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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Do you need a condom to get a blow job?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - Hye there friends.. I need a lil advice. Me and my gf of 8 months years (we are both 16) were hangin together last night. And she just randomly asked to give me a bj. I was elated cuz we've never even touched on that kind of stuff before. But the ...

I need some advice on my life and how to improve it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - Hello I need some advice about my life and how to improve it I mean a while ago i lost my virginity to a prostitute and it was awful regretted it.... but i made the same mistake again... and learnt alot from it. It made me realise i want a ...

How do you end a friends with benefits relationship but still remain just friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - How do you end a friends with benefits type of relationship but still remain friends? I'm thinking of telling him something like this: When I'm with you I have a nice time, but I'm not going to sleep with you anymore. Like I said I have a good time ...

What is likelyhood of a committed relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - I'm a 30 year old male and I've met this hot woman off the internet. She is 20 years old and a virgin. No religious ties. She's never even had a bf. She just moved out of her parents home (very controlling/mentally abusive father) and is l...

Flirting/chatting-how much is too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - Okay the background. I've been married to my wife for 8 years, we've been together for 10. We also work on the same floor at the same employer. Last few years have been rough- we seem to live in our own separate worlds. I'll admit- some of our a...

Am I bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - I've come to realize that whenever I feel like getting drunk I feel more attracted and in the mood to makeout with a girl instead of my boyfriend. I don't know why! For example, the other night I went to a party, and there were about 15 people- ...

How do I tell him to stop using me for sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - I started seeing this guy for a couple of months. It turned into a him calling me late at night to come over (ending up having sex every time). I didn't want that kind of relationship but i did so bc i liked him a lot. I tried to talk to him abou...

Always the "friend with benefits", never the girlfriend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Hey all, So here's my problem. I keep getting involved with these really great guys. Problem is I always end up as the "friend with benefits". Now it's not that I don't respect myself or anything, but I always tend to get involved with them at the...

Are these actions normal for a man almost 30 yrs old?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend (29) and I (25) were really enjoying having sex the other night and when he wanted to have anal sex I said no because I knew that my stomach was not up for it. He knows that I really do not like it yet I have promised to continue doing ...

What is sexual tension?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - What is sexual tension? Is it a feeling, that you have with someone and cannot stay away from them? I would like to know......