I really liked this man but he did a 180 and I don't know why

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone!, I met this guy online a year ago while I was going through a bunch of problems in my marriage with my ex-husband being abusive and all. I ended up losing contact with this person because I left my husband and went to stay in a shelter. I ended up calling the person while I was at the shelter with my kids and we began talking and dating each other. The first couple times things were lovely but then around the 4th date he started wanting me to give him money for gas if I needed a ride or when he came to see me. He wanted me to pay for dates and so on. He told me he didn't have any money because he lost his job. I ended up cutting off the person and after doing so my ex called the guy because he read the text messages i sent to my girlfriend and the guy told my ex how he doesnt have anything to offer to me and how I am this and that. The funny thing is I really miss this person because he was so good to me in the beginning and now he has done a complete 360. The guy also took me to his house once but always try to not take me there again, which I found suspicious. Anyway I really need some advice on how to move on, I feel so dumb for not seeing these things sooner, I just really liked him. Any advice please?

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