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Is it okay for me to text her how I feel?

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Question - (31 July 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There is this girl that I talk to every day and I love her but I don’t know how to tell her and when I finally decide to tell her I get scared of what she might say to me so I don’t tell her. Is it ok to like text her how I feel? I get scared because I think she might like someone else

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A female reader, Spannah96 United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2009):

Seems like you are afraid of rejection! But i think that you should go for it, if she didn't like you at all she wouldn't waste her time texting you! Ask her to go out somewhere with you and then Say to her your having a nice time, and tell herr it is nice talking to her and that you like her a lot:) I think you should be moree confident in telling her what you feel! Good luck with it, i hope this helps:) x x

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A female reader, princessjasmine United States +, writes (31 July 2009):

dont text, talk face to face! it makes it so much more meaningful and ur gonna like it better, if u get rejected, oh well, at least u can say u were semi-expecting it so its not too bad, but its worth the try!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009):

hi there, i was in that same situation too, i was scared to go up to this guy i liked but i did anyways and it turned out he liked me too, except he never said anything because he thought i didn't feel the same way. personally

i think that you shouldn't tell her by texting how you feel, i think that you should be a man and confront her.

but don't just tell her straight out you love her, she'll probably think your weird so just talk to her about other stuff and then get to the "you like her" part. good luck

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A female reader, boo22 United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2009):

boo22 agony auntHi, i know its the easy way out texting her,but speaking as a girl,i'd think you were a pussy if you couldn't speak to my face. If you think she likes someone else, then i'd wait till i had more info. good luck

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (31 July 2009):

It's ok to tell her how to feel, but don't lay it all out. You could scare her away by flat out telling her that you're in love with her. I think you should let her know that you "like" her and would like to see where things go, but wait on the love thing.

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