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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I found a pregnancy test and a female's picture in my husband's toolbox. I suspect an affair.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - i found a pregancy test in my husband toolbox and a pic. of a girl. he told me that the test and the pic. had been in thier a long time,the test was his exwife and the girl he don`t rem... how do i no he telling me the truth. rem.. he lied to me ...

How do I avoid losing my marriage for being a bad stepmother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - my marriage is on the brink because i dont get along with my 9 and 10 year old stepkids. i have been married for over 3 years. i love my husband and dont want to lose him. i dont get along with his ex and am having a hard time with the kids. ev...

I cheated and we are seeing a counsellor but what do we do till then??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I recently cheated on my husband. We have been talking about it for a couple of days and have an appointment to meet with a counsellor, but not for another week. What do we until then?...

Why did he ask me to buy him pills to increase his penis size precisely now that he is out of town for months? Does he want to impress another woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - My husband is out of our state for work and i wont be able to see him for 5 more months. Last week he ask me if i could buy him pills to increase his penis size. He said that he knows I have told him many times that his size is great for me, but he ...

My wife has given me permission to have a sex buddy....is it a bad idea??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - My 46 year old wife is going through the menopause and has lost her sex drive to the point she has no desire for me or any other man on earth. I asked her to use her hand or to give me oral sex and she refused. She told me to find a woman that is ...

I fantisize about other women and cant seem to have sex with my wife. How can I change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6162 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - I'm married, happily, and love my wife, but our sex life has fallen off, and I find that when I fantasize about sex it's not with her, and then when we get a chance to make love, I get ED troubles. How can I bring my fantasy sex life more to do ...

Have I sacrificed too much, too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - In August of this year I moved to the USA from Great Britain to marry the man I loved. We were wed only 5 weeks ago however I had serious doubts even before the wedding but felt I could not back out as my family had all paid for their trips over and ...

Should I tell my husband who I cheated with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I'm married and very regrettably cheated on my husband 5 years ago. After a few months I told him what I did but not who with. (it was with a guy friend but my husband didnt really know him but knew I was catching up with him now and then) My hus...

Is he no longer interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I've been married to my high school sweetheart for a little over a year and somehow over the past 6 months have fallen completely in love with my boss who is 12 yrs older. My boss and i are friends and have worked together for almost 3 yrs. Over t...

We became rommates instead of married lovers, I feel miserable and lonely and think I should not have married her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - i want to divorce my wife...there is no intamacy or love between us anymore. she refuses to go to counselling now. she says she won't give me a divorce. we've become roommates instead of married lovers. i think we should never have got married in ...

She is unsure if she can trust me and continue with me because I confessed I cheated. Is there hope for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - My wife left me a year and a half ago. We decided about 2 months ago to get back together. But before we got back together I told her that I cheated on her when we were married....she did not know this when she left. Now she is faced with the issue ...

He is constantly on the internet or looking at hot girls on tv and masturbating. How do I talk about this without putting him in defence mode?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I see my husband looking at other women all the time. We have sex the night before and the next morning his is on the internet or looking at some hot girl on tv and masterbateing. I am so confussed and it makes me not want to be touch by him. W...

I'm not a material girl but this older guys meaness with money bores me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I am 40 and in the middle of settleing my divorce. We've been married for 20 years. I met this man 16 years older than me. I love the affection he gives to me. He's loaded but very mean with money. He wont go out for a meal or spend a bit more...

I'm bored and uncomfortable with my life. Sometimes I indulge in very dangerous things!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Howdy, This is bound to be kind of long sorry but rounds to a question in the end.. I am 27, semi hot down to earth mother. Recently I have been wondering about my sexual identity. I have been married for 1 year but together for 10 years wit...

Husband makes belittling comments about my looks

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - My husband is usually a very loving, caring, and sweet guy. We have been married for 10 years now and he has always told me how beautiful, smart, etc. I am. Recently, over the past year or so, that commentary has tapered off and he has even ...

His wife knows about his affair with me, in fact me and his wife go on trips together... is this relationship healthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, I am a 23 year old woman that needs help. My boyfriend is 44 and I love him very much. The only problem is that he is married and has been for about 15 years. I know now that he plans not to leave his wife and his wife and I both kno...

I found photos of her naked ex in our room!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - I (we've) got a little problem (or not). My wife is always very honest with me. She has never slept with anyone but me, but I know the first names of a few guys she dated and fooled around with some prior to me. Anyway, we bought our house a little ...

Thought we were saving our marriage (after his having had an affair), until he became depressed and I found out he bought her a present. Uninterestedly? How can I believe he still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - a few months ago my husband came home devastated because an affair that started late last year was ended in the spring of this year by the other women. he said that he was still in love with me, but had fallen in love with her, i admit our ...

My husband has cheated twice! I forgave him the first time, now he says it will not happen again. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Hi cupid! this's my first time here. I dont know what to say and i still cant get rid of it. I'm married with military and move myself to live in Japan for 2 years before we move back to states. My husband is younger than me 7 years. We have 2 ...

My mother asked to take my kids to see a Christmas time ballet. She bought the tickets before I could agree to this, now I have tensions with my wife too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6234 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - Opionions needed. My Dad past away suddenly this past June. Since then my Mom seem to have boundary issues. She asked to take my Kids to see a local christmas time ballet. I requested that she not buy tickets yet until I check with my wife to se...

Is my marriage dead with little hope of us falling in love again and starting new?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - I have been married for 12 years and have four young children. Over the past few years my marriage has been under stress and was made somewhat better from counseling early this year. The counseling helped me deal with anger issues and resentment ...

My husband posts dirty ads to get off... Will this pattern repeat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I met my 2nd husband a year ago and we have been married for 4 months now. 5 months into our relationship i found a recent an email on his laptop to a female colleague where he was prompting her for an answer if he would want sex with her again as ...

Wife has affair with old man????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - My wife is a beautiful 39 year old woman and and she is a secretary in a State Social Services Office and a 65 year old superior who came to her office started an affair that lasted for 3 months before I found out. It has been 2 years and only now ...

I've fallen in love, but I'm still married, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a wonderful man for the past two years and living with him for the past one year. We are both musicians, and love doing the same things in life. He has three wonderful kids, and I am close to them. We have a great sex life and I ...

Recently she cant get through the day without me...any advice??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

26 November 2007 (M) - Strange situation here... i need to know what if anything there is i can do and what could of caused this. Well my wife and i have been together since we were 16 we love each other very much. Just lately she has become very attached to me and the ...

Could we be at divorce's door?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - Hey All, So here is my problem. I have a wife that is emotionally “not there for me.” I am very bored with my life. I am the one who cooks and helps my son with his homework; I get up early and make my son breakfast, make his lunch, takes/pic...

Several times in our marriage we have gone multiple years without being intimate. I need to feel loved, wanted... How do I leave without hurting my children in the process?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - The Marriage Bed I “Lie” In About a year and a half ago, we bought a new bed. I think it was our third in 18 years of marriage. Our first king sized. If you were to look down on us sleeping in it, you would see two people on the outer edges and ...

For the first time I realise what a poor and selfish spouse I have been. How do I show her my love, how to do it without sacrificing family time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - I have been with my wife for 15 years. We have been married for 10. About 4 years ago I got caught cheating with multiple women. Additionally, about two years ago she found a letter that looks like I may have been doing it again though i actually ...

My husband treats me bad. Now I am in love with his best friend. I was told it was noticeable from both of us, our gestures etc.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for 11 years now and our marriage has always been rocky. I got pregnant and I felt we had to get married. I do love him, just not the way I should anymore. In the last year, his best friend has become my best ...

Get over it. Move on. Your happiness and sanity are more valuable than a husband who cheats or a so-called girlfriend who took part in that. Your opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - i have been reading a lot about affairs. just wanted to get in my two-cents. my husband left me over 20 years ago - we had been married 14 years at the time and did not want children. my girlfriend was having an affair with him the last year or ...

I was a workaholic and my wife left me, I've turned things around now, how can I convince my wife that I've changed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

23 November 2007 (M) - My wife of 9 years ask me to leave 9 months ago. She told me that she held on to hope the last couple of years but had finally given up and eventually fell out of love with me. Her reason are that I was disconnected from our family and was not ...

I am 40 years old and my husband of 23 years has told me he wants us to seperate... I am devastated!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - I am 40 years old and my husband of 23 years has told me he wants us to seperate, I am devestated (an understatment) things havent been good between us but I was really trying to make things work, However he is adament that it is over. I cant ...

I had never cheated before in my life and now that it's happened it must surely mean the END of my marriage? Is there any hope now that I've done this, which he does not know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - Hi all, does it count as cheating say if : you are married, your husband walks out with no real reason for 2 months, you go back when he asks you, but find it hard to deal with. You leave him for 3 weeks and you are intimate with another man. You ...

The more my husband is promoted, he becomes more critical, insulting, demanding. I'm ignorant compared to his knowledge, and if I leave he'd take my children away from me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - where do I begin.... I have been married for almost 5 years. I have two beautiful children and thought myself to be happy... and yet the more my husband is promoted, he has become more critical, more insulting, more demanding, more controll...

My bf is married. We are always thinking about each other, should I feel guilty? Please advise.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is married. We've known one another for years and are best of friends. We are so comfortable with one another and can talk about anything with eachother. I love him with all my heart and my love only get stronger day by day. We are ...

My wife left me and the kids, her sister stepped up to the plate to help, but I'm falling for her, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

21 November 2007 (M) - My ex walked out on me and our kids and her younger sister came to stay with us for a while just to help me look after my children because suddenly becoming a single Dad without any warning was totally mind blowing to me. We've settled down a bit ...

Since and after my pregnancy, my husband's sex drive has reduced to almost zero. On our wedding day "nothing" happened - he said we have the rest of our lives to have sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - I have a 14 month old son and got married 4 months ago. We had only been togehter 4 months when we decided to start a family, in those heady exciting days. Since I got pregnant, my husband's sex drive has reduced to almost nothing. At first I ...

I feel my husband always finds activities that do not include me! I'm bored and frustrated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - my husband spent 7 years going out every night and secretly smoking pot,now that has all stopped he spends every available moment alone upstairs playing on the computer. it just seems that he finds ant thing to do that doesn't include me,i'm so ...

I feel so guilty for cheating on him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - Please help me. I married my boyfriend of 7 years 4 months ago and I love him to death. Four and a half years before we got married I went out with a friend and got really, really drunk. I woke up the next day to find I had gone home with a g...

My husband shows zero affection towards me... Am I entitled to divorce him or should I stay for the kids?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - I have not been happily married for about 10 years, but no one would ever know. Through the years, we have had UPS and DOWNS. I have been to marriage counceling ALONE several times to save our marriage. He will not go. My husband is not ...

Hubby left me, now wants to come back, I would just like some stability in my life, should I take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - Hello just a quick question my son's father whom I am just starting to get over wnts to come back because his life sucks, he thought the grass was greener on the other side, but it wasn't. Me and my family are not getting along, I don't really have ...

My husband always yells about how I raise the kids

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - ive been married for 11months ihave 2 children from a first marraige and a 2year old from this one. my husband is always dissagring with the way i bring up the children, how can i get him to sit and talk with me rather then shouting at me, saying ...

My husband doesn't want kids because ..he fears he might be abusive and/or violent with his kids.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - Me and my husband have been married 3 years now. We love each other to bits and I want to have a child with him. However the last couple of months my husband has been luke warm of the idea. When I eventually got him to open up about it he told me he ...

He lied to me. How do I get over it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - My husband had an 18-month secret relationship with a recently bereaved woman in another country: emails, texts, calls, lunches and an expensive birthday present. I don't think it got as far as sex, but was heading that way. Whilst I was u...

Is our marriage on the rocks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (M) - Hello... This is my issue....I have a wife that refuses to change,whether its with situations at work, home, or with family. We had an in-law problem afew years ago, I am willing to forgive, she down right refuses to forgive(this is after 2 1/2 year...

He left after a few months of marriage "being confused." Maybe a third person involved, is that plausible? He returned but I have a nagging doubt it'll happen again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, if your husband walks out on you after a few months of marriage and the only reason he gives that he was confused and wanted to be single again. Do you think there was someone else, it does not make sense, he said there was noone else, ...

I found shemale videos in my husbands car! We've both tested positive for HIV.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - I have been married for almost 12 years. Six years ago, I found shemale videos hidden in my husband's car. He had rented a post office box in another town to order them. I confronted him then and he tossed the videos and swore never to engage in ...

Don't a lot of prostitutes have to sleep with overweight old men?? I feel like one if I have sex with my husband because of his weight-gain - he's clinically obese now and refuses diets.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I'm 27 and have been married to my husband, who's 32, for 5 years now. He's become 26 stone and refuses to lose weight, despite me telling him that it could cause problems - but he insists "it's better to be fat and happy than thin and unhappy...

I'm totally confused - what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6243 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Hi, i am a bit messed up. I am married over a year now, my husband walk out after 7 months of marriage, i was devastated, left my job and move home, he was confused and wanted to be single again, anyhow, he asked me back and i went back as i still ...

If I could change everything with magic I would be married to the sister instead of my wife. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

18 November 2007 (M) - i am stuck in a loveless marriage. my wife and i don't sleep together nor are intimate with one another. we've basically become two people living together. we definately are not in love with each other. we've been to counselling, but that does not ...