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writes:Im going to just let everything out because I want an answer.First off... I can't believe im writing on a site like this.. but from the answers ive seen.. i want to.About 2 years ago.. i randomly added this girl, who lives in germany, she was beautiful and thats what i did 2 years ago was going around adding beautiful girls.. but she had the innocent vibe in her pictures.. thats what i liked about her.BEFORE i move on.. I was born in germany, i came to USA when i was 4 with my mom..She messaged me and she barely spoke english.. german was my first language but my mom never spoke to me when i was little.So here we are.. both of us writing each other for 2 years... and i mean... writing.. pages and pages and pages full pages not just small things.. we talked about everything and not a day went by we never wrote each other. i am currently talking to her now on facebook hahaanyways, not untill earlier this year we started talking about what weve done and what not.. she hasn't done anything and ive done everything.. aso aso aso who cares, i was happy to here this knowing one day i would see her..well that day did come, currently as we speak im in school in germany for courses but i leave in 2 weeks... fuck. yes i know. 2 weekends ago we both met up in koln... and it was badass... at first when we met, the smile on her face everything.. she is hot.. but she is innocent.. if that makes sense?anyways we were at the bar.. for hours... the funnest moment of my life we were there for hours... talking, playing around... it was fucking perfect man its badasswe go get a hotel room, oh yea.. by the way were both 18... not older. were laying there and i decide to kiss her.. she didn't know what to do.. it was her first kiss and i was so shocked.. but she loved it... and thats what made the night bad ass :D i remember falling asleep and there she was staring me with her smile that i cant get enough of hahawe both leave the next day.. i couldnt see her the next weekend because her mom grounded her because she didn't tell her mom where she went.. last weekend i saw again.. same place.. same bar.. same seat.. and it was a better night.. although that was the last night i would see her.... in person that is.. shes the funnest girl alive for me.. the way i slap her butt in a PLAYFUL way and the way she runs away haha.. and despite we barely know what were saying to each other half of the time. we told each other we liked each other.. and thats when she turned on hardcore clingy mode haha but i liked it.. i asked her who her first kiss was and she me.. and it made me happy for some reason hahaso there i was... dropping her off at the HBF and watched her in window tear up as she departed.. there i was saying to myself fuck.so here we are saying to each other we will wait for each other.. and by all means i trust her no doubt.. but its me that im worried about.. and yes im worried about her too because im the type of guy who wants to be her first.. its weird.. im not sure why..BUT i do get to see her this sunday... sO :DI also want to study abroad in germany... and that means she will be here.. but i mean were both only 18... were young as hellanyways my question is..... what the fuck do i do?! pretty easy question i think.
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reader, dgtonight  +, writes (23 August 2009):
dont leave her dude..you're having the chance to be with her...im living a situation like yours and believe me..i would do anithing to have her with me...
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reader, JazzedUp +, writes (1 August 2009):
 I know this is kind of cliche sir. But please follow your heart. I had a girl that I cared about and waited too long to decide what to do and she was killed in a car wreck before I could tell her anything about how I feel. Just follow your heart. Sure college and school are good and all but nowhere in any of the books you'll read will it tell the whereabouts of happiness. You must find that for yourself...and only YOU know where it is...
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (31 July 2009):
Honey I hate to tell you it is very unrealistic of you guy's to think that you will wait for each other the things is you both are very young and will start to grow and meet other people that are hot and interesting LOL and your feeling may change. I would probably change that to we will always be friends and keep in touch, it's like you said your worried about you and you should be I think you both will be tempted and this has the potential for someone to get seriously hurt feeling without intending too. I would advise seriously not to make any long term commitments. I do have one question why can she not go with you where ever it is you are traveling too.
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reader, IamSoConfused  +, writes (30 July 2009):
Keep talking. You should obviously go for it if you are so into her. You will regret it if you don't try because it sounds like you two are having the time of your lives when you are together so wait for her. Tell HER these things not us. But try not to sound too obsessed as that could put her off you.Good luck :)
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