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Archived questions from: 2 October, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Can't let go of ex b/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of about 5 months broke up with me a few months ago because he said he 'didn't love me anymore, he loved me as a friend'. Even though it was only 5 months I had completely fallen for him, and he fell for me, or so I thought. So I was ...

Caught my b/f with vibrator! What do I do now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - I got out of work early and thought I would surprise my b/f I been dating for a year now by showing up at his apartment last Sunday afternoon. I have a key so I let myself in. I didn't think he was home because the house was quiet. I went to his ...

I'm 23 and she's 27

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - My Girl says I'm more sexually active than most Men her age. Shes 4 years older than me and we've been together for 2 years now. We're both deep in love. She says I'm more powerful penetrating her. But I can only last up to 45 minutes before I cum ...

She said that our loving caresses were wrong, even if I didn't take her virginity!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - Hi. I am 21, have a girlfriend. We have been together for 2 years now. We love each other a lot. But she is not convinced on creating a physical relation as this, according to her, would be ditching her parents. On her bday a month ago, I took her ...

Strange imagination for self pleasure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - Dear cupid i love my girlfriend and have good sex life but am addicted to strange masterbation techniques.just wondered if it was normal or should i stop. I often put on womens panties (wifes or her mothers(40)and rub my self against the bed in a...

Is he expecting the relationship to move forward because he's spending money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Hello, I just started seeing this guy. Right now I'm unemployed so I don't have any money for outings. I've suggested that we do free or inexpensive activities like walking in the park, the beach, etc. However he says he doesn't mind spending mo...

Is sex all he wants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - I met a guy on the internet about 3 months ago at first he was very clear about not wanting a girlfriend but he wanted to have sex with me so i stopped talking to him but about 2 weeks later he text me saying he didnt want to lose me and he wanted ...

I felt neglected, I cheated, confessed, and now b/f doesn't know if we can get back what we had

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a while now, and i love him. He will have a baby in less then a month with a women that i know he does not want to be with. He has been staying over at her place for around 3 weeks, and i never get any calls from him or ...

Rough sex is killing our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together in a very close and loving relationship for over 6 years - I am 47 and he is 42. We have a lovely time with ordinary physical affection on a daily basis, lots of hugs, kisses, touches, playing around and fun. He ...

Going to have sex on 10/31 and have lots of first time questions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - hey i am 16 and i have a few questions about sex...what is it like?????? does it hurt???? what is lube??? can he hurt me down there?????? what can get me in the mood???? how can i get an orgasam??? what does it mean to come??? plz help me out here i ...

Riding lessons wanted!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - i love having sex with my boo. but we always do the same position, doggy style. i recently had sex with an old partner, and we i rode him for a little while but i didnt really know what to do. i want to try it with my boo, but im kind of shy and ...