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Archived questions from: August, 2014 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Husband is in jail in another country and I'm tempted by others

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - Hi it's been 2 years already since I wrote all my lovelife here, from fling to boyfriend to marriage to break up, I'm still here again and again asking for help aunts. And so I decided to fight my husband and protect our marriage as much as I can ...

Is my husband more interested in porn than he is me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Hi it's mine and my husbands relationship. We have been together nearly 4 years been married 18months, He works away on the turbines which he has done for 2 years he does 2 weeks away and a week at home, which is shortly changing to 3 weeks then 1 ...

I found out my wife was/is a call girl. How do I end this marriage with the least amount of pain?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

29 August 2014 (M) - hi lovely people out there..... im really in mess. i do need your help so desperately .... please. Here is my story. i married a girl just 3 months ago. i knew her about a year. I happen to know her by a friend i used know. She was her relative...

Suddenly eye contact seems too intimate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3734 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - Help! Okay I need some advice, firstly about eye contact, my hubby and I have been together nearly 20 years we've always had a hard trying relationship, but rock on banging good sex life, but I've changed. We've had A LOT of fighting over th...

Is this starting to become a love triangle?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - Is this starting to become a love triangle? A couple of years ago, I met a married couple who became my friends (the woman more than the man). I too am married. With time, I found my friend's husband increasingly attractive, and noticed he is so...

Suspicious behaviour from my wife in the context of a poor marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - Ok so here is the situation. About 2 yrs. ago my wife tells me that she is not in love with me anymore and that we should separate. The next day she wants to take back what she said and work on our marriage. So I agree. Anyways, My wife is ...

I told him everything but he doesn't trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3737 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been happily married for 16 years. Well a few months ago a friend's husband sent me a text message offering an indecent proposal. I was immediately up front with my husband but since he has treated me on occasions as if ...

Arranged marriage -- she tells me her past is too dark to reveal

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - dear all... my marriage was half arrenged and half love. Thats means we met through our relatives and we fell in love. we dont know much about eachothers past. Whenever i talk about past she just refuses to talk about it. She says she wont be bothe...

My wife went too far during a threesome. How do I get past this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

26 August 2014 (M) - I saw someone had a similar issue as this a few years ago. But I wonder if anyone had any current advice they can give me. My wife and I have been together for 4 years and recently tried to spice things up by me agreeing to a 3sum with another male. ...

I found my new wife on an escort website. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

26 August 2014 (M) - hello everyone please help me. i just got married. i knew her from long time back but we werent keeping contact eachother untll we decided to get married. we are from same country but living in different countries. she lived in singapore and im ...

Am I totally over thinking this? I don't want our relationship to be based on lies.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - I got married three months ago, and we have been together for a little over two years. I am probably in the happiest relationship out of anyone I know. In the very beginning I didn't want to be official with him because I was so in love with my ...

The more I find out about her past the more ill I feel

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

25 August 2014 (M) - sorry for the long post but gotta put from the start...i met my wife in august of 2012,she was 23 i was 28 she was a co-worker and from the moment i meet her i was just consumed by her never got tired of being around her and hated when our shift ...

Does him finding ME attractive mean he doesn't find his wife attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - I wanted to know if I have done the right thing or was there a chance that he was sort of serious about that me? There was a mutual crush between us, however we are both committed. His wife works in the same place as he does so do I, however, t...

Is it possible to love your husband but contemplate leaving him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

22 August 2014 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 12 years. We have 2 beautiful children together. Since we got married, our marriage was always been a little tumultuous as my husband tends to be very moody and suffers from anxiety. He has refused professi...

Is it normal for an aged man to like Barely Legal Porn

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

22 August 2014 (F) - My husband is 56 and his porn preference is the Barely Legal porn. He also likes to have us watch it when we make love. I don't want to be a prude or sound like I come from the Victorian era, but is it normal for a man of that age to want to look ...

Our marriage is growing apart and I think he may want a younger woman.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - My marriage is falling apart i have been married to my husband for 5 years and the last 18 months we seem to have grown apart there is no sexual contact if he kisses me to say goodnight or goodbye its like he doesn't want to kiss me on the lips i ...

Am I a coward or courageous? My alcoholic homeless husband abandoned our marriage but blames things on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - I live in Minnesota and my husband lives homeless in Boise ID. We have lived apart a total of three years in a marriage of six years due to his drinking. I moved back home to Minnesota two years ago to be near my children Since I moved back I was ...

My husband gives me a kiss good night and a kiss good bye..that's all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - My husband and I have stopped all physical contact in our marriage except for a kiss good night and a kiss good bye. At first i thought he was just stressed out but its been months and still hasnt kicked back up. He watches porn on our phone all of ...

I want to hear him say something nice about me! Is he still attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3750 days ago

15 August 2014 (F) - So, my husband and I have been together for 5yrs and married for 2yrs. My husband use to compliment me all the time, and me being a woman I need these lil compliments to make me feel better! We've had many of problems in our relationship down to ...

My husband and I are getting a divorce but he refuses to leave the house, which is in my name. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

14 August 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 15 years. Recently we has a huge fight in which he now wants a divorce. He is seeing an attorney who told him to stay in the house in order to receive a share of the money if we have to sell the home. The house ...

Sad love story, what should be my happy ending?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3750 days ago

14 August 2014 (F) - I'm a devout Catholic and married in church. I'm here because I feel like my life has had so many twists and turns and I just don't know which way to go anymore. All I want is peace. Happiness and love also, if possible. Should I do the right ...

I cant get pregnant by my husband. Is it because our blood doesn't match? Should I try to get pregnant by another man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

12 August 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid.ORG. Im 29 married women with no children.Me and my husband we have been trying for a baby about 8 years knw bt now lucky.So I like to know if its is possible to get pregnant if I sleep with another man because so of people say maybe ou...

Husband on Zoosk Looking for Men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

12 August 2014 (F) - I found out last night that my husband is on Zoosk looking for men. This has been going on since at least 7/2012 - but his paid subscription ran out around the end of 1/2014. However he looks at this every 1-4 days. He ha his relationship status ...

I think my husband has a drink problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

12 August 2014 (F) - I believe my husband has a problem with alcohol, and I am just not sure how to deal with it anymore. Everyday, after work, he'd go to the off licence and buy vodka quarter bottle, and sit and drink it all while watching TV after work. He says it...

Our sex life has suffered since the birth of our baby

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

11 August 2014 (F) - Since the birth of our baby, over a year ago, my sex life with my husband has suffered. At first, the obvious demands of the baby and my body recovering was the clear reasons why. After a few months, we started finding time again, and it was good, ...

Is there a cure for obsessive jealous behavior other than therapy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

10 August 2014 (F) - Well im the same as all the people who think they are crazy with there obsessive and jelouse behavour when there partner sees sexy women is there an actual cure not therapy that doesnt work. Ive had my problem for 15 years it doesnt get better with ...

13 years and 3 kids in he says " I have been wondering what it is like to be with other women"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

9 August 2014 (F) - I woul love some advise please. 13 years and 3 kids in he says " I have been wondering what it is like to be with other women" he was a virgin when we met (not that he told me) and he regrets not sleeping with more women. He works away a lot and ...

Wife caught her best friend propositioning me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (M) - My wife caught her best friend saying very sexually leading comments to me. She confronted her friend on the spot and made her leave our house. Her friend called me in tears asking what she could to to fix it. I really don't know what she can do. ...

Should the other woman tell the wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

7 August 2014 (F) - In a nutshell, should the other woman tell the wife? It's after breaking up with the married man (5 month affair), she does care for him very deeply. He has said his wife has seen several text messages and suspects an affair, and that there have ...

He promised he wouldn't have his step-daughter over while I recovered from my C-section, and went back on his word

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 August 2014 (F) - Id like some advice as im not sure if I have a right to be upset or if its just my hormones playing up. to cut a long story short my partner still looks after his ex's child a few days a month as she doesn't see her real dad so hes kept visits ...

I have heard of this thing where you "disengage" from your step children, does anyone have advice or experience in this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

6 August 2014 (F) - I am having a tough time finding permanent work, my new husband and I don't see eye to eye on many things, and my stepson just moved his girlfriend into our house without even asking us. I am actually considering moving out. I have heard of th...

We are both married but the emotional affair is such a turn on! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3706 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - I met this guy , married with two kids but he is just wow. We have been chatting though for about 3rys. I am now falling in love with this guy , I am married as well. The whole situation is such a turn on idont know what to do. Everytime am with ...

My depression is making it impossible for me to find the strength to leave my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3733 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - I’m having trouble leaving my partner. Been together about 15 years, married, divorced and back together again. I don’t love him like I did, too much damage has been done, can’t be intimate with him at all. I am very unhappy and desperately want to ...

Finally after years of no sex my wife was happy to have sex this week. So why did it feel so unsatisfactory and unfulfilling for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

5 August 2014 (M) - My wife did not have sex with me very many years (more than a decade) and in my mind I always felt like sex was that one missing piece that would rejuvenate the relationship. I really missed it, I craved it, and it made me feel lonely that we stopp...

I am married but I feel abused badly by another woman I like

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

4 August 2014 (M) - I'm married and I was having problems with my wife and currently we live in different cities but somehow we have stable life and I visit her 2-3 times per month. I knew an ex-coworker since 2008 and in the same city I work (I work now in a differe...

I want to move, but he doesn't. Are we headed towards DIVORCE?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

4 August 2014 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, My husband and I are both in our early 30s and have been together for about 6 years now. We met and married in the city we currently live in, but, as of a year ago, I've begun to grow weary of this place and am frequent...

Husband is taking off to our honeymoon destination with friends before we get to go, how do I react?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

3 August 2014 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. So my husband and I are married, but postponed our honeymoon, due to finances and the birth of our first baby. We have our honeymoon-vacation planned. So, I was looking forward to it. My husband just informed me that one of his ...

Should I look for my husband or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

2 August 2014 (F) - Hello, So my husband and I are in a long distance relationship at the moment due to work related reasons. Usually we talk for at least an hour every day over Skype. A week ago we had an argument, he got upset and left in the middle of the co...

My best friend has left but I can't seem to move on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3762 days ago

2 August 2014 (M) - We were friends for only a year, but in that year alone, I feel I have been through more with her than a girl I have dated for 2. Her personality was lively. Her smile radiant and her sense of humor contagious. I did try asking her to date me but ...

Major in-law issues and my husband is too controlling. Is my reaction to my abusive husband justified?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

2 August 2014 (F) - My husband has been controlling me in all sorts of ways. He has made it quite difficult for me to have a relationship with my mother by calling her numerous names and whenever I wished to speak to her I had to put the phone on loud speaker so he co...

Overwhelmed. How can I speak my mind? How can I find more life satisfaction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

1 August 2014 (F) - I'm extremely overwhelmed. I am married with 3 kids ages 5 and under. I'm a stay at home mom and i do everything!! Cooking, cleaning, taking care of everyone and i feel like i have completely lost myself. I used to have hobbies and a life and i j...

Feel sick to my stomach. Love my wife, and know it's wrong to text another woman. Need guidance on how to deal with all this, please?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (M) - I am a married man and I have been texting another woman for about 1 year, she does not know I am married. I love my wife very much and I can't be without her, I don't know why I began texting the other woman but I have become good friends with her ...

I know in my heart that something isn't right between my husband and this girl at work

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (F) - My husband and I both got jobs in the same company...so we work together most of the time...I've been there for about 5 months...He has been there for about a year. I noticed strange behavior coming from him and this other coworker of ours...she's ...