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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

He has a lot of baggage.. Should I keep seeing him anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I met someone recently..i was unsure if i liked him but i knew if i was totally turned off i would have ended the date sooner (we met from online)..the first night we met at a bar and then he offered to get dinner and then we went to get another ...

Would you consider this cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I seem to have that feeling of distance between us for a few months now. For me- it seems as though he is just comfortable and doesn't feel like he has to try anymore. I believe the two most important things in a relationship are ...

Will giving her my number scare her off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - I have been messaging a girl online, through a reputable website. We have been exchanging messages for about a month now, and she seems really sweet. She is a teacher, she lives about 25 mins from me. However, because of her job, she doesn't have ...

Am I making a mistake liking this high school dropout?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I met someone recently..i was unsure if i liked him but i knew if i was totally turned off i would have ended the date sooner (we met from online)..the first night we met at a bar and then he offered to get dinner and then we went to get another ...

How can I deal with missing my long-distance boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid- I'm in a long distance relationship with the man I love. Our relationship is strong and we really do love each other (yes, I am young, but I really do think that he is the one.) However I hate being away from him and the hours we can ...

My ex keeps contacting me, when he was a total jerk!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - If anyone can give me their opinion? I broke up with my ex about 5 months go. He met someone else and i found out about it. However, many times he would try to speak to me again just when I was starting to move on. I would ignore his communication ...

Please help me before I make the greatest mistake in life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

25 February 2010 (M) - There is a girl i love, i stay in different country from her. I meet on dating site just 4 months before i travel back to my country to meet her. The first day we sex she get pregnant, now i am back to the country i work. And i do not intend to ge...

First online relationship .. confusion.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - We “met” on a fan website for our mutually favorite band last april ‘09. I had just gotten out of a rather serious, and seriously bad relationship with my ex live-in boyfriend, so we both decided it would be best if we put off meeting and took time ...

My online guy says he loves me all the time, how can I know he's being sincere?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy I met online. I have met him in person and it's completely amazing how much we get a long. He said he loved me even before we met (talking for a few months, phone webcam) and I kind of took it with ...

Devastated...my gf is flirting online! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Girlfriend is flirting online Today i found out an email by my gf sent to another man. asking him to visit her. and how much she is sorry for not talking to him. i was devastated because the date and the time showed was the time i am sleepin...

Can I wear the same jeans again for a third date or will it look bad?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I am seeing a guy i met online for a 3rd time..he seems really open and interested..we met saturday night for a drink and then he offered to go to dinner and then we got another drink afterwards at a different place and then he drove me home..and he ...

Should I keep trying to call after the fight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - My GF and I (4 years, getting shaky) had a fight via Instant Messenger (don't ask) a few days ago. I called her immediately after with no response. I waited a couple of days and called her again, today--no response all night. What's the dea...

Should I give up on this guy who is so openly ready to commit to a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Ok this is a new one for me so any input is greatly appreciated. Met a guy online a few weeks ago, we email and chat once a day or every other day. He has my phone number but I don't have his. I do not ask or even mention anything about this but ...

We met online and are in love but he refuses to come and meet me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Well, I met this guy through a mutual friend. Well I wouldn't say met because we've never seen each other. In any case, we started talking and things became serious..we fell in love. The problem is that we've never seen each other, and every attempt ...

I'm really worried I may have blown my chances!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I'm worried I may have screwed things up with a guy I just started seeing. See, I started talking to this guy on a dating site a couple of weeks ago. He seemed really nice (unlike a lot of guys on dating sites!) and we seemed to really click. ...

Why am I acting like the anxious one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hi there, I'm not really sure what to do. I started talking to this guy several months ago, online. Our level of talk time increased continually. We spent hundreds of hours on the phone, web cam (nothing in appropriate) etc. and I have to say I re...

I'm confused how he feels after our first date and wonder what I should do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I met this wonderful guy online. We are in our 40's. We hit it off on the spot. He wa open, I was not, I had one pic posted of myself,,bt his profile stated he only likes slim and slender, I am not I 'm not overweight, I have curves like I told him ...

Should I maintain this relationship or look for somebody my parents will approve of?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I'm 20 years old and have been dating my crush/best friend for over a year. By far, this is the best relationship I've been in so far because we're very compatible and honest with each other. He's really sweet, caring (not just to me, but to people ...

We are flirting on facebook, could he be interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - So, This guy my sister used to talk to and never dated but just really were close, added me on facebook and we started talking. We flirted and it was cool. I used to have a major crush on him lol. But he has a gf and they dont really see each oth...

Should I stay with my best friend, my ex husband? Or move across the country with my current boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I have a very complex issue, and im sorry in advance for this long story, but I need help. From the beginning: I married at 17 , had 3 kids by age 24 and an alcholic husband. In 2004 I met some one online who I ended up leaving my husband for , an...

Is he just using me when he feels the urge?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I had great, great sex with a guy I've met online, and we seem to get on well. After sex he doesnt just disappear but hangs around and chats, and we both feel at ease with each other. But then he disappears! I texted him after 2 days later and s...

Can I ask her to wait 18 months until I return?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Okay so this is kind of weird. I'm a architect, lesbian and from manchester. 7 months ago I got talking to a girl on facebook (i didnt know her she's from london) she's gorgeous, we really clicked, and was talking every day for hours. I had a ...

We talked for 7 months and I found out he is still with his ex. And he denied our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I am a young girl of 21 years old and just had my heart torn out by the guy i least suspected would do it. I have this guy friend who i have gotten really close to...we both went to the same high school and while in high school we b...

He keeps screwing around with girls online!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - okay so my boyfriend is screwing me over , around december i found out that he made a my yearbook account and a seperate msn that i never knew about and was tlaking/ fliring with chicks and doing shit on webcam with them , i found out wat abck then ...

Why is he doing this?? Does he just want SEX?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - a guy i met on plenty of fish dating site.. we've met in public once he says he wants to come to my house and chill with me cos HE HAS NO MONEY TO TAKE ME OUT. but he drives a very posh car and has a good job. i said i want to go out on d...

Should I meet him once and for all or just be happy for him with this girl?

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18 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I know a guy since 2003 and I was infatuated with him eversince i laid eyes on him. The problem is, during the time that I see him..he doesn't have a single clue how i felt about him. We were not even friends. I just communicate with him through ...

Why is he here with me when he has openly admitted he still loves his high-school sweetheart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Little back ground on us... My husband and I met on-line in spring 2005. We had a long distant relationship for a very short while before he asked me to move to Maine from Ohio to be with him, so I did... what did I have to lose right? I was single, ...

I think he hates me, but please don't tell me to dump him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I honestly think my boyfriend either hates me, is embarrassed by me, or is disgusted by me. Here's our story (it's a little long, but I feel it's necessary to portray him appropriately): We met on an anime themed chat site kind of like Gaiaon...

Ideas for things to do to make the her know I care, when meeting my online girlfriend for the first time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - hey guys, i was just wondering if you could help me out here. So im meeting my online girlfriend for the first time in about a week(im going to be careful, cautious, all the good stuff.) I have grown very attached to her, adore her, and want to show ...

Does this guy I met online sound like he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - i met this guy on a dating site 2months ago..we've txtd and chatted on msn since. my problem is i really like him..even though i dont know him well. this was our last convo on msn earlier today. HIM: can we meet and some point this lifetim...

Lied about my identity but found the man of my dreams!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Used a fake name and picture. At first it was just a fun account that my friend created and then I started to develop feelings for this guy. It went on for a few months and I finally had to come clean to him because I was falling in love with him ...

She moves very fast...should I run?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

17 February 2010 (?) - So... I met this girl online on a dating chat site. The kind where you have your own avatar and walk around a virtual world and etc. We have been together on this site for about... 2 weeks give or take. spending upwards of 8 hours a day with each ...

Does a relationship goes with money or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, i have a problem. there is one girl. am older than her. am 23 and she's 18. we met on the internet. we are planning to see each other. we supposed to see each other on valentine day but she disappointed me. when am calling her, she's ...

Why has he started talking to me again all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - What would make someone that you like start talking to you again? He wasn’t talking to me online for a long time he wouldn’t text or talk to me on any social network. I haven’t did much in that time I only gave him a present for Christmas and gave ...

My boyfriend has caught me flirting online, and now he hasn't spoke to me for over a month!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - question to the guys. my boyfriend of four years has caught me flirting online. its not the first time and we always broke up because of it. i never cheated i did it for a laugh when he was at work,i did text them but never met any. i denied it and ...

What should I text back to him? I only suggested we go out more as a couple rather than staying in all the time and he has reacted really badly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - a guy i met on plenty of fish website.. on out 1st time seeing each other we went for a Drive..but he wanted to come and hang out at my house i said no. he says he wants to come to my house and chill with me cos he has no money to take me...

Need opinions on what happened to me..thank you for reading!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - I am writing this as my "burn letter", to free me from the pain I am going through and to try to get over this and ask people what did I do wrong so please bear with me and read this, thanks! I went about 4 times with a girl in nov. 2008 (we were...

What can these guys online give her that I can not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a girlfriend problem. We've been seeing each other for about a year now, but lately I've seen a different side to her. She's always been a little edgy when it comes to my exes, never wanted me to talk about them. But now all she ...

How can I deal with my problems? Her past haunts me and makes me so jealous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - I have been talking to a girl online for the past 8 months. We have had video, voice chats, phone chat, text chat. I first met her on a friendship site. We started talking on a messenger and soon we became close friends. And slowly the friendship ...

Is he blowing me off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I was supposed to go on a second date with this guy Saturday night. We originally met from online and i think i played my cards right from the beginning b/c i know he gets busy with side jobs and i never called him much or texted much..we met at a ...

Why is he treating me like dirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I really need some advice met a guy on the internet, been talking to him for a few months, everything going fine. I know this bloke has a busy job which involves a lot of travelling. I had his mobile number and his email address and could contact ...

What did I do wrong?? Have I scared him off already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - i met a guy on plenty of fish dating website.. he was really sweet and would call me every day and would actually ring when he says he would. i met up with him on friday.. we went for a ride.. got something to eat..did a bit of kissing.. he ...

I'm so confused, is he interested or is he confused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Right where to start met a minute on the internet 6 months ago haven't met him yet as he live quite far away from me. I must admit I have trust issue because of previous relationship one being my son's dad. Anyway thought this man wanted space so ...

He called me his "casual friend" at the end of our date! How can I talk to him about this without appearing to be clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - A couple of weeks ago I met up with a guy I've been online friends with since last summer. I've had feelings for him for some time. We had a great day, typical date- cinema, meal, then to finish we went on a walk and got to know each other some more ...

I feel like he is my soulmate but he is moving away for a new job, is there any hope for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hey Yall thanks for answering; i'll try and only give you the important info so i posted an online personal ad, and the first thing i said was that i want a monogamous relationship.this guy responds, i totally don't think i am going to like hi...

Dating sites... what a load of con men!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Well I would just like to tell any person that gets involved with a bloke on a dating site to be very careful. I met one I actually thought was a decent one never met him just talked. I actually thought something was up so offered to leave him alone ...

Terrified to meet up with him in case he doesn't like me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I've been talking to a guy online for a while. i really like him and he really likes me. i like everything about him, his personality and his looks but he lives in a different country so i cant just go on a date with him! hopefully in a...

I feel neglected and stupid, I don't know what he wants from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I have this friend in Afghanistan right now. I know he's been very busy and working hard. We talk on Facebook and recently added him on Skype. The other day he had poor connection on Facebook so he sent me a note on Skype telling me we should u...

What should I wear on our second date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - I am going on a second date and trying to decide what to wear..when we first met after e-mailing on a dating site..i wore my black jeans that i like, and this top that shows cleavage with a black sweater and boots this time i was thinking of wear...

At first he seemed interested, and now he only chats for sex. What happened?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - i met this really amazing guy on a social site and we would talk for hours everyday then it moved to sending naught pictures then it moved to the webcam.then he started disappearing and getting offline when i would get online.and giving short ...