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writes:My girlfriend and i have been together for 5 years. It has taken me the better half to realize that she is the one. I have hurt her and broken her heart more than once by way of, moving to oregon. My son lives there and its hard for me to be away. I realized i have gilted myself into feeling like i am not a good father when i am. I have never really left or went away either her or i have stopped myself. I live with my brother right now with the goal of moving back in with her in awhile. I got the bombshell last friday that she is not happy. We haven't really worked on much since the uphevel and need to. We saw this goal and have not dealt with the things at hand. I feel we focus so much on the negative and not the positive parts of our relationship. How do i give her space to help her and for me to let her know how i feel and to step aside but not go away ? Reply to this Question
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reader, BaggiePantsJr +, writes (30 July 2009):
To me it sounds like u left to goto oregon and thats the reason why she's mad. There might have been some other issues yall had but that one would probably be the most heartbreaking to her. If was you i would tell her what you were planning to do. I mean she not a mind reader like how it seems women are but if its the one you gotta put it on the line and be real with her so she sees that.
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