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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok so I met this girl over the internet. I wasn't looking for anyone yet she found me. we've talked and have been texting and talkin for a couple months now. I would have never thought if meet a girl over the internet and fall in love. but I did. I've criticized my friends for trying online dating sites. i mean don't get me wrong I've never had a problem meeting girls and have had plenty of girlfriends. I've seen pictures and we even talked a couple times via webcam. she lives up in canada and I live down in the bottom of the states. I've told her I've have strong feelings for her and she responded wit the same feelings. were gonna meet in person for the first time here in a couple weeks. I've told a couple of my female friends about her. now my question is. now that I've told them I've had two of my friends tell me they have feelings for me. one of my friends is married and she has been giving me obvious signs of interest. does this prove that women want wat they can't have? I mean we've been texting non stop, me and my girl I met via internet, and I've been happier then I've ever been just from her texts. why is it now that I've found someone from the most inconvenient source that all these woman who I thought where are coming on to me?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (26 July 2009):
 It's not just women who do that. I've noticed that guys hit on me more after I've met someone. I think that it's because you reflect happiness and joy out into the world and people are attracted to that. Confidence and happiness is sexy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): This doesn't really prove that they want what they can't have. (Although there's a lot of evidence to support that idea too.)
What this case demonstrates is that women like a man more when they see other women desiring him.
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