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writes:dear readers, i am very sorry for the lenght but i have to explain. Please dont get discouraged by that. Read it coz i need ur help.i had an internet relationship last year that was ignited in august 2008. We got so used to eachother that i couldnt go a day wtout chattn or talkn to him on net or thru our phone lines. We were so in love bt hv neva met b4 n i found out he lives just opposite my block. Though he was schooling outside the country then.By november, i met another guy i call Mr. B. at a park. He got obsessed wt me for jst bein his friend and i always ignored him. He was still there caring and overlooking all i did to annoy him.By january 2009, Mr. A, the internet lover started ignoring my msgs n calls. He wud spend a week wtout contacting me or leaving me even an offline. I was still there. He was not there for me and he only texts me once in a wyl to say he is so busy thats why he is not there for me. I was heart broken. I told him i cant stand it bt he just didnt stop ignoring me but for silly txts. It got bad that he contacts me once in two weeks or so. For three months. I was pissed n tired of struggling so i ignored him too.Mr. B was still there and still being consistant. So i gave him a chance n found myself falling in luv wt him in a month. I accepted his love in march and we were both sooo much in luv while i was trying to forget Mr. A. Things went good and our parents got involved in the matter. We were getting married b4 december 2009. Just then, Mr. A came home for break and he got all over me. Like our first meeting started a fire in his heart. I told him bF he came back that i have a new boyfriend coz he left me but he didnt buy that. Now i am tied between two guys n i have to choose 1 coz none of them wants to leave or accomodate the other being close to me. Whom do i choose? I loved Mr. A so much and Mr. B, i cant cheat on him. He is extra nice and i went through alot of problems before getting my parents to accept him because he is just a year older than i am. Please advice me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): thank u very much for your advice. I have decided with your help and i pray for you both, for ease in any situation you find yourselves. Thanx. XxX
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reader, desesperada  +, writes (20 June 2009):
 Stay with Mr. B!!! In my opinion, MR. A had his chance and he blew it. Why should You want to be with him now when he didn't want to be with you back then? It seems to me that he is just all over you because hes back in town but once he leaves again he will ignore you all over again. It is apparant that this guy does not love you as much as Mr. B does so don't ruin a good thing for that loser! (Mr.A)..Guys like Mr.A are exciting and irresistable but they are also unstable and will definitely break your heart in the end...TRUST ME i know from experience. ..don't ruin a great thing! ..
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