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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Em 24 years old male.Two years ago i met a gal online who was going thru a very bad phase of hers and i helped her overcome it.We became very close as in talking everythng but we havnt met yet.Fortunately i am in the girls country for work.We have started talking over phone and it seems i am getting serious for her(i know its weird).She gives me mixed signals i cant understand does she like me or is she just playing around.She denies she have a bf but i doubt.She rings me almost everyday and other times she wont even reply to ma msgs.i gets so upset by this.I dont know what to do further..kindly suggest Reply to this Question
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reader, oldbag +, writes (27 September 2012):
 Hi
Meet her, set up a date and meet,if she makes excuses or fails to show up. End the 'relationship' or accept it will only ever be an online friendship.
Could be she is nervous in case you dont like her, so keep the 'date' light, suggest something fun like ice skating or bowling
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female
reader, kittywaffles  +, writes (27 September 2012):
 I think it is very difficult to tell what she is thinking. For instance, she might feel insecure because of her past, and therefore sends mixed signals. What I would suggest is to tell her how you feel about her, and make sure she understands that you are serious. And of course, you could try to arrange a meeting in real life, if she's willing to meet, and see what happens.
Best of luck!
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