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Archived questions from: July, 2009 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

My wife had filed divorce because of my internet addiction, how can I get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for almost six years. It is a second marriage for the both of us. When we first started dating the passion and love making was amazing. As we continued dating and became engaged, things stayed fantastic. As we ...

I'm in love with an 18 year old I met on the internet. He told me he wants sex, and I do too.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - I am 14, and have fallen in love with an 18 year old over the internet, we have been on webcam, shared pictures, text and call eachover. he is already in a relashionship with a 16 year old but i love him andd he feels the same, he wants to come and ...

He hasn't met me yet, so why is he making assumptions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I met this man through a dating website he lives in my city, I asked him to be friends with me so he said yes. He told me he has a disabilty his left hand has a nerve problem so its not easy for him to type and he even stopped to drive. We went all ...

I ran into my childhood crush, things were going great, we slept together...and now he seems more distant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I made a big mistake. You would think a woman 44 years old would know better. I ran into a man i had a huge crush on when I was in High School. We bacame friendly while online where we belonged to many of the same sites. Once we exchanged phone ...

Should I go to Sydney to visit my online lover or forget about him completely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I really need some advice regarding a long distance male I have had contact with for the last 6 months. He lives in Sydney. I live in Perth. To cut a long story short when I found him on Oasis I was quite vulnerable and hadn't been long out of ...

Should I keep my options open with online dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I have tried online dating before and on one occasion thought things were going really well with one guy (we had met and been on a number of dates) so I stopped contact with all the others I was emailing. It didn’t work out with the guy I was seeing ...

Maybe we focused too heavily on the relationship and not our friendship? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - There's a friend of mine. We are so close it's unreal, and she told me she liked me. I fell in love with her, and we went out for a month. But then- Recently, she said she just was unhappy, she preferred it when we were friends, and she broke up...

I think he's still logging into his online dating profile! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend (6 months). Things are going good!! Anyways, we met online and still have our profiles up. In the beginning he had mentioned..'yeah, I should delete this profile that I hardly log into.' And as time went by I n...

Intenet Dating: How long is too long to meet after emails and phone calls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I corresponded with someone I met online almost everyday for about three weeks. We live less than two hours away from one another. He asked to call me about a month ago. We have talked on the phone 4 times. He knows my schedule and the weekends ...

He has a girlfriend, so I'm trying to see him as just a friend...but I REALLY like him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - There is a guy I've recently met that I REALLY like. We are very similar, we get on so well together etc etc and the chemistry is amazing. The only problem is, he has a girlfriend. When I first met him, it was online and he was ambiguous about his ...

We've gotten close as friends, how do I know if he wants more too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - okay soo theres this guy and we met through a friend once.. so later then he adds me on facebook.. soo we've chatting since the day he added me.. abt a week and a half ago for abt 4 hours each nite we talk abt everything ... life parents love and ...

Should I meet this guy, who I don't think I'll be attracted to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Hiya!! I have been sending messages to a man on a dating site for about 6 weeks now - he gave me his phone number and said he would like to meet me in person, The thing is he is'nt really the type of man I would go for as he seems to be a bit ...

After I told him I didn't want a one-night stand, he's stopped responding to my messages.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Ok so i recently met a guy that was friend with one of my bestfriends boyfriend and we hit it off from the start next thing you know we are making out. Then my girlfriend and i left that night. So he messaged me on facebook after we became friends ...

He said he knew we would have sex as soon as he met me, is this because I look easy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Met this guy on internet dating. He said he knew when we met that we are going to have sex. Why did he say that? Because I look easy or because he also felt that there is some chemistry? Went for coffee at his place and when I got home someone ...

I like chatting and dating online...Anything wrong with online dating or LDR as a result?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - hi I'm a 14 year old boy. I like to go online into chat rooms and talk to girls around my age. when I'm talking to them I always ask of their features such as if they have a big butt or big breast. I love dating girls online. can anybody tell me if ...

The skype lies

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Hello guys and girls.Im writing a question about one thing that bothers me.When im chatting with the girls they say that they are going offline,but they are still online in the skype? I send hugs to them and they reply to me with hugs WTF is go...

He flirts on-line -- how do I make him stop??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - hey my boyfriend is 16 and im 5 months older than him weve been together a little less than 4 months i really like him he's told me he loves me weve met each others family and friends and were really happy together i can just be myself arou...

"Dating" is shaking my confidence AND making me lonelier!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I found this site by googling the same question almost as Honeybun. I am an older woman - divorced for almost 10 years - had a financee 6 yrs ago for 4 rocky years. My thing is I am older over 50 and maybe I shouldn't complain....please keep ...

How can he make assumptions about me without even meeting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - hello, I met this man through a dating website he lives in my city, I asked him to be friends with me so he said yes. He told me he has a disabilty his left hand has a nerve problem so its not easy for him to type and he even stopped to drive...

Is all as it really seems between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - A brief outline: I met a guy online last year and we got talking pretty seriously straight away about pretty much our whole lives (we just seemed to click). We moved over to talking on the phone a few months later and talk every night. We're due...

Online relationship for 14 months, what am I going to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I've basically met my online boyfriend 14 months ago, and we know everything about each other. I live in California, and him in Florida; being across the country from each other, and both of us going to school, we did not have a chance to meet, and ...

Online relationship-sometimes I feel pressured into talking to him and I don't need to talk every day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, for the past few months I've been talking to a guy online. It's gotten pretty serious and we've entered into a long-distance relationship. He's coming to visit in a few months and he says he loves me. I think I love him too but I can't ...

Is it possible to feel such a strong connection with someone you don't know in real life? Or is it just an illusion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I've met a guy on the internet. We have been talking for a year and half now. We've been always honest to each other, we spent hours of talking, watching each other on cam... I think of him more and more and obviously he feels the same. I feel that ...

Who do you think is right in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - Hey everybody I got this long distance relationship mess here:) I met this girl online and we hit it off. She is in different neighboring country. Not crazy love or anything, but mutual interest and feelings that we like each other. Long ...

I don't know where this is going..if ANYWHERE?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - if you would, please help give me some opinions or advice. with the guy that i met online. we have been talking to each other for nearly two months. we have traded pictures and he has told me that he likes me a few times a while back. if he does not...

Looking for advice on how to decipher the future prospects for me and her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - I am in love with this girl I have talked to online for going on 3 years now that I recently met face to face. At the beginning of this year while in college she met this guy that she was all into and they started sleeping together. He has a GF ...

Is she playin me or what?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

18 July 2009 (M) - hi, I met this girl online...we exchanged numbers and started talking on the phone almost everyday for about a year and a half!we had intimate conversations.. she told me everything of her past relatioships..(she still talks to a lot of guys whom...

I don't know if he's for real or not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - i net this guy on msn and he said i was hott! (this is the first boyfriend i have had) ..... he asked me for sex and i said no. than he asked me out, i said yes i dont know how to talk to him and when i do i always sound like a dickhead, he...

Is it a compliment to be told I remind him of his mother or was it a sign he isnt really into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I met a man online and we hit it off wonderfully in person. We have a lot in common, are both freedom loving and yet value the friendship and human touch. But, he made a comment and I'm not sure how to take it. He kept staring at me over dinner and ...

I don't want to be a trophy or a toy to him. How do I know if he feels the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I'm kind of stuck in such a classic situation: really like a guy but I don't know if he's feeling the same! It all started when I met Stefan last winter at a job fair organised by the uni he goes to. We flirted a bit but that was it as I was stil...

He hasn't yet asked to meet me in person? We met online.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I have met a guy from online. I have been talking to him for about a month and two weeks. He would always ask specific questions about the subjects we talk about. We are open minded with each other. Although, one thing that i dont get is why did ...

I think my husband is having an imaginary affair!!! What to do?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - maybe he didn't hide this from me too well because it truly isn't a big deal? for the last year, my husband has been acting increasingly distant from me. it got to the point where i started to feel like he was maybe having an affair. i snoope...

He visits chat rooms and dating sites, yet he accuses me of hiding things!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my bloke for 3 years. for the last two he has developed a habit of visiting chat rooms and dating sites. we broke up time and time again. i get denial,aggressive behaviour,or blame. he says things like how do i know you dont go on ...

How can I get my online GF to lose weight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - I'm 13, I have a 12 year old girlfriend. She's wonderful. I love her very very much. The strange thing is she's a bit (not a lot), a bit overweight. I'm not a shallow boy that'll dump her because of this, but is there any way I could get her to lose ...

Fallen out of love with my controling boyfriend and can't stop thinking about this other man!

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13 July 2009 (F) - please help, i am deeply confused. i have been with my partner for 14 years and have 3 children, we are not married. i am not in love with him any more, we argue a lot and i feel i am just sticking it out for the sake of the kids, there is a...

How can I be sure my internet boyfriend loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Well i am dating this guy online.... i'm 14 almost 15 and he's 19. We've been dating for 9 months now. He says he loves me.. I've seen tons of pics and him even on webcam so i know he's not lying... he seems like he's rlly in love... but how can i ...

My crush asked me about my trouble but then he didn't say a word, is he just polite and nothing else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I have a deep problem right now, so I have a long distance friend who is or was at least some kinda of crush, since we keep in touch very often and we are or at least were very fond to each other. Well, he knew I was having this trouble and I di...

She asked for a photo of my penis, I sent it and then find out she was humiliating me in front of her friends!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - I started online dating a couple of weeks ago. I have never done anything like this before - and found it really fun. I started it because I wanted to find a nice girl to date. Anyway, I started talking to this 24 year old girl. We were going to go ...

How do I respond to this kind of situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I'v been doing online dating for about 5 months now and let's just say it's been quite interesting. A few hits and a few misses, the usual. I'm just a little puzzled as to what I should do in the following situations. Guy emails me indicating ...

He can't get hard for me because he's chatting sexually online

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - i am married for 29 years my husband often had afairs but stopped almost 20 years now he has now join a chat line and speaks to a girl often where he contacts her but that has stopped she now contacts him regulary he was about to leave with her he ...

He talked non stop the entire date but never mentioned a second date. Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 July 2009 (F) - I recently went out with a guy whom I'd met online. We met up after about 1 week of emailing. The date was drinks only. There were no awkward silences and we spent about 2.5 hours together. The only thing is that he talked most of the time. I ...

Can someone interperate cyber language?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) - i received a message from an online female friend who i care for so dearly and it read as follows: HATE YOU* what's with the asterisk? does it mean anything? i'm just not sure if it simply means that she hates me or more. i really wanna know what's ...

I think I've fallen for another girl...any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

11 July 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, Basically Ive been chatting to a girl who I think i may have feelings for, now i do have a girlfriend of ten months but im not sure how i feel about her. The girl (not my gf) recently added me on facebook and i think has seen a pictu...

Is he playing me for revenge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Does online relationship really work?? Hello everyone. First of all I really want American guys and not guys from our country because I love tall and white guys. I met this guy on an chatting site and he is a marine in Japan. I will prefer c...

This random communication is hard to understand. I need your advice..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - I met a man a few years ago. We had instant, magnetic chemistry and it seemed very special. Since then, I have heard from him several times to check on the status of my independent research and find out how I am doing. Our communication has ...

I'm insecure and I wish he wouldn't talk to her anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - Hi i've been in a relationship for over 3 yrs with a guy i really really love. He loves me as well. We live in different cities and cant meet on a daily basis but talk for over 3 hrs a day..... I do not have any past-he's the first guy in my life....

I pushed him away before, so is he playing with me now as revenge?

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8 July 2009 (F) - Does online relationship really work?? Hello everyone. First of all I really want American guys and not guys from our country because I love tall and white guys. I met this guy on an chatting site and he is a marine in Japan. I will prefer c...

Is it a good idea to have sex with a stranger I chat to in the Internet??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - Hi, Im 15, and i met a girl on the internet who is 19. Ive been talking to her seriously about us and she asked if we wanted to meet up and to have sex. I said yes, shes attracted to me im attracted to her. We have shown eachother our parts on webc...

I don't know what he wants. We haven't fought, but he's ignoring me. What's going on with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Met him on FB and we have been emailing each other for 6 months till we met and really like each others qualities. I am confident that he is a genuine person. The only issue is that he has a girlfriend. It was at the beginning stages when we got to ...

Does she have feelings for me but maybe just doesn't feel ready to give them to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - I am sure my situation is common though not every part of it is common. I will try to keep this as short as possible. I have met several girls over the years on the internet. Not really ashamed of it though since I have had plenty of positive...