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*uinos
writes:I have been friends with this guy for about 6 years. We love to flirt with each other a lot and have fun talking and chatting. The only downside is that he lives far away. I’m in California and he’s in Florida. We’ve both have flown out to see each other, but nothing romantic has ever happened between us. He’s shy with women, but when we’re together, we would always cuddle, but that is as far as we’ve let it go. Just recently, our texts and convo have become a little more intimate. So much so that he ended up sending me a naked pic of himself one night. I thought we were going to take our text flirting to the next level, but I didn’t want to send him a naked pic of myself. Instead, I tried to initiate having sex talk. I told him what I would like to do to him, but I never heard from him. It’s been several days. I wonder, what gives? Wonder if I scared him…or should I just feel rejected?
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reader, Quinos +, writes (3 August 2010):
Quinos is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI thought that. I'm almost tempted to contact him to confront him, but I keep thinking what's the point. You think you know someone...
Thanks, dirtball and everyone else for your words.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (2 August 2010):
 Wow, thanks for the follow up. What an idiot. Be really glad you didn't send him a naked picture. If he's trolling your friend pool, you have no idea how many people he's doing this with outside your circle as well.
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reader, Quinos +, writes (2 August 2010):
Quinos is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAn update: I found out that the guy I was talking about sent the same pic to a mutual friend of ours asking her to send him pics of herself. Not going to lie, I'm shocked and feel silly thinking that he had an interest in just me. Disappointed.
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reader, helpmelol  +, writes (20 July 2010):
i think that you should either ring him or organise a weekend together! maybe it would take you somewhere! :) xx
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 July 2010):
You know, instead of texts or emails, it may be time for a phone call. It is much easier to interpret words when you hear them, and you can hopefully get some real answers.
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reader, Quinos +, writes (20 July 2010):
Quinos is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, guys! He did contact me today, but nothing to do with what happened the other night. He's acting as if nothing had happened. I thanked him for leaving me hanging, but no response from him. Wish it wasn't bothering me, but it is.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 July 2010):
He's probably a bit scared and confused. If you do decide to send him a message, I'd send something like "I haven't heard from you in a while, just wanted to make sure everything is ok." This will reaffirm that the ball is in his court.
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