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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Why did she just diss my feelings that I still love her and want her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for about 5-6 months already. We were in a long distance relationship for that time. We had an amazing bond together best friends, lovers we just got along so perfectly. Now during this break up I have ...

Anxious about meeting my boyfriend again after a 3 month seperation (distance)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I will be heading back to meet my boyfriend after 3 months of long-distance separation. I am feeling with anxiety as to what should i do? How can I face him? I suddenly feel so far away from him... How can i control my fear? I heard that when ...

Should I wait this year out to be with him even though he may break my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok sooo. Last year I dated this guy who I was totally in love with but he basically broke up with me a week after we had sex. I felt totally used and hurt. Though he promised me it wasnt something he liked doing but he couldnt do long distance he ...

We are having an affair and she feels guilty for cheating on her hubby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - I am 24 and she is 28 and married. We had a strong relationship and her husband works out of country. She hasn't met him in two years. We started as friends and became very close. It all happened on our road trip to another city while returning. S...

I'm worried my g/f might like her friend more than she likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - hey all, i'm a 19 year old gay female living in the uk. currently have a gf who i've been with a few months. we are in a long distance relationship and although its sometimes hard being apart, its a great relationship for the most part. we have a ...

Are soulmates always destined to be together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl, and about 4 months ago I've met a guy one year younger than I am. Initially it started as friendship, but soon enough we developed a very strong bond, and we started hanging out more and more unt...

Boyfriend heading off to college, how do I keep up a long distance relationship without being paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Alright so my boyfriend is a year older and heading off to college in a 2 weeks. While he's not a hardcore party junky, I'm sure he'll attend a few over the next year, and make new friends, some of which will inevitably be girls. My question is...

Do you think theres any chance I could be with this girl again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - Ok 2 years ago i met this girl and kinda went out with her, she was very obsessive with me totally always wanting my attention, She kept asking me a few weeks in if i fancied her, and i didn't say anything,i was scared and didn't ask her out, i ...

Does this mean he really wants to see me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I really like this guy and he has expressed an interest in me too. But, we stopped talking about 3 months ago because situations were too difficult. He travels a lot for his job so he's rarely in town and I had some things going on too. Anyway, ...

I cant wait until I am 25 to have sex! So how do I convince my girlfriend we will be together forever so having sex now is ok?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - My name is Alex. I'm in this situation Where I want sex and she wants to wait until Marriage. It's hard for me to wait. I'm thinking I'm probably going to marry this girl one day, I Love her more than imaginable. We've never gotten into a serious f...

Why is it so difficult for me to break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I've been in a long distance relationship for 2 years now. We get along very well for the most part. I've never experienced anything close to this before and it's confusing me really bad. I've been in 8 relationships over the past 20 years and ...

Will we ever get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I have been "seeing" this guy i met online for a while, things were going good until he lost his job and moved in with his parents he became really depressed and i was there for him through the whole thing, well a couple days before my birthday he ...

Neither of us have moved on, should I travel to see her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - should i visit my ex girlfriend who now lives in another country. We dated for one year, then she left due to her visa expiring. We’ve stayed in touch and have been talking more recently. I don’t see how a long term relationship could work, bu...

How can I make my 'stand up' bf, end his long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I recently began dating a friend of a friend. We met about a month ago, and in the last few weeks have gone out about 6 or 7 times. I know he is in a long distance relationship, though he has only alluded to it, ambivalently, once (the night we met- ...

7 year relationship.. make it or break it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - MODS NOTE: OP's own title. To start off with, my boyrfriend and I have dated for 7 years. it was great up until last summer. In the summer we dont see eachother much due to us working everyday, we are both 21. whe broke up with me last summer and ...

Why is my ex ignoring me and hanging around with lots of other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - Hi ok im actually at the point where i have been having an emotional breakdown almost every day and dont know what to do anymore. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and I have been left feeling very confused and hurt and need some advice...

Is being 'too cute' a good thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - alright, so here's my situation. i've known my best friend for almost 5yrs. and he's always been there for me, always, he's great. and a couple of months ago i told him that i was in love with him and a week ago he told me that he has feelings for ...

Football for 10 hours a day!!, or is he avoiding me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - i'm 16 an my boyfriend is nearly 18 and in the last few weeks we just kinda growing apart. we live far away so dont see each other that much but we used text all day everyday but over the last week or two he has been spending more time alone like. ...

My friend says it is best if we don't speak anymore, how can I show him things will get better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - hi, i have a friend who lives in another country. we have known each other for a long time. he is in a way more than a friend but it is complicated. however recently things havent been going well. he said something has changed but he doesnt know wha...

Should I give this a shot and how should I go about doing this if my only chance to see her is at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - I have a crush on my dentist and want to ask her out, just for lunch for starters. I'm a 55yr. old male and she looks to be early 40s'. I'm not married and am financially ok so it's not about going after her money I'm doing alright on my own. My pr...

How do I know if my online guy feels the same way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Well, I have been speaking to this guy online. I am from England and he is from Germany... and I really like him. We have been speaking for quite a while and we talk quite a lot but I don't know if he likes me like the way I like him... I don't know ...

So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...

I only see my boyfriend at work. How can I get more time from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 5 months...but it's a bit strange and I am very bothered by the fact that we only see each other at work. We are work-mates 4 days a week, for 8 sometimes 10 hrs a day. He has another job on the weekends...

How do you have an LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - so im going to college in a couple weeks, i just recently started going out with a guy i been talking to for some time. how can we make things work out while im gone? ...

Can I get into trouble for dating a 17 year old even if we have no intention of any sex whatsoever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Hello everyone. I'm 20, my gf is 17 and lives in California. I know the age of consent in California is 18, and this is no issue for either of us. We have talked about sex and neither of us want to go there yet, we both understand and respect both ...

I can't sit and watch him kiss drunk girls while I'm working hard to change!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been on hiatus for about 2 weeks. I have posted my problem here before, and I do admit that my insecurities did end our relationship. The past week has been good. We are talking as friends and he keeps emphasizing that ...

Having communication problems since my break-up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5173 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Hi there.. I was considering remaining anonymous to ask for advice but maybe it will help if others know that I am struggling also. The problem I face is not wanting to let people get emotionally close to me. I don't know if this is a question or...

Nervous about meeting online b/f for first time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Hi! I live in Washington state and I've been in a LDR for a couple months now with this guy on the east coast. I'm going to visit him in 4 weeks and I'm extra excited! Only thing is, I'm kinda nervous too!! I've been in a couple relationships be...

Is my fiance controling, neglectful, abusive, plus more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

24 July 2010 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for about three of the four year relationship. I knew him much longer than we have been together, I would say approximately seven years in total now. He joined the navy about a year after we became a...

Help! What would you do if you were in this long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

21 July 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I’ve been in a LDR for 2 months and I just got back from visiting my significant other last Wednesday. I really like this person otherwise I wouldn't have been going to visit them. I really enjoyed my time spent with them and I told the...

Does he like me or not I'm getting mix signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - I met this lad over a year ago at a sports club, and when we went away on to the annual competition, I realised I really liked him. When we arrived back home, I told him I liked him, and we became very good friends from that point onwards. About ...

Is it an affair if it's an LDR with a married man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - Is it called an illicit affair if you are involved in a long distance relationship with a married man? I never met him but our relationship of 3 yrs are through online chats only. ...

Restrictions on the car driving me crazy, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - I'm 18, I have "supposedly" have a car and I say supposedly because to me its not mine unless I can come and go as I please. The thing is my parents(mostly my dad) wont let me visit my boyfriend often. My BF lives about 25 mins away the town right ...

I don't want to lose him as a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (?) - Well I'm a little lost.. I don't know what to do with my ex boyfriend, I really like him ever since 2/3 years already we were an off and On relationship but now that he has left to another state we have tried having a long distance relationship but ...

Why am I so hung up on not being her first kiss? Is it just the distance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Ok so my first kiss was with my girlfriend almost 6 months ago. I started dating her the during the school year I mean and it is now the summertime. I am obviously a virgin as is my girlfriend. I had never done anything with any girls except "booty ...

I'm hesitant about going further with this long distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of a year dosen't live where i live and it worrys me when he starts talking about children , he lives in another city to me . we have to travel to see eachother but there is no problems when were with eachother , we are in a serious ...

Why hasn't he responded?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for about 6 years. We love to flirt with each other a lot and have fun talking and chatting. The only downside is that he lives far away. I’m in California and he’s in Florida. We’ve both have flown out to see ...

I think I chose the wrong guy! Soldier or saint?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 July 2010 (F) - I made a mistake. I think I chose the wrong guy. When the love of my life (my best friend) asked me to be his, I said no. We've been in love for five years, we just didn't know we BOTH felt that way, and when he finally tells me his feelings of ...

How do people survive long distance relationships? And how can I ease my girlfriend's worries?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 July 2010 (M) - Dear cupid, Am a Zambian and me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost two years. The thing is I will be going out for college to the US for four years. My gf is very happy for me but also worried If we will stand the test of time. Lately ...

Do I need to let him go and wait for an year to see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid My and my bf are in relationship for the past 6 months and before that we were close friends. I would be travelling abroad for my studies and will return back after an year. My bf is emotionally devastated of my leaving for an year. He ...

He says he wants a break!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid My and my bf are in relationship for the past 6 months before that we were close friends. I am travelling for my studies for an year. My bf says since i am travelling that we need to take a break, i.e we can talk/chat/mail w...

Boyfriend accepted another girl's number. Should I be worried?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

18 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are long distance for a few months due to work. We were joking around by text and I was like oh darn I got this new computer, you're not gonna have a girlfriend for awhile! And he goes, it's not gonna be difficult to get another ...

After I deleted his facebook post he won't talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 July 2010 (F) - I met a guy about a month ago at a club in my hometown and we really hit it off. I liked him, but he was way more into me than I was into him. Since he lives about 6 hours away, we would mostly text/im each other. He came down again to my hometown ...

Why isn't he public about us???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Ciao dear friends, i'm a 25 year old woman having a long distance relationship with a man i met 8 months back, he's really caring and calls every day but the thing is, he never takes me out when i go to visit him. i know he's not married for sure ...

I have to choose between my parents and my online boyfriend!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Well, the situation is really complicated. I met this guy online 7 months ago and we started talking. He was a nice guy and we fell for each other and start a relationship. He lives a world apart, but we keep in touch by phone calls a...

How do you cope with being apart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have it really easy. We see each other every day. Sometimes it's all day, sometimes it's all night, sometimes it's just for half an hour. But still every day. I've gotten really used to this. And now tomorrow, we have to spend a ...

In a long distance relationship and she wants to move in with me...how do I tell her it can't happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - ok i am a 16 year old guy who is goin out with this 13 year old girl but we are in a long distance relationship for the past 3 months we have talked on the phone web cam and texted each other all the time i am really in love with this girl the ...

Is it right that he leaves me hanging like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - My long distance boyfriend and I meet over the internet to talk. We had a huge row about a week ago, and we didn't talk for about a week. Then yesterday we got to talk again and things were fine. I had my hopes up that things were going better ...

Was I wrong to have sex with him so soon?

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15 July 2010 (F) - i am in a relationship with a guy from last 3-4 months but i knew him from last 4 years. we were in a relationship some 4 years back but then it was just a childhood fling types. now we indulged in a serious and committed long distance relationship ...

After 8 years I still can't get her out of my mind

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I left Hawaii in 6th grade and I seem to leave "the other half of me" back. For 8 yrs now, I've been thinking of the same girl that I liked when I was in 6th grade. Im in college now, (sophmore) and I still think of her. We talk no...