend over to our house all the time shes beautiful and shes got an amazing ...

Sexually Frustrated with no attention!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I am seriously at a loss. . . I am 23 and my husband is 30. We used to make love ALOT. But as of this year it has gone down drastically to just once a week that barely lasts 15 minutes! I understand that he stresses about work, and he is an ...

My guy wants me to peg him. In the meantime, how can I practice thrusting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I'm interested in someone but we're currently two states apart. I'm moving to his city in three weeks, however, and this has been the plan for months as I'll soon graduate college. We met AFTER I made the decision to move. At any rate, he's a 6'3...

If he pulls out before he comes does that reduce the chance of pregnancy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Ok me and my boyfriend was talking about if we have sex and he pulls out before the semen comes out does that reduce the possibility of me getting pregnant ? Haha sorry about how I ask the question I just really didn't know how to put it ...