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*ee97
writes:things has changed he used to text me every hour, checking up on how im doing and made time to see me everynight after work...ever since i told him that we should use a condom we never had sex at all i will tell him that i want him but he doesnt show upwhat he does is just to send me a greetings in the morning and at night nothing nore it hurts me a lot. i love him so much and i dont want him to give me a taste of bitter side of life..pls help...what can i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2012): Not all men play games with a woman's heart.
Have you actually even attempted to ask him why he's behaving this way? You have the right to ask him over this, it won't make you look desperate, but, if you don't get a valid or satisfactory explanation, or he avoids the subject and plays games, tell him to jog on and don't attempt to ask him again, because obviously he's not that serious about you.
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reader, Tee97 +, writes (23 October 2012):
Tee97 is verified as being by the original poster of the question karlos so becoming silent will help me on this one because i dont want to confront him about this i dont want to look like im desparate for him while im not......what i have realised with you guys is that when you see that a woman really loves you you take advantage of it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2012): If you can pull it off, the silent treatment is one sure way to find out if he cares enough about you to do a bit of chasing and grovelling. If not, again he's not worth your time, and unfortunately, you'll just have to get over him and move on.
Life is full of experiences, some pleasant, others not so pleasant.
I wish you good luck, and I hope it all turns out for the best, whichever way that may be.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (22 October 2012):
 He is sulking like a little boy. There's nothing you can do, he is behaving in a childish and selfish way to get what he wants. If he won't be with you because you are looking out for your wellbeing, he never loved you in the first place. Unprotected sex is dangerous, you could get pregnant or a serious disease. If he loved you he would care more about your well-being than that. Right now what he is saying is that it's worth risking your life so sex can feel a bit better.
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reader, Tee97 +, writes (22 October 2012):
Tee97 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhis 41 i just cant seem to see what his up too. today i asked if i could see him and he told me that his at the clinic waiting for a transfer to Mankweng his a paramedic i just could not blv it this tym....think i should keep quite and not text or call him and see what happens..im already falling apart i gave my love to him....
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reader, Htsn47 +, writes (22 October 2012):
 He needs to grow up. If he treats you this way over such a simple, *NORMAL* request, then I wonder what else he will sulk over. As the woman, you face most of the risk from intercourse. It's just not fair of him to make you feel guilty over it. It's disrespectful and shows a lack of care for your well-being. Be careful...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2012): He's either just sulking and will come round when he snaps out of it, or he just doesn't consider you a worthy enough girlfriend if he can't have sex with you without a condom.
If its the latter, then let him go.
He's not worth it if he doesn't consider and respect your feelings and views.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2012): you CAN NOT DO nothing. A condom is a MUST TO WEAR nowadays...is not just about pregnacy..is STD also.You are not losing nothing..A man who doesn't have the balls to talk to you in your face is not worth it.How old is him?? How he can act like that? Watch for his actions not for his shitty sweet words....
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