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Online dating: Help and advice

Confused about online guy I like

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - im 13 i met this guy online he lives in mexico and i live in the US he is sweet we talk every day idk if he likes me this happened a month ago i asked him wat he was doing and he said talkin with some 1 (it was a girl) and he said i dont like her ...

I'm afraid he'll reject me when he sees what I look like

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I love a boy since previous year, he loves me too. The problem is we have never seen each other. We are in contact through mobile, now he is visiting my city and want to see me but I am very nervous because I am not so pretty as he thinks about me. ...

Any tips on how to look sexy for him on webcam?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I live 4 hours apart during the summer and we have recently started chatting with the webcam. Sometime we will talk dirty and he will masturbate and I think it is hot. he asked me if I wanted to masturbate in front for him to see ...

How can I control my nerves? I like him but am terrified to meet him.

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29 June 2009 (F) - I have met this guy from a dating site, we chatted over email and then swapped numbers and have texted every day since (a week now) he wants to meet.... I'm 22 he is 25 but I'm sooo scared i have not been on a proper date for months..... How can I ...

He sends and receives dirty texts from random women and tells me this is normal behaviour!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My bf (we've been together 5 years) looks at porn on the internet a lot (which I don't mind) BUT he also checks out adult dating sites, uses adult text messaging services to send/receive dirty texts to random women (including naked pics and texts ...

I'm soon to be married but met someone online and now I'm confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I am soon to be married to my boyfriend of 4 years. Things are great between us that's why we decided that it's time to take our relationship to the next level. He's a seaman and although our times together are limited, he makes sure to call me 1-3 ...

The girl I like is with another guy, should I accept that I'm second best or continue to persue her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - There's a girl that I like. We met over the internet, and have been chatting for the past 2 months. We get on really well and have a lot of common interests. We even arranged to go on a date earlier in the month, but the plan fell through. Now it ...

He flirts but there's no action! Is he just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Ok, I have known this guy for years, but we lost touch. We found each other again before Xmas, and have been chatting regularly via email and text message since then. He texts me every day, good morning, asking me how my day is going etc and often ...

Is he playing it cool or could he be interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Well, I really like this boy, who used to go to my old school, but I left and I hadn’t seen him for about three years or so, but I always remember that he was nice to me at school. So, I Went on skype one day and he started talking to me, h...

Am I cheating on my real boyfriend with my online guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - hello, well i have a boyfriend in real, and i have maybe 9 guys online. i just wanted to know is it considered cheating on my real bf? and one guy i met online and know is planning to come see me!! im scared i will try to avoid it. am i che...

My parents don't like him because he lacks motivation! How can I get them to change their mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have a true love story......we met online and i got lucky. well my parents loved him at first and then after 4 months they started to say he doesnt have a car, and he doesnt have a desent job.....but the working world is harsh and ...

Is it really internet love and should I push my boundaries and send him a naked picture of me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - well i met this boy online and we have been going out for like almost 8 months now hes 17 and im 15 and i really think i love him and says he loves me to. we talk on the phone evernight and text each other constantly he has never forced me into doi...

How to get closer with my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

26 June 2009 (M) - Hey folks! I feel a little helpless about what's going on between me and my girl. So here's the story in short. My relationship with that girl is rather young and a "little" complicated. At first I have to say that it's actually an internet b...

I thought he had changed but he's doing it again! Am I a fool to think he'll change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Advice needed please (would be interested to hear a male perspective too) - my bf and I have been together 8 years. Last year, I found out he was posting on adult dating sites, sending/receiving explicit texts (including photos!) to adult text ...

Online guy now wants to meet me and I'm afraid because of my weight!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - I met this guy on a dating website, we exchanged pictures, emails etc its still early days but he wants to meet up for a drink the only problem is hes a personal trainer....and well im a curvy girl who doesnt exercise and doesn really watch what i ...

I met her online and now I want to take it to the next step

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - Hi. I met a girl online through a gaming instant messenger. At first it was just like talking to anyone else but actually spoke about stuff and our conversations were long. She gave me her MSN addy and for more than a month we've spoken almost ev...

How common are these "dating rules"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - I have a general question about dating. I am 39, originally from Ukraine, and have been living in US for the past 13 years. Where I grew up (or at least at the time I was dating back there) there was no concept of becoming exclusive with someone ...

Have I been played? I feel like she's stringing me along...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - Have I been played? Hi all. I've been talking to a girl over the internet for the past month or so. It started off really well. We seemed to have a lot in common with each other and really on the same page. After a while, and it didn't take very...

I've asked him to stop but he won't - what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - My husband is flirting over the internet. He goes into instant messenger and flirts with women all over the world. When I confront him, he says its just a joke, nothing serious, it just a hobby. One of these ladies told him she would be visiting ...

I don't want to break his heart - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - I have been talking to this guy I met on the net for the past 2 months. We had really hit it off. We talked forever on the phone and the net. I knew what he looked like and all and I knew he was overweight and I wanted to look past that, also he ...

How do I confront her about her escapades with her ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I am newly separated after 27 years of marriage. I met a wonderful woman through a dating service and have been with her for eight months. She was married for 17 years and had a kinky sexual relationship with her ex. I have no problem with that. He ...

Was he trying to fob me off with his excuse?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I've had a couple of dates with a wonderful man, the trouble is we met through a dating site, and left me wondering if he was also contacting other women, I got very drunk Saturday and he called me on the phone where I began ranting and raving about ...

Is this girl I met online really busy, or is she ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Hi all, OK so last week I started talking to a girl who goes to my college and lives near me, on Myspace. We exchanged screenames and chatted on AIM several times. I felt like we hit it off very well, our conversations went both ways, she was gi...

Not sure of my feelings for him or what to do about it?

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22 June 2009 (F) - Hello: I finally went out on a date with a man I've been corresponding to via online (where we met) After a terrible breakup with my (cheater,liar) this guy has been calling me, sending me beautiful texts, and ecards. We finally met, I was nervous ...

My internet lover has been a liar from the beginning

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Hiya I have a question for you I met a guy online (as so many of us do) When i finally met him the first thing was the picture was not of him. He had put another face on of a handsome guy as he himself is not at all attractive. Looks are no...

Should I add her on Facebook and see if her personality matches her great looks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - so, i go round my friends and goes on facebook and says "hey look at this girl, shes really fit" etc etc. and she looks amazing .. i cant really explain totally, but i find her very attractive but .. she lives along way away so i cant like go to ...

Is the guy for me right under my nose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - hiiii oki.... well there is a guy i've known since primary school! in highschool we never talked much and him and his "mates" used to sort of pick on me and stuff nothing major just still pants stuff. anyways... years on we still talk and occasion...

How could he love me and still be on dating sites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I just reunited with my ex. We broke up for about a month, during that month it was a back and forth deal, he would text me missing me terribly and vice versa. I can't say what my status is with him right now. He's been on dating sites while we were ...

He's sending out a lot of mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Hey, I've been speaking to a guy I know on msn for a few months. We go to the same college and he is very good friends with two of my best friends. He decided to add me on msn after we became friends on a school trip last year. Since then, we have ...

Online Dating Advice for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 June 2009 (M) - Hey! I am relatively new to online dating and just need some advice about the process. I've exchanged messages with this girl for about a week now. We seem to have a lot in common and the back and forth messaging has gone very well so far. Also, ...

Maybe I should persist. Maybe I should give up. Help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - I’m discouraged. This is really disheartening… After giving up on online dating a while ago I recently got a message from a girl that surprised me. She’s great and meeting her like this was really unexpected. We chatted, we met up, and after ea...

I have to chose between Man A & Man B and I don't know how to do it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - dear readers, i am very sorry for the lenght but i have to explain. Please dont get discouraged by that. Read it coz i need ur help. i had an internet relationship last year that was ignited in august 2008. We got so used to eachother that i...

If there is definite chemistry, why no follow up communication to the initial meeting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - If there is definite chemistry between a man and a woman, why would the man back off? What causes a man to feel scared or is it some other emotion? After nearly 8 months of communicating albeit online, on phone, texting, whatever, the day came to ...

I'd like to know how he feels but don't want to be pushy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - I initiated contact with a guy online and we've so far exchanged lenghty messages. I must admit that I have been driving the conversation a bit more than him by asking questions about which we both then talk. He does ask things but isn't very ...

Obsessed with 14 year old girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, how would you describe this? 20 year old literally thinks about girl 24/7 heart starts to pound very fast when girl signs in online/offline looks at picture of girl (that she sent) for minutes on end constantly goes back to me...

He is terrible, why can't I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I met this guy online on a website not for dating. He contacted me first after I posted something about a video he did. He is the same age as me and kind in the same situation. Neither of us had been in a real relationship. I was not looking for ...

My first telephone call with her....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - first contact. so... ive been msn-instant messaging this girl for about 2 weeks now. she gave me her number and said to call or sms her. so i sms'd her (it was late) - over the next two days, we sent (she sent first, on the first day) (I sent...

We've never met..should we meet a theme park?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - Is this a bad idea? Recently I met a girl through a dating website. I think we both have a lot of things in common and our friendship has grown over the past few weeks. We arranged to meet up last week, but a couple of nights before hand she ...

Worried I've lost a good friendship and possible future relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I need some help understanding what a lad I know is thinking about our friendship. We met by chance through a mistake on a networking sight and are both very similar with lots in common and both hurt in past relationships so it seemed fate had ...

Should I talk to his mother about my boyfriend? He doesn't open up to me

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18 June 2009 (F) - hi, my name is Lien, from Vietnam. I have had a online boyfriend and we've been together for 8months, he's china, im in vietnam. As his plan, he will go back usa to see family and then him and his mom are going to come here for me at the end of...

Online guy seems great, but can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Ok well, there is this guy i met on the internet he's 19 and well im 14...and...when i first met him he lied to me about his appearence sending me a false picture (i found that out on google images)so i caught him and he said that everytime he would ...

She's overfriendly with other guys on social-network, it's making me insecure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. I have a long distance relationship. She is over 30, divorced, have a child with her and I am 5 years younger. It has been 1 year and we fight a lot. It has been 1 week we didn't contact each other. Out of blue, she called m...

He hid his profile on the dating site?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I’m on a dating site and recently I emailed a guy who I liked the sound of. He responded and we’ve been emailing ever since. After our first email exchange he hid his profile. I can still email him but his profile isn’t visible to anyone else o...

Am I being too cold towards him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I had met a wonderful guy from internet, we date once, on the whole it was nice, he's a gentle and caring guy, I shall say he is a potential guy that I'm longing for...as I'm a abit shy towards new friend, most of the time he talked and I jus...

Did I betray his trust by talking to our friend about things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - This guy and I have been chatting via facebook and e-mail for over three months now. We met twice in person and he's friends with my best friend - they work for the same company and spent three months away from home on course together. For the p...

I feel embarrassed we met on a dating website

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - Me and my bf met through an internet dating website. I am dreading all the questions that will come from my friends and family when they ask "how did you two meet?". I feel a bit embarrased that thats how we met. People often associate sleezy people ...

Haven't met yet in a year and I'm feeling insecure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - hey guys, well me and this girl have been dating over the phone for a year now and we havent met because she has trust and insecurity issues. Her last relationship was unhealthy with her ex abusing her sexually, physically and cheated on her as ...

Finally meeting her but a friend is coming along too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - A brief background before my question: I had recently been talking to a girl (initially via e-mails, then IMs and texts, and phone calls) and we had really hit it off. I never get my hopes up with these sorts of things because my luck doesn't seem ...

I've always believed guys should make the first move but I'm tempted to email him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - I've always believed that a girl should let a guy approach her, contact her and pursue her. I've 'chased' a guy before and it's never worked so this is why I think this way. I've recently been using an online dating site and I apply the same s...

Dating on the phone for a year and she won't meet me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - Hi,well me and my girlfriend have been dating over the phone for a year now.and i belive we fell in love and from the bottom of my heart i truly love this girl she is everything i have ever wanted.but the biggest problem is the fact she wont meet ...