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*shley smith
writes:Hi, just started seeing this lady, 31 years and I'm 39. Before she was on the scene I was having sex up to 3 times a day. Now I have seemed to have lost the drive. We like each a lot and spend all awake hours together. She also used to have a high sex drive and now she isn't that interested. The funny thing is that it doesn't bother either of us like it had with previous partners. having trouble coming to terms with this. Is this normal if you really like the person?
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reader, Dazed~Confused  +, writes (28 October 2009):
 Maybe you both are just more comfortable with each other than you have been with other partners in the past and your relationship is more about sex.
It is normal when you are in a committed relationship. You have passed the stage where it's all about sex. You are probably able to relate to each other without it, which is a good thing, and says more for the lasting power or your relationship.
If neither one of you is particularly bothered by it or have an issue, then just enjoy your time together.
If you really want to spice things up, the plan a special evening or a weekend away.
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