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Does he just want me for sex?

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Question - (28 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

how often does man need sex with his gf?

i live far away from him, so he come to see me very often now. anytime he come to see me, he starts to lust me and want me to have sex with him, eventhough i refuse he still give me a sence of sex. after he having sex with me, he will leave me alone(he goes back home). the way he did to me make feel like i am a slut. i feel really bad, and when i get to talk to him he would says he never think that way he love me, he said anytime he see me he could not control his penis(it is always up). it is not matter how i repel from his action i still can not escape.plus when i go out with friends or do a favor for friends he will ask me every actions that i have done, if i don't tell him he will mad. when i go somewhere i would ask him to go with me even i go with friends, but for him if he goes with his friends he never asks me to go with him, even he go to his friends' wedding.is the way he treat me is love or he keeps as a person who he want for sex? all guy can you tell me about this please!!!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009):

I know you wanted the opinion of a guy, but I've been here time and time again. Ask yourself these key questions as they will tell you if he's interested in being with you outside of the bedroom or seriously takes your exchanges seriously, has he taken you out on a date, has he given you any implication that he wants to persue a relationship or flat out said he wants you to be his girlfriend, have you established that you two are sleeping with only each other, if you were to ask his friends what would they say about your relationship with him? Like would they say you two are dating or just sleeping together? If you can answer yes to these questions and if his friends can definitively say you guys are an official couple, then I think yes he's into you for more than just sex, if you can't answer yes to these questions he's looking for nothing more than sex. In which case if you are looking to this guy to call you his girlfriend, he will never do so. And you should cut you losses and drop this guy!

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