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writes:i met this really amazing guy on a social site and we would talk for hours everyday then it moved to sending naught pictures then it moved to the webcam.then he started disappearing and getting offline when i would get online.and giving short responses when we would talk.i was really falling for this guy and didn't know what to think.i don't know how many times i asked him out.if love is such a good thing then why does it make you feel like you're going crazy? anyways then he would only talk to me at night and just want me to get naked. when i would try to have a real conversation about something other than sex i could tell he wasn't really interested.now he wont even talk to me.how can someone act so interested and then one day just act like you don't exist?i'm so sad Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi i'm the the writer of the question..i know alot about the guy we talked for months on a daily basis...however i don't wanna say anything else here...about him if for some insane cosmic reason we were in the same area and was the same guy..that would be crazy...and funny.and i'm over it now..i'm still pissed off but i'm not as insane about it as i was..if u want to know more send me a private message thanks..
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): ohmy! It happened with me too.. a really similar history, but now im dating with him for some weeks
the problem is: i found out pictures of another girl on his computer and i noticed he use to have a lot of girls just to do that thru sn messenger...
please i would like to know what else do u know about this guy, what does he do?job?
i dunno why but i felt i shud ask it to you..
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): May I add...he is probably married or in a relationship and doesn't consider this cheating...just a little something on the side.
Don't get involved in these men's games if you don't want to get hurt :( The kind of guys that do this, do it just for masturbation fodor, you have been used. Never take your clothes off for someone that you haven't met in person and gone out on dates without. Protect your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): i would say you didnt do anything to make him change...more than likely he found someone new. im sorry that this happened but please be careful. there are hundreds and thousands of these guys out there. mal
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionarg...this sucks thanks.i like how you said to stop bothering with him.it's kinda hard i wanna know what i did for him to just stop talking to me and completely ignore me.he won't answer my emails or IM's though.geez i feel an idiot.
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reader, sweetiebabes  +, writes (13 February 2010):
 Get out of this kind of situation right away, he is using you for his pleasure. I hate to say this but I had same experience like this sharing through webcam and it really really devastated me for I thought he loved me but he was just using me...GET OUT OF THIS TRAP BEFORE YOU HURT YOURSELF!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): He was just chatting to become friends so you would start taking your clothes off. Quite a few behave like that inline. And alot of women comply. Thats probably why he became too busy for you. I expect he was busy chatting away to someone else hes interested in now. Its not fair or gentlemanly but it happens. In future dont be too hasty to send picturs of yourself until you REALLY know someone. There are many posts here from girls and women who have found their private pictures are put up on websits by theses guys, they have no morals. Just be very careful what you do online and never imagine you are in love until youve atleast met the person for real. Im sorry hes used and upset you but now you have to do the sensible thing and stop bothering with him. Hes not fit company for you x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): It's called being a player. Now you know what they are like, surprised you didn't already know what a player is? Well from now on you wont fall into that trap again.
If a guy only wants sex, thats probably all he wanted from the very beginning, and now that you're not giving it to him (as in nudes, or webcam porn or whatever you used to do) he's found someone else more willing to perform for him. Yes he was interested in you, he was interested in how much free porn he could get out of you.
Too bad you fell for him, I am 100% sure he never cared about you. Sorry. Don't be "easy" unless you're not looking for a relationship, because then you're only attracting the guys who want only sex.
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