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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

She kissed another guy! How could she do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - I have a LDR and my girlfriend that's so far away called me and told me that she had made a mistake and that she and this guy kissed.. But she promised me she is not seeing her any more. We have talked it out but... I still feel like weird... from ...

Moving country for a bit and unsure what to do with the guy I care for immensely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Ok. Me and this guy had been texting, bumping into eachother on the odd occasion and having very few one-to-one sit down chat sessions to start off with. But one thing is sure, there was some major sexual chemistry between us both. A month ag...

Do you think dating other girls can make her jealous or do you think my hope is lost?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - I dated this girl for about a year, pretty much all throughout our senior year of high school. we took things very slow and over the course of the rest of the school year and into summer we fell in love. We were each other's best friend and told ...

She's looking for a job in the states but I want her to come and live with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - I am having this LDR for 4 years now... My girlfriend went to the usa to study and I remained in Holland where I have my own House, and a good job. My girlfriend don`t want to move back to europe because she has a better job opportunity in the ...

What do I do? Should I avoid her calls? Is she just upset I can't provide for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have dated for almost a year now, but we've dated in the past as well. We've known eachother for a little over 15 years now. Things didn't get really serious till recently, talking about marriage and children and all of that ...

I feel bad for treating him like this and he keeps on forgiving me, what is wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I moved to Denmark half a year ago to be with my absoloutely wonderful boyfriend. but I have been acting strangely lately towards him I can't understand why or where that comes from. I was very depressed for some time because I had no friends, the ...

I'm unsure about whether I should give the relationship another try if we live closer to each other in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship with a guy who lives many miles away from me for 8 months. We recently broke up after I found out that the entire relationship was almost all lies. He has cheated on me twice, lied about his sexual past, and ...

I don't know if I should break up with my LD b/f or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I dont know if I should break up with my long distance bf or not. Now, usually, I am the type of person who is very determined and commited to making something work, especialy realtionships. I dont give up easily on things- I always try my ha...

If he has changed his mind about me why does he not man up to tell me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I was on holiday in France for 3 weeks over Christmas and new year and i met up with a guy who I had met and got with 6 years ago. He works and lives there. He was very keen on me and having just come out of a long relationship, i was hesitant. I ...

I think I may have a problem and that is why I keep on lying to my parents!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I have posted questions on here before about me and my mums bad relationship, which is basically down to me lying about my older boyfriend when we first got together, then lying again a few weeks ago when I applied for my passport so that I could go ...

Not sure what to do about my long distance relationship !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Okay I will start from the beginning when I was in the 11th grad I met a foreign exchange student and we hung out and I took her out to dates and we even stayed over at each other house over night I really liked her. I even took her to prom and all ...

He seems to have cooled things but I don't want this to end.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Hello :) Me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship and get on really well. He used to live near me and go to the same school, but he moved and we didn't want to end it. He makes me laugh so much and I make him laugh too. He's really s...

Did I do the right thing? And will he come back???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Ok so I've known this guy for about year, everything was good. In the beginning he was like, he wasn't looking for a relationship ( not ready/stable I guess) and I was like "whatever" on the whole thing. If I got into one, I got into one, but I ...

My fiance has a problem with her own past and I'm starting to feel like I'm held hostage in this relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I've been in a LD relationship and have been engaged for just over nine months. I really love my fiance very much but we have recently been experiencing problems. We disagree on many issues and cannot seem to compromise as we both are stubborn. ...

I feel like we will drift apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Hi I have been in a long distance relationship for almost two and a half years. My boyfriend did most of the travelling as I do not drive, and I occasionally stayed at his on weekends (around once every couple of months) getting there by train. ...

Why is this relationship so hard to handle? I'm so confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I'm 20 years old,and I just wonder why relationship is so hard to handle.I've met a guy a month ago,and he seems like a gentleman and so polite to me. All close friends all told me he seems to like me a lot.He seems like a honest person and not a ...

I'm feeling guilty for ending it all and not remaining friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - i have broken all contacts with this girl and have gone away from her life forever. ours was a long distance relationship for one year and i had gone to her place in berlin a couple of times to stay with my grandparents during my holidays and really ...

We broke up due to long distance, will I ever get over her?

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24 February 2009 (F) - Since i was young i have only dated guys, but jus over a year ago i met a girl and shortly after fell in love with her. at first i wasn't too interested because i was sure i was straight, but after geting to know her, i can clearly say i fell head ...

Can I trust him again? Should I give him another chance?

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24 February 2009 (F) - After a 5 month seperation, my husband showed up to plead his intentions of wanting to work things out. He stayed for about 2 weeks and we did a lot of fun things together. When he had to leave (he is military and lives overseas) I told him I still ...

What do we do? Choose the holiday or try our best to get this house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - i need advice on what i should do. myself and my boyfriend have planned to go away in the summer with family for a family members big birthday. it will be so much fun i no as we havent been away in a few years. i have the money here to book it ...

Can a thirteen year age gap go the distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi, can a thirteen year age gap go the distance? I'm 35, my partner is 22, we've been together nearly a year and are madly in love, currently we have spent last few months in different countries cos of her work but I am moving over abroad to set up ...

Is my ex worth giving up the life I built here to move with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I am turning 29 and him 31 and we've known each other for 9 years. We dated 2 and half years in the same city. We have been on and off long distance and it did not work. We tried other relationships but never loved another person the way we loved ...

How do I get back with my ex who lives in another country, I am willing to move there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - This is a question for all the men out here. Let's say you love a girl very much but thing did not work because of the distance but you both love each other very much. If your long distance ex girlfriend was trying to get you back but you were in a ...

We broke up due to the long distance, should I visit her now? She invited me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hey, i feel so pathetic for even writing this message. But the truth is im still in love with my ex. She was my first, so i understand that im going to be caught up for a while, but it has been about 4/5 months now. The only reason we broke up was b...

I'm getting mixed signals from my boyfriend and I want to know where this relationship is going

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I need some advice please. I have been seeing this man for about 2 mths. He just took me on a vacation over valentines holiday and paid for everything. He says we are friends getting to know each other. He also has had a talk with me 2 times about ...

I am very sensitive and take things very personally, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - well first i 10xs all that we are helping each us we can my problem is that i am so sensitive and my bf, he lives far away from me so we dont see each ather just talk by phone and he went out with his friends so i texted him that even that i am no...

How do I handle this when she comes to visit me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I was with my girlfriend long distance for 3 years and we broke up about a month ago. We agreed we didn't want to date anyone else and she told me if there was to be another chance we would have to start all over, friends first, but the "I love ...

We want to be together but are pulled apart by different goals and plans for the future, what do you suggest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - My girlfreind and i have been together over four and a half years. We both love each other dearly but there are problems in our relationship.We both want different things for the future. I want us to both live together, do some travelling then start ...

I'm upset that he says he loves me yet he is seeing someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hey cupid, I need a great advice, I have been in a relationship for 2 years one of friendship with a boy of UK... we find each other random in one of the online games groups. The point is that we care so much about each other. 4 months ago we be...

Is my long distance boyfriend just "friends" with this girl or is there more to it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hello readers! I have this problem with my Bf. He's been keeping such distance from me, reason being he's working extra hours and has very little time... Which obviously doesn't prevent him from contacting his Gf. Well, that's what I'm also trying ...

Have I totally scared her off by taking drugs that made me paranoid and needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - This is the first time I've ever posted on any site like this but I really don't know what to do and need some advice from impartial observers! This story revolves around a girl I met at university 4 years ago. We were in a few of the same clas...

I'm 20 years old and I feel as though my mum is very controlling!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Im 20 years old and I feel as though my mum is very controlling. I feel like I have missed out on so much in life because of her 'protection and love for me'. I wont go into the long history of all the stuff thats happened, because that w...

My girlfriend is confusing me and hurting me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Hi all my girlfriend is being really confusing latley, i have been with her for 2.5 years, and i have been in the army for 1.5 years. the other day she told me that she doesnt think we should be together anymore, or shes no sure if she loves me as ...

Where do I go from here? We have different goals!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Hi! This is my first time asking a question ..its going to be long but bare with me please. here it goes. I am turning 21 next month. I have been with my boyfriend, 21, for 4 years now, we have never broken up once, nor have we ever taken a b...

Am I normal? Or abnormal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Am I normal? I'm 15 and me and my girlfriend who I love really much don't have sex because were not ready for sex( but I do finger her sometimes) Anyways My penis is 6 inch and I don't masturbate a lot.. But for me it takes about 20s...

I haven't heard from my fiance in 4 days and I'm worried!!

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20 February 2009 (F) - Need advice. My fiance was layed off from work and has had some difficulty finding a job where we live due to the economy here. The financial stress caused a lot of strain in our relationship. We have an infant son together and I have a son from a ...

Is is possible to fall in love with someone half way across the world?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I am going to cut this as short as I possible can. I am in a long-distance relationship. I met this amazing guy almost 7 months ago when I was in the US, he is part of the same family as I, and we spent time together - it was an INSTANT attracti...

We met online, he says he wants to have sex and then marry me in 3 years, do I believe him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - me and this guy met on orkut (Social networking and discussion site )and we have been knowin each other by communicating by phone since last year..havent seen each other bfore.. he says he likes me and i also like him..he says he love me 60% but as f...

Does my ex really love me or is he using me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5783 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I was planning to move away 150m to start a life with the man I have been in a relationship for 2 1/2yrs(we also have a son). My ex (we were together for 9yrs,started dating when I was 17) and I met to make arrangments with our 2 children. We ende...

Chance to get back with my ex from a long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - I've been in a long distance relationship with my ex about a year and half from the beginning. We were best friends and soul mates that I had a no doubt I would end up with her until death do us apart. I'm a college student, so I only could visit...

My b/f seems to be pulling away and I'm not sure what to do about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Any help and advice anyone can give I would really appreciate it. My boyfriend and I are both in our 20's and have been dating for 4 years. I love him very much but lately (as in the past few months) he seems to be pulling away from me. He is ...

He forgets about me when he is away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hi readers! I just need help on this situation right here: My boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship, i'm very much in love with him and he's in love with me... Well atleast he tells me that everytime we talk. Now he's been currently ...

I sent her an email I regret, its been downhill ever since, can I make things right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - I really need some advice. There is a incredible woman I've been in love with for some time now. We've seen each other for about a year, but these feelings didn't begin till last summer. She's the type of woman I think I would do almost anything ...

Problems with ex husband...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I recently re-connected with my first husband after 20 or so years. We live 700 miles apart, but we are talking about my moving with him and spending the rest of our lives together. My question is, should I trust him and all the things he is ...

G/f cheated while I was deployed, now I struggle with trust issues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - I want to first start by saying sorry if my typing grammar may not flow well. As you can tell I am in the military (air force) and have been for 12 years now. I am 30 years old and my area in work in the military is under special operations through ...

Should I encourage him to ask me to meet up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5786 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - A couple of months ago I spent a fabulous night with a guy that I met through a mutual friend. I have not been able to put him out of my mind since. I didn’t expect to keep in contact with him however, we have been chatting online ever since. Most...

Do LDR relationships work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - ONE SIMPLE QUESTION: DO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS (LDR) WORK? answer however you like.. yes, no, youre opinions or experiences etc. anything would be helpful! thanks...

My current girlfriend just wants to be friends now...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - I was in a long distance relationship with my gf for almost 3 years. After I had met my current for the first time, my ex wrote me and told me she still loved me and wanted to be with me. I had never had closure with her, and told her that I didn't ...

Should I go on the pill in advance and how can I bring it up with my mum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm 18 and in a long distance relationship and have just found out that my boyfriend will be able to come over in August :) We will have been together for a year then :) Anyway, I would quite like to have sex and I think that at the leas...

My fear of flying makes it hard to travel and see my boyfriend so what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I really need some advice here. My boyfriend lives in a different country and we always visit each other alternatively. I spent three months with him last year and got back home December.Now the time is drawing closer for him to come and then rig...