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writes: I am seeing a guy i met online for a 3rd time..he seems really open and interested..we met saturday night for a drink and then he offered to go to dinner and then we got another drink afterwards at a different place and then he drove me home..and he said he would see me tomorrow if i wanted so i agreed..the problem i don't have that many great date outfits in terms of jeans..i am still trying to lose a little more weight to fit back into my favorite pair..so since then my new favorite pair has been these black stretchy type..they look the best on me out of all the ones i have right now..i wore the black jeans saturday night with a cute top that shows cleavage and a black sweater over it..sunday i went for a little more sexy look wearing a jean skirt and a top.I am seeing him tomorrow and i want to wear my black jeans again and a different top with a black sweater. Is that bad to wear the same jeans? i am thinking maybe bc they are black he will notice them more or something and notice i wore them already? just wondering how it appears. With my last boyfriend i had 2 pairs of favorite jeans and basically switched off..but right now the only pair i like are the black onescan i wear them again tomorrow without it looking bad?
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reader, boo22  +, writes (23 February 2010):
 If you can, buy some sort of eye catching accessory, that will be all he sees. That's if you feel so strongly. I really doubt he'll notice hun and even if he mentioned it ( NO CHANCE ) you just say you bought a few pairs cos they were the perfect fit. Good fitting jeans are hard to find.
Have a great time x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): yes, wear them. more often than not he wont notice and even if he does, wont care. Have fun! Mal
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (23 February 2010):
 To give you a bit more insight on the male mind, I have 4 pair of identical pants. In High School All my jeans were same brand same cut same color. So I agree no need for you to go shopping now, he is not going to notice.
But...
My Brother in law is completely different. To him clothes are very important. You would have to carefully observe what your guy is wearing to know if he is this type.
FA
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (23 February 2010):
 Fundamental misunderstanding of the male mind. He has no idea at all what you wore on your last two dates just that you looked nice.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 February 2010):
If he's wanting a third date, then he likes you already. From a male point of view, I'd say that he's more interested in you than clothes. Chances are he won't notice something like jeans. He'll be more interested in you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): I disagree, wear something different. If you wear the same jeans for the third date, it is a little strange. He might think that you don't want to make an effort to look good.
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (23 February 2010):
 As long as the conversation is good, he hasn't noticed what you are wearing. I would notice the shirt before I would notice the pants.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, veronika  +, writes (23 February 2010):
 I really don't think it will matter that much. Black jeans don't really stand out, so you can get away with it and chances are he won't remember or care.
Personally, if I was out on a date with someone I really liked, it wouldn't matter what they'd be wearing. I'd be happy just to be on a date with them. If he really likes you, he probably feels that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): I am sure this isn't true for all men, but for a lot of them, they aren't great at noticing what we are wearing. So wearing them again is fine especially with a different top, which can completely change the look of an outfit.
The main thing is that he is asking for another date, so he must like what he is seeing.
Enjoy your date, relax and have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): yes, men don't notice that sort of thing. You will be fine.
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