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writes:my boyfriend of a year dosen't live where i live and it worrys me when he starts talking about children , he lives in another city to me . we have to travel to see eachother but there is no problems when were with eachother , we are in a serious relationship as we have slept together do you think am just beeing soft ? i can't help but to worry because he said he dosent want to leave his family behind nor do i . What do you think i should do ?
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reader, johannabanana  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 If you are hesitant I would say the best thing for the both of you is to take a break.... That doesn't mean you can't still talk though. I'm in love with a guy that feels the same way about me but he is going to College in another state, so until we can actually be together we are going to see other people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dont mind driveing , but i cant drive nor can he ,
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (20 July 2010):
If you love each other you are just going to have to find a way to compromise. And living in another city isn't to far away. You could always get married and try moving back and forth every couple of years. You could also move in the median between your two cities. What is the big deal in having to drive a bit to see your family on weekends/ holidays?
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