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reader, Tarly  +, writes (28 October 2009):
Tarly is verified as being by the original poster of the question Rape or not I really dont care. I seventeen and by all accounts Im an adult.
I've thought about asking her about marriage in the past (recent) but I've wussed out every time.
Should I go ahead? I know I love with every fiber of my being.
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reader, openmind  +, writes (28 October 2009):
You graduated highschool you are an adult now and im assuming hopefully you are leagal as in 18 as in you have nothing to worry about in telling people so just man up and do it and she needs to do the same not necessarily that she needs to tell the entire school that you guys hooked up but family and people important to you it should be easy for you to tell them and for them to get the hell over it! CONGRATS ON THE BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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reader, Tarly +, writes (28 October 2009):
Tarly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm in new zealand and the age of sexual consent here is like twelve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): you are both adults now act like it and pony up. You dated, you had sex, you got her pg. Welcome to the real world.
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reader, Tarly +, writes (28 October 2009):
Tarly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI asked and yes she is pregnat.
WHAT DO I DO?
I love her so much but the thing is that no one really knows about us.
You see she was my teacher last year and we started dating after I grauated. I really dont like talking about this to people but how can we tell others that first of all were dating and second of all she's pregnat. She is eight years older than me.
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reader, jaswashere +, writes (28 October 2009):
She's complaining about her boobs being bigger all of a sudden, she is being short with you and she goes to the bathroom alot... did you ever think that maybe she might be pregnant???? That was the first thing that popped into my head as i was reading your question. If not then maybe you just need a little space... it cant be all rainbows and sunshine all the time in a relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): just a guess...could she be pregnant? Thats what my first thoughts are.
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reader, openmind +, writes (28 October 2009):
Just a random idea from not knowing all the details ab her age and your relationship, but breasts getting bigger and frequent trips to the bathroom perhaps she is pregnant and doesnt know how to tell you and if that is completely out of the question maybe she is feeling down on her appearence and would like to hear that you still think she is gorgeous and that you wouldnt change a thing about her hope this helps
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