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Nervous about meeting online b/f for first time!

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Question - (25 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi! I live in Washington state and I've been in a LDR for a couple months now with this guy on the east coast. I'm going to visit him in 4 weeks and I'm extra excited!

Only thing is, I'm kinda nervous too!! I've been in a couple relationships before. The first one was with someone I didn't even like, and I just got really stressed(?) whenever we held hands and stuff. Second guy I actually did like but we never got around to any of that. Never been kissed either

Now my guy's a year older than me, and he's less experienced than I am! He's extra excited too, but all I'm worried about is whether I'll be all stressed about it! Especially that kiss!!!!

I didn't like the other guys nearly as much, so maybe it'll be okay?? I'm kinda afraid to hold his hand! Just because of before! What do you guys think? Will it make me stressed, or will I be fine?? Help pls!!!!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (25 July 2010):

Honeypie agony auntHow old are you?

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A female reader, followtheblackrabbit Cayman Islands +, writes (25 July 2010):

followtheblackrabbit agony auntYou're kinda young to be travelling to meet your bf, are your parents aware and ok with it? But to answer your questions, you're both going to be a little nervous, that's normal :) Take your time, get used to each other first, don't jump right into holding hands and kissing or else, it might be awkward. It pays to get comfortable first :p You'll both be fine :) Just please, make sure your folks are fine with that (since you didn't mention if you had permission or whatever) and make sure they know exactly where you are and with who. If they are coming with you, it's all the better though you might think otherwise. People can be very different in real life.

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