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writes:Hi cupid, I really need your help I met a young lady on Hi5, she is my heart but something is wrong with this picture, we text most of the time but we agree to meet. But when I ask her about me driving there she tells me she wants to come here first but she is catholic. Dont know if this has anything to do with it? She is also German. She said she would pay half the ticket but scared to send her money, I think of her all the time and cant get her out of my mind. Should I back off? Need your advice thanks Richard
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (21 October 2012):
 Catholic means most likely no hanky-panky. She may be fearful you will try something if you come to her so she might be trying to control the situation on her terms. However, you could insist on staying at a local hotel. I would actually be more comfortable in my own surroundings if meeting someone for the first time so maybe you are right to see red flags.
If she is insinuating that you pay half her ticket, I'd tell her ok, I'll give you the money when we meet. Don't send money. If this isn't acceptable, probably best to back off. There are so many cons in internet dating.
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reader, singinbluebird +, writes (21 October 2012):
 Yeah, it is fishy that she would ask for money. I say you tell her you can come to her first. Say that you care about her but that you will be the one to go to where she is. If she refuses, she is hiding something from you. It may be her identity or something else. DONT trust her completely. Asking for money is very very fishy and you should never send money to people you dont know online.
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