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writes:Dear Cupid,I'm gonna make this short and sweet. I'm really looking for male opinions, but females are welcome to respond, too. Basically, I need the best, sexiest, most awesome, most successful tips that anybody can think of for turning on a guy. It can be stuff to do during foreplay, during intercourse, during oral sex, or even just hott things to say to a guy when you're not around him (like, ideas for sexii text messages).Have funn, everyone. and thank you in advance for responding. ")
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (30 November 2011):
 Eek... NO SWITCHING FROM VAGINA TO ASS - THIS IS DANGEROUS.
You must always use a clean condom when "switching", or the penis must be washed before this is done. This is to prevent serious infection which can make you infertile. Going from ass to vagina without using a condom (and a clean one) is the most effective way to transmit STD's like HIV and AID's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011): Would this help?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/spicing-up-your-sex-life.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011): right first of all i have to say the majority of what im about to tell you, you would maybe have to put it past him first... like hint it to make sure he'll react positively to it.first thing i would have to say is oral sex. judging by what you said i think you already know that. but getting into it like deep throat and that; licking his penis; doing it at different speeds. being as spontaneous as possible for example during sex getting up and giving him a blowjob; doing things on your own like inserting his penis in; bending over infront of him would turn him on. another thing would be maybe allowing him to ejaculate into your mouth or on your face or whatever.most girls like domination whether they admit to it or not but if for instance youre one of the girls that dont consider this. if you are in a relationship with someone the person MUST respect you. they wouldnt be in a relationship with you if they didnt therefore allowing yourself to be susceptible to domination will only make him happier. lying naked in a seductive position infront of him say with your legs open or on your front. what some woman dont realise is that if they want good sex they have to heighten their partners sex drive as much as possible. as ive said before some things might be a turn off and for me in the past this one has definitely been one - talking dirty during sex. like i have found it quite funny at times which doesnt ruin the sex but ruins the moment. but if you speak to your partner and find out what he likes then im sure he would love it. the best time would be catching him just before he is about to cum.for me and for most guys we like to feel like were doing a good job so whatever you feel makes you hit full orgasm (maybe things you do in your private time) let him do that to you and show him what to do. something ive never done but something i would love to be able to do is switch between anal and vaginal sex instantly (obviously switching from vaginal to anal). if you havent done it before and youre scared of the pain use small vibrators at first or whatever to loosen yourself before you try the full thing.this is something i personally dont like but a lot of guys like having their balls played with. (something you might need to ask him about prior).playing with yourself while giving him a blow job or just spotaneously while he is sitting next to you is always a turn on.my personal favourite position is doggy. if a girl was to pull her arse cheeks appart prior to me putting it in that would badly turn me on.ill tell you something about guys which maybe you already know. theres 3 different levels (you might say) that a guys sex drive sits at during sex:1) horny to the point where theyll last a decent amount of time where you possibly reach orgasm.2) really horny where they will be able to go as fast and hard as possible for a considerably longer time than first mentioned.3) the most important one!!!!!!!! when a guy is turned on that much that he can go like a machine for 45 minutes solid.ive only had this a few times and its all down to how much you are turned on at first. if i get a blow job and it lasts too long... ill be holding back cumming. if its too short its rubbish ha. if its just right my sex drive jumps up and moving onto other things for the right period of time makes it jump up even more. another thing that i dont think most guys are aware of is that when i find that i go as hard as i can for as quick as i can my penis goes numb and the quick thrusting prevents any stimulation. so theres a good chance if you get your partner to do this you will probably enjoy it too (this is probably the secret behind porn stars haha).im trying to think of other stuff... na i cant think thats all i have.hope its helped you or given you ideas :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011): There isn't much to it really. Just watch a few porn movies and read some Karma Sutra's and Joy of Sex's and you'll do alright.Avoid the follwing:-Teeth. Never, ever use teeth on a man's penis.-Fingering. Never, ever finger a man's arse to reach the prostate unless he gives you permission.-Do not touch the balls. No hitting, scratching or biting. The porn industry makes it look good, but it is not. It hurts. Majorly.-Don't hold back. Whatever kinky game you wanna play, don't be afraid... unless it's like illegal or something, you should probably keep that to yourself.-Surprise him. Just start blowing him or giving him a handjob in the car or a sneaky foot job at a restaurant. Hell, the more exciting places you can bone, do it. Just don't get caught.Seriously, people have been writing books on how to rock you beloved's world for thousands of years... just experiment a little with them.Flynn 24
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reader, Miamine +, writes (30 November 2011):
If you can get the guy to relax, some of the nicest things aint sex related. Head massage, neck massage, bodies hold a lot of tension. You do that to him, he'll flop like jelly and then you can do the sex thing and drive him wild.Also, wet warm towel and wipe him down after sex... or a warm towel in the tumble dryer, put it over him and cover him up... guys seem to like that a lot, sometimes a little tender touch can go a long way.Sex isn't only about kinky, techniques and tricks.. try to develop the loving touch, men don't get that much and when you give it to them, they'll turn into a purring pussy cat in your hand.~ Raw Sex Tip ~ use brandy when giving BJ's.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (29 November 2011):
 Regarding oral sex, you should also require that your beau perform some oral for you, preferably first. Then, after you enjoy at least on orgasm, you enthusiastically attack his cock with your tongue and lips.
Providing he is clean, STD free and willing, just lick him like a lollipop until good and stiff, if not already, then begin sucking like you want his creme. Take him deep at times, but mainly just keep sucking and stroking with your hands until he is ready to cum. He may tell you how he wants to finish, but otherwise, take it all in and swallow every drop.
Squeeze his cock from bottom to top to get it all. That is what many guys would consider awesome, and they will never forget it. A healthy guys cum is good for you and does no harm at all. Chase it with a handy gulp of wine or other favorite beverage.
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reader, synchrohobbit +, writes (29 November 2011):
 I am not a guy but I have been with enough that I can say there are some nearly universal things that will work, although there are tons of little things specific to each man. If I am assuming you are looking at a male in your age group, I would say this is definitely a transition time for them where they move from wanting to exclusively receive blow jobs and have a passive girl for jackhammer pounding to developing a serious interest in turning women on. Moaning and vocalizing approval will almost always rev him up further; it will make him feel incredibly successful to know he can do that to you. Touching yourself during some sort of partner sexual activity also works. I don't think I can easily explain this one, but believe me. One thing I think people sometimes miss is the testicles and the very base of the penis, which actually reaches below them. Although you have to be a little more gentle, it adds something extra to any act and I think would feel a little like female external stimulation. Finally, taking the reins during any part of hooking up is a massive relief for a guy, and lets him focus more on his pleasure. This means telling him what to do, deciding when to move on to sex, selecting positions, etc. These don't come with a money back guarantee, but give them a try!
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