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Archived questions from: October, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Is it bad for a Christian girl to masterbate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - im a 15 year old qirl. i am christian. in i have several questions. is it bad for a christian qirl to mastrubate?is it bad for a girl to mastrubate? can you loose your virginity? please help...

Should I have sex with her when we aren't in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - There's this girl that I've know since the 6th grade and I've always thought she had a nice body. We're in the 9th grade now. We started talking over the internet and one thing led to another and we ende up having internet sex and now se wants me to ...

Do girls cum after orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

31 October 2009 (?) - Do girls cum after orgasm?? ...

Is the odor thing normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Hi, this is rather embarrassing. I get sexually aroused VERY easily, it happened the other night! i spoke to a guy whom i really like which made me 'wet' as i am very attracted to him. So a few minutes later i sit down with a few friends, then mo...

Freezing cold in South Carolina

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 20 years now and her interest in physical contact (hugging, sex, general closeness) has all but disappeared over the years. When we were dating it was much different. I still tell her everyday that I love her and ...

Will first time sex hurt if you've been fingered?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - If you've gotten fingered and it didnt hurt at all, will it hurt when you have sex for the firs time?...

I'm 17 and have signs of pregnancy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5490 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - hiya im 17 and are getting signs of pregnancy and im excited in myself but not really sure if my bf wants to keep it coz he finks im only young but wen i talk him in2 it he gets really in2 it x i have strong views bout adoption coz i havnt had a mum ...

How do I stop blaming myself for masterbating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - Hi Cupid, i feel blame whenever i masturbate and am trying to stop this but is hard. i feel sexual sometimes. i masturbate in order to to get satisfaction. is there any way i can stop this. i don't want to wasting my sperm and I don't want to have ...

Taboo fantasy help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I've never told anyone about this but I need some advice. I like to keep things exciting in the bedroom and my boyfriend of 5 months wants to indulge me as I indulge him. We are just beginning anal sex as its his biggest fetish and I like to make ...

Does he still like me, miss me or maybe want me back if he was sticking around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Hello everyone I came on here in hope for some advice and maybe help me understand what's going on. 2 years ago me and my ex broke up. It was a pretty good relationship for a while then it all went bad and we had the worst breakup where we didn't ...

My man masturbates on a regular basis but won't do it in front of me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, my man masturbates on a regular basis but he won't do in front of me. He claims its something he has to do in private. And when he does it he has to watch porn to perform it usually oral sex clips. My question is I wouldn't mind him ...

Am I addicted to sex? What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I feel like I need to have sex or i'm going to go crazy. with each passing day i get more urges (especially at school with the hot teachers, etc.) and it's very distracting. i'll be trying to do calculus work and suddenly envision a man's arm, whi...

How can I stop my period for one day so that I can have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - how can i stop my period for one day so that i can have sex?...

Should I go the whole way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Me and my current bf have been going out now for about six months and are thinking about going the whole way, and having sex. He asked me to do it about two months in and I said no but now it's been playing on my mind and I feel like I really am not ...

I'm worried my lack of knowledge in the bedroom will end the relationship!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - help! ok iv been going out with this guy for a while and i really like him, we'v only ever kissed but i know things will soon be going further. he has slept with 2 other girls (both in long term relationships he isnt a get around) but i havent done ...

I like the manly smell down there, am I weird?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2276 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I just found this web site last month and think its great. I like sitting in this coffee shop, sipping a caramel coffee, and reading about real people and what others think about their problems and hang ups, without the fear of being embarassed. ...

Why wont he make love to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - why wont he make love to me? my partner of 3 months wont or cant make love to me. he is 36, im 23 and without sounding pig headed im a good looking slim girl. I never turn him away. when we first met it was every night and day, now when i try to ...

Where can I talk openly about sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Ok, this is probably not the best place to ask this, but since my question is where I should ask this question, here goes. Back story: I'm a geek and have always been one. I managed to get through middle school single (not for lack of trying),...

Is Oxycotin to blame for his behavior?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Hi well my question is abit difficult to ask but I will give it a shot.I will start by saying I was in a relationship which I fell in love with a guy and I thought he was in love with me.He had told me he was..but shortly after living together I ...

Is 8 partners too many at my age?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Im 20 and have been having sex since i was 17. i have had 8 partners and when i told my new bf he looked shocked. he said it was becouse im not loose down there. but i feel like he thought that was alot. is 8 partners at my age to many?...

No guy will like me, they all just want sex. I just want to crawl into a black hole and not come out. Can someone help me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Okay so me and my well now ex have been dating for about a year and a half. I was 16 when I met him and we started dating when I turned 17. I'm 18 now and he's 21. We recently broke up for I don't even remember, but he "joked" that he wants to get ...

Our sex life seems to have gone out the window...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Hello! So I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 5 months now and its all been going great until the last couple of months. Our sex life seems to of kind of gone out the window. As in we hardly have sex anymore. This makes me confused...

Anal sex is far to painful for me and I feel like a failure but I can't do it any more... help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life, despite him working long hours on most days. he's wonderful, like mr. perfect, and i really love him, but i have a really big problem. He's really keen on anal sex, but i've tried it two to three times, and ...

I don't want a relationship based on sex - how do I avoid this? Are we moving too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Okay, so I used to work with this guy for two months and well, that's how long we've known each other. When I first met him, I really liked him, a lot. And last weekend, he told me that he liked me since we met, and the day after,, he asked me...

Is she just on the rebound / bored? Is this moving too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - ok ive been good frends with this girl for a long time and she just broke up with her bf and me and her have hung out a lot the past few weeks just as frends like we go meet up with frends and get some drinks but last week we made out at my house ...

Should I have a threesome to not lose him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My live in boyfriend and I have been together almost a year now. We have a house and have been living together for about 3 months. When we first started dating, the "have you ever?" conversation came up and he asked me about my past experience with ...

I have fantasies about giant women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5493 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I'm not sure how else I can say this. I have a foot fetish, but on top of that, also deal with macrophilia, where I have fantasies of giantess. The problem is, I get extremely aroused by the thought of being eaten by a giant woman, or stepp...

Should I leave my wife and live with her sister?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I've been married for three years to who I thought was the woman of my dreams. Over the three years our sex life has declined to non-existant. I've tried talking to her about it but she just says that she doesn't feel like sex anymore. I've told her ...

Will having sex with him give the wrong impression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My husband and I have lots of problems and I just recently had a child. My husband has lots of lying issues and verb. abussive towards me..we my question is..I havent had sex in almost 6 months and I dont want to mess around with just anybody would ...

How do you know if your guy ejaculated inside you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My question is for the column: How do know if your guy ejaculated inside you? I recently had sex with my guy and we finished and he said "I came." I wasn't sure if he was telling the truth or not. 1 because I didn't feel it. 2 I didn't feel an...

After having sex my vagina is inflamed, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Is there something wrong with me? I had sex, not for the first time and now my vagina is really painful and the labia minora can be seen, its kinda inflamed. I don't not what to do. I am not under age but my mum would still go mental, help please...

Do girls draw a line between "it doesn't matter" and "too small" for a guy's size?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - Girls, would you think that there's a line that separates when a guy's penis size "doesn't matter" and when it's "too small"? Some girls have told me that it doesn't matter to her, and some just flat out told me it's never gonna work. (mine meas...

How can I show him I moved on from the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5493 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I will reach our one year anniversary soon .We really love eachother but he lost my trust a while ago. Four months ago or so, we had a break where he was sexually engaged with another girl.. although they did not do anything...

Do girls pre cum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - hey, i got 2 questions.. 1.do girls pre cum? is that like the wetness u get when someone is pleasurin u before u actually orgasm? 2. i always thought my area down there was a bit smelly but iv realised dat as i go thru the day, i get lots of d...

Ladies: what is your experience with sex on prom night?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I’m going to the winter formal soon. I truely care about my boyfriend . I look forward to a the evening of dressing up etc. the thought of sex has entered my mind. If we have sex on the winter formal night I think it should be with someone like my ...

Is it possible to fulfill his fantasy but keep him out of it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid. I have been in a relationship with a wounderful man, I love him very much. We should have met years ago! He is very much into women. matter of fact he makes comments often. i say he is infatuated. That is ok to a point, sure I te...

Is it over between us... or not???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I have been with another guy for about two years we were just friends with benefits and now we see each other at work and occasionally running into each other. He is seeing a couple of other people and still gives me that look like he still wants to ...

She says she can't stand me asking if she's seeing someone else, but she never wants to have sex! So she must be cheating, right?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are having a problem seeing things from the same point of view. We've been together for almost two years and I have told her from the start that as long as we have sex and I am sexually satisfied, that we'll be happy and I w...

Am I a whore, or am I just confused?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - i have a bf, and ive cheated on him 2wice. he doesnt know about it. but both times, it wasnt just sex. with the first guy we had had feelings for each other for years and when i was visiting home him and i ended up sleeping together and having this ...

Did he appreciate my honesty and my regard for his health?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - This is a question for men, but ladies feel free to answer too especially if you had a similar experience. How would you guys react to a woman you previously dated/ seeing casually informing you after a month or so of breaking up/ parting ways (es...

What should I do if something happens between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I feel so weird talking about this. Here's the back story: My ex (we'll call him seymour)and I were best friends. We started dating when I was a senior in high school and he was still a junior. I fell for him and well let's just say it didn't e...

Does he just want me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - how often does man need sex with his gf? i live far away from him, so he come to see me very often now. anytime he come to see me, he starts to lust me and want me to have sex with him, eventhough i refuse he still give me a sence of sex. after he...

How often do girls fantasize about their boyfriends?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Ok this is a serious question. Im just curious here...... I, being a guy can honestly say I fantisize sexualy about my girl friend every day. I am not a sex pig. I am very considerate and a caring bf. I am just curious.... how often do you girls ...

Why is she picking fights all of a sudden?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Um worried about my girlfriend because she has been complaining alot lately. She says that her breast keep getting bigger for no apparent reason. I also notice that she has been really short with me lately and she's had to use the bathroom al...

How do I get over my first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - hi am 22years i had sex for the first time in march ,but it's like dis i think i like dis guy more than he likes me,he said that he has feelings for me but too me it doesn't show.since we started having sex he had sex with two other women and came ...

How can I hurt him the most to get back at him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

28 October 2009 (?) - My ex was stringing me alone, giving me false hope that we were gonna get back together so he could keep me as either an option contract, a booty call, or so that he could keep having so much power over someone to make himself feel good, or maybe ...

How do I handle inappropriate questions from guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Im 14 and at this age guys are complete pervs..They are always asking you to go down on them or to let them fingure you.,,and it feels so weird because sometimes you like the guy thats asking you but u dont know how to say yes with out sounding all ...

Am I repulsed by men in general? Or is it my past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - i think i'm reaching breaking point, i'm trying to bottle things up but i know soon enough it wont work anymore when ever i get close to guys i get scared. i was abused by a family member from the age of 11 however i repressed memories unt...

Is this normal if you like the person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Hi, just started seeing this lady, 31 years and I'm 39. Before she was on the scene I was having sex up to 3 times a day. Now I have seemed to have lost the drive. We like each a lot and spend all awake hours together. She also used to have a high ...

How can I tell if a woman wants to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - how can i tell a women wants to have sex with plz respond hurry....