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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

What did I do? Did I scare him off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - I meet a guy online.. I like him a lot...we exchanged numbers The conversation was great, he even said... He wants to take me out.. Then something happens to his phone we get disconnected , he calls back and said sorry..my phone is dying, then I s...

What are the signs if a man loves you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid i need help,i met a guy from Jamaica on a dating site 3 weeks ago.And im starting to fall in love with him and i told him,and he said he feels the same.And he said hes coming to my country in 7 months time.So i want to i dont know if he ...

What is the reason? I texted him for the first time, said my name in the text, and he has not replied?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - To keep it short, im 80% sure that my crush actually likes me back. So a week ago my friend Nick helped me ask for his number, he seemed to be a little bit happy about this and he knew i was the one who wanted his number. And he acutally said 'rem...

Does my internet boyfriend really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Does my internet boyfriend really love me? I know I'm doubting him. We've been going out for almost 2months now. He's 15 and I'm 13 1/2. I tell him I'm not good enough for him, and he responds with hearts (3) and says stuff like "You're the ...

Why did he stand me up???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4437 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - I met a guy on a dating site a little bit over a month ago. And since day one we would text every day. He was looking for friends at the moment since he had just gotten out of a 2 year relationship two months prior to meeting him on this site. we ...

Am I over reacting? Can I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a rough start to our relationship. We started out rocky...but we did dated and we've been together for 2 months (6 months prior online). I wasnt really honest with him, I was a virgin and we both had sex (he was a virgin...

Just want to be friends. Should I be afraid to text him? Because I don't want to seem desperate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - So about two months ago, my crush's girlfriend broke up with him. Until then I didn't really know him, but we're in the same major and he likes to hug people so he'd always give me a hug. After a while I got his number and we talked and flirt...

I'm confused, because after 3 months she says she only wants to be friends. Why? is it just stress that's made this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - I met a girl online. We talked on the site for over a month before she gave me her number Then after that, we texted and talked on the phone for 2 weeks before we went on a date. Sense then, we've gone out everyweekend for 2 months, sometimes tw...

What is the best way to support and deal with an emotionally damaged boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months. We met online and before I got into this relationship I knew he was damaged. All I know that one or more past girlfriends have cheated on him other than that I don't know a lot. He is very gua...

I'm a guy who wants a relationship and just treat her right. So how do I make this happen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 October 2012 (M) - hi everyone, i've been speaking to thisgirl on facebook/tumblr etc. for a few months now and we met up once with her friends. then we organised to meet but the day before she stopped talking to me and we didn't end up going out. then she starte...

Internet Online Dating and serious relationships - isn't it just truly a waste of time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I am so disillusioned with internet dating. Over the past few years I have joined a few dating websites hoping that at some point I will meet a man, who I get along with, have similar interests/humour, share the same values in life,...

I am seeking people's opinions of my actions in this failed relationship. What do you think?. I did some bad things, so did she.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - so i started seeing a girl as friends id heard a lot about her ( she's easy,been with this person,been with that person etc etc) but i didn't care because i make up my own mind about people and me and this girl got on great so after about a month of...

Why does my husband keep going on dating sites looking for women? he knows I know. So why does he keep on hurting me like this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - For at least the past 6 months I was coming across my boyfriend going on dating sites to chat to different women. Of course, he has always denied it and called me weird and neurotic. He knows that I know, so why won`t he tell me if there is somet...

Would you put up with a jealous man just so you could get the other nice things back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I recently split up with my boyfriend because I found him on a dating site and even when I confronted him he said it wasn't him and even blamed me for setting it up. Well he wasn't very nice to me, very paranoid, jealous and angry a lot. I decided ...

Has my Boyfriend cheated on me with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Dear all, I am so hurt and miss my boyfriend after breaking up with him. I will try to keep this short, i meet him last Feb. we hit it off. Initially we started off fine, met him saturday nights with my friend and his, it was difficult to get o...

Online dating: how can we forgive each other and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - So here it goes: I ended up hurting this guy (by lying to him online about my identity, etc)....and in turn, I felt awful (just awful) and I wanted to make things right. However, what I did was virtual, it was just online. I finally confesse...

He 'likes' so many sexy girls on FB. What should be my plan of action tl deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Hi there. I have a bit of an issue and was wondering what you guys and girls think. My boyfriend of less than a year has started "liking" pages on fb that feature bikini-clad/naked girls that post daily pictures. He liked one today and it really h...

After I asked him to used a condom he lost interest. He's drifting away from me. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - things has changed he used to text me every hour, checking up on how im doing and made time to see me everynight after work... ever since i told him that we should use a condom we never had sex at all i will tell him that i want him but he doesnt s...

We've been fighting every day for months. Is it any wonder I have trust issues over her sexting etc

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now and we've been fighting nearly everyday for the past few months. We have sat down and talked about this and the arguments stopped for about a week. Now it's the same old arguments. Heres the tricky p...

Is she all that she seems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Hi cupid, I really need your help I met a young lady on Hi5, she is my heart but something is wrong with this picture, we text most of the time but we agree to meet. But when I ask her about me driving there she tells me she wants to come here first ...

Can I ask her again if she can still make it? I hate the disappointment if something planned for does not happen

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4444 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - I hate making plans or looking forward to something which will never happen because i HATE the feeling of dissappointment. I been talking to this girl for like 2 months and we have now met twice, we kissed second time and she was telling me how g...

Why does my wife of 18 years need to talk to men online? And meet them? and lie? Is this the beginning of the end of our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 18 years. We have 10 year old twins together. We used to share an email account (mine) but now she has 3 or 4 email accounts of her own. I only have one email account and she has the password to my account. She ...

He's never pushed for sex. So is he just not into me? Or is he not over his ex yet? How do I respond?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - Hello, So I know the answer really... He's just not that into you, move on, but as a lady in my mid 30's I still feel the need to ask Pathetic really So I meet this guy in a bar, he's funny, smart, sexy I like him a lot. We see each oth...

I thought things were going well. Then he stopped replying. Has he moved on? I know he is still talking to others.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - i've been talking to this guy i like for a while, we talk everyday and get on really well. however, recently i've been texting him and he's not been replying but he's been talking to other people ( i know this as my friend told me he had previous...

2 months after meeting online, how long should I wait for us to meet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

20 October 2012 (F) - i've been talking to this guy i met on facebook for 2 months... he use to text me a goodmorning text now he doesn't... i don't know if he's intrested ... he was suppose to met up with me we live an 1hr and a half from each other ...but he didn't ...

She's single now. How do I start a conversation with her that could hopefully turn into a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

19 October 2012 (M) - hi everyone I was at college for a year and i liked a girl in my class for a while but i was a little shy and barely spoke to her but we spoke a little about little things etc. I couldn't ask her out as she had a boyfriend. since then a...

Texting friend: I want to know if he likes me. He has trust issues from past relationships.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

19 October 2012 (F) - Ok so I don't know how to word this but last night me and the guy i like were texting each other, we were talking about past relationships. His past , as i have never been in a relationship. He then asked on the end of the text if i like anybody...

I pretended to be someone else online and it all went down hill.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

18 October 2012 (M) - First off I want to say please don't judge me I know I made a huge mistake and I am trying to fix myself and what I have done. Around 2 months ago I made a fake account on a dating website. I got pictures from someone else and made up the "abo...

So why does he act inconsistently if he likes me? He says he likes me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - He likes me, it's pretty obvious. He asked me for my number, invited me out for coffee and generally keeps texting me and flirts when he sees me. And his friends keep nudging him when I am around. Then he invited me out for a party last weekend but ...

She tells me she's happy so why is she on dating sites?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

17 October 2012 (M) - I have been dating for just over 3 years. For the past 9 months I have been finding bits about her being on dating sites again. I caught her out on one last year and her aggression after being unable to carry on denying it when I asked her, caused a ...

Is he still a player? My new Boyfriend has promised he has stopped sending sexual emails to a woman.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

17 October 2012 (F) - I started dating a 50 yr old man four months ago. We hit it off quickly. He was telling me he loved and adored me within two weeks. He has no children and never married. I recently read emails he had been sending the first two months we were dat...

He's lied to me about his texting. Should I be extra wary about him? If he lies once is he more likely to lie again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

17 October 2012 (F) - A few months back my bf of 2 years got a picture message form a girl he dated a few times ( also slept with). We argued about this and he said she must be drunk he hasnt talked with her since we started seeing each other. My boyfriend got dr...

What are my chances with this girl from another country in an LDR and despite her family and her health issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - I am 43 and live in ,Greece I met A from another country online on Facebook in February 2012. We had common musical tastes and met in a group dedicated to such music. After a few initial messages on FaceBook, we became closer and closer. At so...

I'm embarassed about how I look - should I cancel my date?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Hello Everyone, I met a guy online a week ago, and we hit it off really well, and have now started speaking via mobile phone, he seems nice and there seems to be a positive connection. We've scheduled to meet each other for the first time next Sa...

He phones me then hangs up. What do you think? Do you think he's playing a game to see how much I care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend broke up with me this past May. He is a Marine stationed across the country from where I'm attending college. Since January he had been begging me to give up my senior year in college, move to his base and marry him. I o...

There are decent guys like me who get no where. Why do some girls allow guys to treat them in disrespectful ways?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

13 October 2012 (M) - My friends are always giving me a hard time calling me nasty names because they say I treat girls "too nice". At first I use to brush it off but now it is getting really old hearing them go on and on about how I better check to see if I still ah...

It upsets me when my Bf will not reply to my texts. Why does this wind me up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

12 October 2012 (F) - How can I feel better when my boyfriend doesn't reply to my text messages? I know, I know, there's stuff that's way more important. Last night we had a long text conversation (which was lovely), then a couple of hours later I sent him a messa...

So was this just a line ? Or does it seem like he actually likes me?

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9 October 2012 (F) - For three months in the summer I was texting and seeing this guy although we were not "official". He got weird around the time I was going back to college and didn't text me as much and then abruptly stopped texting me first. (which we had both...

She said she just felt like talking to a guy on line! Your thoughts please? But why would she start talking to a stranger online?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

8 October 2012 (M) - I've been with my GF for almost 3 years. When I first met her she was always online chatting and I know she has done a lot of stuff she regrets while she was chatting.. She had promissed me to stop that because I said I would leave her and her 2 ki...

I'm terrified he will post naked pictures of me on the internet! Is that illegal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

8 October 2012 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend because I found him on a dating site. He keeps saying he was set up, he deleted the account and it actually says closed by user so there's 100% proof he did it. He got nasty and said I'd set it up or my friends or sister ...

How can I regain his trust for the second time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Guys I logged on to the dating website were we met, but I never open up a account. The 1st time it happened, he forgave me, but this 2nd time he told me he could never forgive me and I lost him. I had no intentions in dating anyone on that site ever ...

I really love this guy, so how can I get him to trust me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - I met this guy online in April, we talked, enjoyed one another and start talking about sharing a life together, but one night I log back on the site and he confronted me about it the next day. I really hurt him, I apolgized and gave him some spa...

Video chatted for a few months. Then he claims I got weird? Should I be patient, or is something else going on here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - He found me online this June. We haven't met in real life. For the past 3 months, we video chatted with each other almost everyday.(Just chat.) Most of the time he initiated the conversation. He's divorced for 2 years and is looking for a se...

Guys, if you're not interested in a girl, would you still talk to her every day online for long hours?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hey,guys,if you're not interested in a girl on a romantic level,would you take the initiative to talk to her EVERY DAY for long hours(6-7 hours) on facebook chat or msn or even hang out with her one-on-one? If you're not interested in her,would you ...

Should I break up with b/f who swears he didn't put up a profile on a dating website? I know he did it!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - My friend and I were looking at plenty of fish dating site today because we were really bored in work I've never been on there but she said she knew loads of people on there with cringey photos and stuff they'd written about themselves. Well I came ...

Should I send the evidence of his cheating to his wife? I wasted a year of my life with him and want revenge....

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - I met a guy on a dating site who told me he was seperated, he told me he loved me after 2 weeks, he then told me he was still with the wife and begged me not to finsh it with him, he left her the week after, we had been seeing each other for over a ...

I really liked this man but he did a 180 and I don't know why

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone!, I met this guy online a year ago while I was going through a bunch of problems in my marriage with my ex-husband being abusive and all. I ended up losing contact with this person because I left my husband and went to stay in a shelter. ...