He told me he loved me and I couldn't say it back and now I miss him.

A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My (ex?)friend is extremely made, or hurt, or something by me. He told me he loves me, and I just couldn't say it back at the time. I think of him that way, yes, but I'd never really thought I was in love with him, as he says he is (or was) with me. He was mad and hurt and decided we could no longer be friends, but he kept coming back to me anyway. We kept being friends, then a few weeks ago he decided he was completely down with me. He thinks I lie about loving him the way he loves me. I miss him, I miss his friendship. I want to know how to get him back. As just friends. I want to know how to tell him I miss him. I've never been good with relationship things, so I'm nervous and scared.

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A male reader, Odiewoof  +, writes (9 July 2009):

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