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Love stories: Help and advice

Falling for my best friend.. Do I risk telling her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - My best friend is female. We always joke around that one day we will eventually end up together. But lately I've been taking these comments more seriously, and it hurts when she tells me about other guys and her attraction towards them. I want to ...

I broke up with the guy I had for the guy I wanted but he dosen't want me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - hi, i am phoebe and i am 17 years old. i was recently in a horrible love triangle and i haven't recovered yet. my friend set me up with this guy and he absolutely fell head-over-heals for me. but i didn't like him back. he was too sexual when he ...

Do I risk the friendship by pushing him into romance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - I am a single mother of two children, never married full time student and full time employee and he is a single father of a handicap child stay at home dad with a side job/hobby of window treatments. We meet on a internet dating site which was set ...

Did my husband text her acknowledging a lunchtime blowjob?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Hi again everyone. Just an update about the 'situation' and more need for help. I am the wife trying to come to terms with the texting husband and discovered more texts on his old phone, one calling her a 'dirty little minx' but none of ...

Is it okay for me to text her how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - There is this girl that I talk to every day and I love her but I don’t know how to tell her and when I finally decide to tell her I get scared of what she might say to me so I don’t tell her. Is it ok to like text her how I feel? I get scared ...

Here we are saying we'll wait for each other... What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Im going to just let everything out because I want an answer. First off... I can't believe im writing on a site like this.. but from the answers ive seen.. i want to. About 2 years ago.. i randomly added this girl, who lives in germany, she ...

I don't want to ruin anyone's life, so where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I am working away from home at the summer job and ended up falling head over heels for this guy i'm working with, he is also in the same boat as me, except he is newly engaged. It is so confusing because we both fell in love with each other, ...

Women- what do you do after an unromantic proposal, and Men- why do you do it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Anyone, who got a proposal of marriage, which wasn't special in anyway and to be honest, very disappointing, but still said yes to it (because you are certain that he is the one)? How do you deal with it? Women, what do you do after the engageme...

What is the secret of a successful relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Firstly, thank you for taking the time to read. As alot of agony aunts on here are in successful relationships I'd like to pick some minds about this topic. What IS the secret to a successful relationship? I've seen alot of relationships wh...

How do I give her that space she needs without stepping aside and going away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for 5 years. It has taken me the better half to realize that she is the one. I have hurt her and broken her heart more than once by way of, moving to oregon. My son lives there and its hard for me to be away. I ...

She says that she will not fight for any man, including me. This makes me feel so disposable, insignificant, and unwanted. Am I over-reacting?

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29 July 2009 (M) - She says that she will not fight for any man, including me. This makes me feel so disposable, insignificant, and unwanted. Am I over-reacting? So here is the history on us: A number of years ago I was engaged to Solange but our egos got the bes...

How will I know when it's right to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - I've been with a girl for 5 years and for the past few months we haven't been happy together,we both wanted different things in life so we decided to end our relationship. It is two weeks since we broke up, soon after we broke up i was talking to a ...

How do I explain how I love my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I know this sounds stupid but I don't know how to explain that I love my boyfriend! he has like a hard time feeling loved cuz his mom killed herself and he's just always felt like she didn't care so now he just has a hard time feeling someone ...

Sex and Love- but in what order??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Ok so here's three general questions opens to guys and gals: What's the sortest length of time you'd feel comfortable with been told that your partner loves you? What is the ideal length of time between starting a new relationship and having se...

4 questions in one! Am I in love??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - (I'll say it now: I'm 17) I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now, and if anyone asks me how our relationship is going, I'll impulsively replay "Amazingly!" or some other word like it. But I know that something's just awkward with us. ...

Does this prove women want what they can't have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - ok so I met this girl over the internet. I wasn't looking for anyone yet she found me. we've talked and have been texting and talkin for a couple months now. I would have never thought if meet a girl over the internet and fall in love. but I did. ...

I'll bet you've never read a more messed up story than this one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - Right then there is a girl who i can say honestly isnt a hotty but she is beautiful i mean truly beautiful an angel among men and her personality is to die for. I love her to the ends of time i would go through hell and stay there for 1 million ...

To treat my husband: spend a lot on a day, or pick something that won't break the bank?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months now and I wanted to do something special for him. He works really hard and finds it hard to chill out so I thought of either taking him to a day spa or just for a massage at a good salon in my ...

Is 5 months too soon to propose to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - hi every1, would u say 5 months is too early to propose? my girl moved over here from scotland last year, we met through work and got it together end of feb. i know for sure she's the one. i'm going to scotland with her in 2 weeks to meet her family ...

I'm stuck here for 3-4 years away from my BF and regretting it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - For the first time in my life, I'm regretting a decision I made. I never have before because I've always seen choices as experience, even if I only learn never to make a similar choice again...But now I need some advice on how to live with my ...

When is the right time to tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been with this guy for almost 6 months. every since we met, we spend every second we can together, its at a point where i dont even stay at my place anymore, i pretty much live at his house, im even at his house when hes not there. we ...

Best way to confess undying love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - i need to confess my undying love to a girl before she leaves for uni. what is the best way to do this? jamez x...

I need a bit of a breather but don't want him to think I don't care!

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20 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 3 months and probably been officially together for about a month if that. Last week I had some holiday from work and I ended up meeting his family. Everything was perfect and we acknowledged to each ...

How can I finish with him when I'm so in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Right im in love with this guy,, weve been together on and off for 2 months now,, but he always says he feels weird about the relationship because i am 14 and he is 17 and all of his mates always take the mick. i tell him to ignore it but he says he ...

Should I contact him after so many years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - What should be the best way to get in contact with a lost friend after six years of absence? I was romantically involved (non sexual way) with one of my college professors. At that time he was on his fourties and I want on my twenties. Although the ...

I need to take her off my mind ....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - It first began as a crush 5 years ago. I mean, its stupid enough as is for someone that young to experience 'love at first sight', yet she made me feel that way. The feeling has never ending, nor stopped. Even after supposedly being 'rejected' by ...

How can I chase her without putting on pressure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - My ex-fiance and I split up about 2 months ago. About two weeks ago she approached me via email and we have been talking daily since then, and seen each other almost every day since, but only for a few minutes, just to see each other and talk to ...

Madly in love.... but afraid of marriage! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I have been with the same man for 3years and I am madly in Love with him, there is no doubt in my mind that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. The only problem is that I fear marriage. I trust him with all of my heart, I just am afraid of ...

I'm insecure and I wish he wouldn't talk to her anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - Hi i've been in a relationship for over 3 yrs with a guy i really really love. He loves me as well. We live in different cities and cant meet on a daily basis but talk for over 3 hrs a day..... I do not have any past-he's the first guy in my life....

He told me he loved me and I couldn't say it back and now I miss him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) - My (ex?)friend is extremely made, or hurt, or something by me. He told me he loves me, and I just couldn't say it back at the time. I think of him that way, yes, but I'd never really thought I was in love with him, as he says he is (or was) with me. ...

How do I get my dad to like my boyfriend? And is this relationship illegal or immoral? I'm almost 18, he's 26.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - i am a 17 year old girl, i turn 18 in 3 weeks. my boyfried is 26. we love eachother very much and things are going really well between us... however, some of my family, especially my parents dont approve and say it is morally wrong and some of my ...

I've fallen in love with another girl - but I know my family expects me to marry a Muslim man! What do we do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I've got myself in a right mess and don't know what to do. Sorry if this is so long.. I'm female,19 and muslim. My family are religious, and i do believe in some aspects of my faith but i don't really go to mosque much and my parents don't pr...

How do I get over a breakup caused by distance not a flaw in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - Hey Folks, Two months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend of two years. We were long-distance for most of that time and saw each other once a month (on average). My ex kept an extremely busy schedule (theater + college + work), and my work took me ...

I'm scared of getting hurt if I tell him I love him so how should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Problem! I am with this guy, i'm crazy about him, think about him all the time, want to be with him all the time. Basically i love him. And i want to tell him that i love him. But 1 - I have only loved once before, but that relationship en...

What can I do for my boyfriend that is special but doesn't cost much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I have an amazing boyfriend and I want to do something special for him, we're going on vacation in a month so I don't have a bunch of money to spend. Any suggestions?...

The Most Amazing Guy I have Ever Met

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Everyone has been there. You fall in love with someone who you couldn't be with. Yet, you still love him and thinking about him from time to time brings a smile to your face. My time with this particular gentleman was relatively short and we never ...

All chip in! How do you know when your in love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Ok, everyone has to chip in here, since it's a very varied thing; how do you know when you're in love? :)...

He's moving away, and I'm worried he might fall for someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my perfect match for about 4 and a half years now. Im totally head over heels in love with the guy and i could imagine a future with him no problem. The only thing stopping me is Fate ;His parents have decided to move and live in...