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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Is he using me? Should I just cut off all communication?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - there is this guy whom I met online. Two years ago, he said he would try to come back to Singapore to live. He is working and living in Thailand. Two years later, while we are still communicating, he is still there. I asked him if he will honor his ...

Two online guys which one do I chose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I'm stuck in the middle of a dilemma. First a quick background thing about me: I have a penchant for getting into online relationships. I always get incredibly into them, but despite my feelings, I've never gotten a visit (more because of my circu...

I'm afraid he isn't as serious as I thought he was about us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I've just become exclusive with a guy I've been seeing on and off for the last 12 months. He's told me he loves me and I'm the only one it just took him a while to realize it. I was at a friends tonight who was on her dating site and I saw his prof...

I'm getting mixed signals from this online girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 September 2012 (M) - Em 24 years old male.Two years ago i met a gal online who was going thru a very bad phase of hers and i helped her overcome it.We became very close as in talking everythng but we havnt met yet.Fortunately i am in the girls country for work.We have ...

Is it odd that I can only contact my BF via facebook?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Is it strange that the only way i can contact/speak to my boyfriend in the evenings is via facebook? We've been together for 4 years. I dont think he is cheating but i dont understand it. When he gets home from work, he puts his phone away and d...

I think he likes me but why wont he talk to me about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been talking to this guy online and he has shown interest in me for several years but he never came up to ke and spoke about it. We've met (never spoke to each other) at parties etc. He'd always stare at me and ask about me in my absence. ...

Should I give it a try with this guy? Give up on my dreams to do so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (M) - oK I don't even know where to start. I just moved to a different city like a month ago. And I met a great guy on a dating site when I moved. He seems like a great guy. I'm Mexican, but I'm really attracted to white guys, specially if the...

Is this just some fun for him, or could there be more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - I recently started a online chat relationship with a guy I met in a chat room. Things progressed and became more sexual in nature i.e. cybersex but the without the benefits of a cam, we would call each other or send IM messages. The thing is...

My boyfriend keeps files on all his previous girlfriends

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend keeps files on all his ex-girlfriends. Is this normal? He was on a dating site before he met me and he had files, manila folders, with print-outs of the women he dated and their correspondence back and forth through the computer. ...

Why say you want someone then avoid seeing them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - About 20 days ago i started to chat to a male i met on a dating website. We exchanged numbers and spoke spoke for a couple od days. He told me not to go back onto the website till we met and both agreed to take our photos off the site. We ...

Should I wait for him to move back to my country, or move on with other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - Hy. I met an awesome guy on the net. He s 5years older than i am. We have been exchanging texts for a year now. His parents currently live in my country but he moved to another country(continent) with his god parents because of education etc(well ...

How can I handle this awkward situation? met on X-box. She's 22 with a baby. I'm 16

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

17 September 2012 (M) - Hell. Ok so here is my story, i met this great person on a game on xbox live, a few months ago. we talked for a little while and added each other on facebook and have talked on there. By the way im a 16 year old guy and she is 22 (not sure if this ...

I'm having a hard time with using Twitter as a way of communicating with my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - I'm have a hard time with using Twitter as a way of communicating with my boyfriend. We see each other often, text, call and email, but also use Twitter as the majority of our circle of friends use it. Most of the time I really enjoy using it, ...

I am torn. My Bf is in jail and may move away to be closer to his child when he gets out. What should I do? I want to be respectful.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4449 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - I'm 19 and My bf is 23 we have been together for 1 year and some months. He has a daughter but he is not with her mother. I have never had this happen to me before so i don't know what to do or think. Of course I am going to wait for him...

Can these online friends ever forgive me for making out I was someone else? I had good intentions but got out of my depth.

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - well how do i start this. well im a girl and in this one chat room thing my friend(dont know her in real life) i had pretended i'm a boy and her friends and her think im a boy.(i decided to play a male role just because i wanted to see how it was ...

We spent time together, he seemed keen but since I have heard nothing from him....why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - I met a French guy online (we are both 32) and met him in London which went well. He is not a frequent texter and by the time I met him again 4 weeks later I probably had 4 messages from him. So he doesnt like texting and that I accept. The 2nd ...

We talk all the time online and he has sent me gifts but hasn't suggested meeting up yet.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - I have been talking to a man online for around a year. We knew each other through mutual friends but live 250 miles apart.. We talk every day and the chat is often sexual but usually in a banter ish way. Recenrly we have become more close, chatting ...

I told him I love him but he said he would never love me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - i met a guy 2 months ago on a dating site. we agreed we were only going to be friends with benefits. but now i am in love with him but he says he will never love me. we have seen each other 16 times now and thats alot. i give him blow jobs and we h...

How do you all feel about "the other woman" when it comes to a relationship or marriage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - How do you all (ladies AND gentlemen) feel about "the other woman" when it comes to a relationship or marriage. SERIOUS REPLIES ONLY. I'm not talking about "the other woman" who has no idea that the guy has a wife/girlfriend. I'm talking about...

Is my boyfriend flirting on line? How is the best way to deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - So, a friend of mine is mutual friends with a girl on facebook with my boyfriend. We were hanging out yesterday and she told me she noticed he liked a lot of this girls statuses and when she posted about looking for work he said this "you should ...

Boyfriend with online addiction???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - I have been dating a man I met online for 4 months now. After the first month he asked me to be exclusive. He is caring, affectionate, he wants to see me everyday and makes plans a lot, takes me places, takes care of me, and calls me everyday to see ...

What do I do about my FWB and how do I tell if he has feelings for me? Alternatively do I consider an LDR with the other guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - Hi hope you can help me with this it would be greatly appreciated I met a man who is in the army on a online dating site who is really keen and wanting a relationship with me but I am not sure how I feel about him. This is because I have h...

Married for sixteen years and he's cheated three times that I know of

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

7 September 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been married for sixteen years and with two children. One child is special needs. There has been three cheating incidences that I knew of during the marriage. The last one he left me for twice in a year and he came back. I ...

Boyfriend of 4 years won't stop going on dating sites. Is it worth trying to sort this out?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

7 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I am new on here and would really like some advice on what to do. I have been with my boyfriend 4 years. He wont stop going on dating sites. I have caught him doing it and seen it with my own eyes 3 times, I have also got to the point where I ...

We both had a similar bad dream on the same night, does anyone have any ideas what this was all about?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

7 September 2012 (M) - Hey guys, I need some advice, or I'm not sure what I need, maybe some clue as to what this means... Alright, so last night, me and my fiance both had bad dreams, a little about us first; We've known one another for four or so years, it's been ...

Does she want a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

7 September 2012 (M) - Okay so there's this girl I have been talking for a while online and we meet and it was great. Well anyways I really liked her and explained to her that we won't be seeing each other for while, so in my desperation I asked her to be my girlfriend. ...

She used to like me. How long do I wait to text to find out if she still cares?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

6 September 2012 (M) - I'm 20 years old in college. Met this girl around 1 year ago. Last semester (January 2012), I had a class with her. She sat by me and we talked all the time. Long Story short, I took her to lunch one day and afterwards I was 100% sure she was into...

My Bf only wants to play video games. It upsets me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

6 September 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. I do love him but our relationship has took a serious turn for the worse ever since he lost his part-time job about 4 months ago. We starting dating when we met at 18 and as always the first...

Guy I've started dating said he'd hidden his on-line dating profile but I've found out that he hasn't.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

6 September 2012 (F) - I’m 50 and been on Match for almost a year. I met quite a few guys, most of them were just a first and last time date and a couple of them lasted a few dates, but nothing serious. In mid-July I met this guy online. He is 52; he is a widow (his wife ...

Falling for a man I met on the internet.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4458 days ago

6 September 2012 (F) - Hi Aunts, here's the thing. I'm 19 this year and I've known this 29 year old guy from the Internet for about 3 months now and like most hot-blooded teenagers, I succumbed to showing him my body and having cam sex with him. Initially, I did all of it ...

How to get over him - should I get over him? I don't know where to begin...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

6 September 2012 (F) - Agony Aunts, please help me understand this situation. I'm completely devastated, drained and not sure what to do, think, say... :( This is long, but I just don't know how to condense it. I promise it will be worth reading... I met a guy (22 - ...

Why didn't he reply to my message but did ask my friend about me? Are there feelings there for me?

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4 September 2012 (F) - I met this guy (let's call him B) a little over a year ago on a trip, he was friends with my best friend, we started dating while one our trip and decided to see where things would go after we were back in the city (we both live in the same city). ...

Why do women from dating sites lose interest in me so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

3 September 2012 (M) - I started using a dating site about two months ago now without very much success. This is mainly because everyone I begin talking to would eventually lose complete interest in me. It never starts out this way however, I'd first hit it off very well ...

I'm at a crossroads with these two men and need some perspective

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

3 September 2012 (F) - Hi Everyone, I'm in a bit of a bind. I've written before to you aunties and uncles in regards to someone in my life who was giving me mixed signals and wasn't really into me. I was sort of in denial because he was saying one thing and his actions ...

Should I send a text saying, I miss you so much, I don't want someone else, I want to be with you .

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

2 September 2012 (M) - hello i went on a date with a woman 5 weeks ago, she said it was lovley and i was a lovley man xxx . i wanted to give her a kiss at end of date, but did not want to risk it . i told this a few days later and she said she was not interested. but we ...

My online affair is becoming too real

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (M) - I am a married man who has been having an online romance with a married woman I have never met for over a year now. This is problem enough, I suppose. However, what makes it worse is that the relationship is becoming more and more real. My lover ta...

Advice needed on how to get on with her difficult exes.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

1 September 2012 (M) - Two weeks ago I met a girl from a online dating website, Im 25 and she is 23, we spoke on there for a few days, swapped numbers and found out we lived 2mins from each other. We arranged for a date a few days later and before we knew it we had seen ...